Post: #1

I've been meaning to talk about this subject for the past few days, and the thread about making a girl be exclusive to you made me realize I needed to share my thoughts on this particular subject immediately.

First, let's get into what is your job and what is not your job.

Your job is to go after the women you want to be in your life. When you do this, you introduce her to your world, you communicate to her via actions that there is a place for her it in, and then the choice becomes to hers as to if she wants to be a part of it.

Don't waste your time on females who aren't giving you all indications that they are down.

To be in your world, you need 100% cooperation. That doesn't mean she has to be available when you want her to be, but she should be open to doing things with you that you want to share with her, and when plans are made to do that, if something comes up, then the onus is on her to make it right.

Part of your job is having a code and a set of rules that can't be broken, if they are, game is over, she's out of your would.

Your job is not to seek exclusivity from her.

Why?

Because you can't control her. She's going to do what she wants to do regardless. If she wants to see multiple guys for a variety of reasons, that's what she wants to do, you can't make her do otherwise.

She has to want you. If she wants you, then she will be exclusive to you, because she understands that if she's not, then she can't have you, and having you is of the utmost importance to her.

What you should be focusing on is your desire to be exclusive.

Gentlemen, your exclusivity is earned. It's not granted just because she expects it since you two on some level are having some type of relationship.

You are a desired man. Other women besides her would like to be a part of your world. They would like to have their minds stimulated by things that actually matter. They'd like to learn new things, have new experiences, touch your body, feel you cum inside of them, just bond with you.

If a woman wants you to only do these things with and for her, then it is her job to lock you down.

Through actions, she has to demonstrate without a doubt that you don't need another woman, that she's willing to take care of the things that matter to you, so that you don't have to hit the streets to find other options.

If she can't do it, then she's just not that bitch, either because she's just not good enough to be, or she just doesn't want to be.

Just remember you, the man, is her greatest accomplishment. She can have all the girlfriends in the world, but those bitches can't give her children.

Those bitches can't give her the lifestyle and family she's always wanted.

Those bitches won't carry her casket the day she's buried.

Hell, those bitches will throw her aside as soon as they find a man like that for themselves.

Modern society has taught these women that they are all-powerful, that they can be and do anything that we can, and they can if they really want to, but while these women are busting ass to get degrees, careers, money, etc. they want their greatest accomplishment to just be handed to them. Moreover, they want it to jump through a million hoops just so it can give itself to them.

Fuck that noise.

If she can earn all that bullshit, then she can earn you too.

Make her.

Post: #2

Jariel, while all you said may apply to most American women, some women want to be "taken" or "snatched" or "grabbed" away from their world by a man.

A more direct "you are mine" kind of approach if you will ...

Of course this is assuming you have enough value to keep her after that.

Post: #3

^^ Why would you want to snatch one woman when there are thousands of better options out there?

Isn't banging a woman regularly enough? What more do you want from her?

If you want to 'snatch' up a woman then 'snatch' her up with an engagement ring. If you don't plan on that then why is the thought of 'snatching' even crossing your mind?

It reeks of neediness to me and it displays a poor understanding of the Abundance mentality.

Post: #4

I don't mean snatching for exclusivity.

Post: #5

What is happening today, is that women are telling men exactly that. You have to earn a relationship with me and a lot of men are lining up to do exactly that. Having minimum standards that you demand of women is critical. As Dr. Phill said: we teach people how to treat us. If you allow a woman to disrespect you and treat you like crap then that is exactly what you are going to get.

Post: #6

Good post Jariel ! I think it would be a good article on ROK. Bachelor lifestyle's is not a endgame for everybody and good ways to have healthy relationships should be more covered.

Post: #7

Even Roosh is moving onto relationship game these days...

Post: #8

What you describe is basically the sheer interest and desire for a girl to be with you.

Other characteristics for a potential mother of your children should be:

- she absolutely into you
- she desires you sexually a lot
- she has a feminine innocence and charm
- she absolutely wants children with you
- she accepts Red Pill to a high degree and sees you like the authority in the house

Those points easily add 3 grades to a 6 and make her a LTR 9. If she is an 8, then all the better.

The notch count does not factor into this, but I personally have not met a girl who had a notch count over 15 and had all those characteristics going for her. Most girls who embodied those points had N-counts of around 5 in Eastern Europe or Asia or around 10 for the West.

Post: #9

(08-18-2014 09:58 AM)Nomad77 Wrote:  What is happening today, is that women are telling men exactly that. You have to earn a relationship with me and a lot of men are lining up to do exactly that. Having minimum standards that you demand of women is critical. As Dr. Phill said: we teach people how to treat us. If you allow a woman to disrespect you and treat you like crap then that is exactly what you are going to get.

Maybe that means a man with the mindset OP is talking about is even in higher value these days? And will attract girls even more than before. A man who is aware of his own value, has abundance, and knows girls are a compliment to his life as opposed to looking to be a man to compliment a girl's life as you mention, that is the average guy of course.

Post: #10

(08-18-2014 10:15 AM)Nomad77 Wrote:  Even Roosh is moving onto relationship game these days...

This is a very good post. I haven't been reading much lately, but I'm intrigued by LTR game and where the game is moving. Bizarre. I do wonder if this is just one step toward "marriage game" or "monogamy game," though. Speaking of that, I cuddle closed a 9 last night.

Post: #11

This is some next level stuff Jariel is talking about.

Today men are begging bitches, I heard a story last week about some dude with money willing to buy a car for a single mom with four kids. The thirst is real as the saying goes.

This is a completely different mindset, you are the prize and you don't just date any bitch. Your time is valuable and you don't spend it with anyone.

Post: #12

I dig this, they always have to qualify themselves to you, never the other way around.

You should be willing to boot them if they don't comply to your standards.

Post: #13

On the money per usual Jariel. I've noticed as my game has advanced it has gotten more unyielding. Things that I would have hesitated in doing as a youngster I now do without a second thought as a veteran. If a girl has a problem with me lighting up a cigarette mid-date then she can leave. Chances are I picked a venue that has decent talent present in case the date bombs.