Post: #26

Hotter girls, younger girls, more girls, more variety, richer girls, crazier sex, more options, more power and freedom.

I recently had an increase in quality. It feels awesome.

Post: #27

Yes, hotter girls for sure.

Now when I'm out at a bar/club, it only feels right to hit on the most attractive girls there.

Post: #28

-everyone looks dull until you start talking, then everyone lightens up
-everyone laughs more when you are talking to them
-you pay less for things/get comped more often
-guys you've only met once text you asking "where's the spot tonight?"
-timid girls stutter around you and get embarrassed for no reason

Golden thread dude

Post: #29

as krauser would say 'younger, hotter, tighter'

Post: #30

I'm only average at best. I see the pics of some of the girls guys bang here, and I realize how far I have to go.

Nevertheless, I started off *awful* with women, so I've still improved a lot.

Signs I noticed:

1. women accuse you of being a player
2. you sleep with multiple women in the same week (three different girls this week - a new record for me)
3. you sleep with so many women you catch an STD
4. you bang a girl hotter than you thought you would ever bang
5. it becomes impossible for you to feel embarrassed
6. it becomes impossible for you to fall in love
7. you admit your true desires without feeling the need to compromise (no monogamy, no marriage, no kids, no religion, etc.)
8. you stop having female platonic "friends" who you hope someday will have sex with you
9. you truly believe that you can hit nightlife/OK Cupid hard enough to bang a new girl in a month, if you put in enough effort - and you don't always prefer to do so

1 girl per month is 12/year, 120/decade, 360/30 years

Post: #31

- Girls body language becomes more "beta-like" from just eye contact alone.

- Solid "auto-pilot" game.

- Not worrying about what to say next when starting a conversation.

- Prefer to be alone at the expense of others who want your company.

- The 2/3 rule.

- Understanding "The Law of Attraction".

Post: #32

When you stop saying you don't care, because you no longer need to remind yourself; you just genuinely don't give a fuck anymore.

This one took awhile for me, because I'd say, "I don't care" to everything when a part of me really still did. Eventually you become so stoic to the dumb things girls do, that only the most outrageous shit (like unexpected pregnancy or STDs) actually bothers you.

Post: #33

There are two aspects I've noticed:
1) I truly don't give a fuck about a lot of stuff that used to bother me. As CJ said I don't even need to remind myself - I just don't care.
2) I get over the things I do still care about a lot quicker.

Last night I ran into a former girl in my rotation. She exited gracefully to go have a relationship with someone who could spend more time with her. She and her new guy showed up at the club I was at. At first it stung a bit - but I used that energy to go hit on a hotter girl and it was all better in a few minutes.

Post: #34

A big one is if people make room for you when you walk down the street.

This is how I know if my presence is being felt.

Post: #35

Making Girls Fall Down.

Let me explain,

Yesterday I was at the mall, I saw a cute, young girl walking towards me in high heels, I purposely stayed in her walking path so that we would walk right past each other. Her dad moved a little bit to get out of my way. She kept walking straight towards me.

I looked at her, She looked at me -- She fell down.

Why did she fall?

2 reasons:

1) She was a teenage girl in high heels (inexperience)

2) I gave her a physiological reaction. (I effected her body chemistry) (I short-circuited her brain function)

I have noticed this more and more since I learned how to add muscle to my body and learned how to dress.

- Girls are holding eye contact
- Adjusting their hair when I look at them.
- Clearing their throat
- Turning their necks to look
- Holding their breath
- Stuttering when they talk

Now that it is summer time, I like to workout and then walk around in a tank top.

The emotional/physiological reaction from girls is awesome!

Edit: Also, guys have been looking at me and making eye contact. WTF?!?!?

Post: #36

I was just about to post about some guy that almost tripped when he saw me round the corner and walk in towards him.

I've been in his position as well.

Non verbal communication happening.

Post: #37

When you stop thinking of it as game and just using it on women.

Post: #38

A lot of these signs relate to looks, not game. As far as game goes, I think the best metrics are conversion, speed, and quantity. That is, you're able to achieve (#close, makeout, bang, etc.) more with more women more quickly, who are within your league.

Post: #39

They are related to game. Game is communication. When all this stuff happens it means you are communicating more directly.

This thread is what direct game means to me.

Great stuff that everyone is adding here.

Post: #40

Just opening any women you see you think is attractive. She could be a 9 or 10, or a 7 or 8. Just having the ability to open any attractive women in any setting, at any time, into a positive result.

Post: #41

When you realize the opener doesn't really matter.

When you accept not every girl and most girls will not like you, we do this to find the ones that do.

When people around you let you know your a good time.

When your accused of being a player while on a dry spell, it makes me laugh every time.

Post: #42

My game is in its infancy. A few things I've noticed since implementing some of the knowledge I've gleaned from this community:

- Girls laugh and giggle when I speak to them. I find it curious, because I'm usually not making a joke.
- As others have stated, people make a path when I move. They get out out of the way.
- Most men will not make eye contact with me. A few confident ones will give me the head nod, the rest will sneak a peak when they don't think I'm aware then quickly look away.
- I recognize shit tests for what they are and act accordingly.
- Service girls give me free things/discount my purchases
- Girls say things to me like "You must do this alot"; "You seem like you have a lot of girlfriends" etc..
- I chat up everyone, just for fun and to practice. The old over-the-hill gal at the hotel. The young chick at the gas station, it doesn't matter. I make them smile.

Post: #43

When girls you don't know point at you and make sure their friends see you and are kind of laughing and giggling. Getting eye-fucked

Post: #44

when guys on internet message boards think you're full of shit all the time

Post: #45

(07-27-2014 01:17 PM)civpro Wrote:  A lot of these signs relate to looks, not game.

I think that improving your looks IS game.

Maybe, the most important part of game..

When you look good, you will attract more girls and they will require less convincing.

When you look sloppy, you will need to work even harder to convince them.

In Game, I think we often focus too much on what we say and not enough on how we look.

The first step for most guys is to improve their look.

Post: #46

-You have a rep for being a player. Girls and guys call you a player even if you don't do anything.

-Jealousy from other guys

-You can decide which girl you pursue, you pull all the strings. Not in the mood for X? Fine, let's hit up Y and fuck her instead.

-You give absolutely zero fucks

Post: #47

-when your friend is telling you girls are checking you out or have been eyeing you at the bar/club
-you are far more confident than before.
-you are less anxious to approach and open a girl
-you have gained plenty of knowledge that you feel you can teach someone on how to treat women
-you have no problem going out solo and enjoying a night out

Post: #48

I was loose and fun last night in New Jersey at a family party where the dance floor was constantly hopping.

I used to be told by these same people that I was stiff. Last night what they said was the complete opposite. My body language was on par.

The bouncers kicked us out of the place.

I never danced like this since I've known these people. I had a GREAT time and didn't give a fuck.

I'm not sure this would have happened if it wasn't for the ego blasting mental development I had in the past few months approaching girls cold during the day and getting rejected at a really high rate

Post: #49

When girls huddle up to decide who's fucking who before coming back to your group of guys.

When a girl makes a case for why you should bang her friend.

When you trade-up on a LTR or a girl in your rotation.

When a girl tells you they heard that you are good in bed, have a big dick, etc.

When girls start to use their game voice. A softer, shy and reserved female voice for when they talk to you.

When a girl works to please you without being asked, ie cooking, cleaning, keeping her body/style/grooming more on point than usual.

When girls start to assume the sale for you.

Post: #50

When you get "good morning!" or "wish you were here" type texts from girls you haven't even slept with yet.

Girls who may have criticized you in the past, turned you down, etc. are now excited to make plans when you run into them.

Being able to reflect or observe on turning points in conversations (i.e. when she started trying to please you, when you pleasantly surprised her, when you have said enough to move to the next stage).

Girls actively seek you to be the one they experience new things with (i.e. anal, threesomes, etc).

You can funnel interactions in the direction that you want without seeming to be try hard.

You can drop guy friends without fear of not having someone to wing/party alongside you.

You have enough of an abundance mentality that you are willing to push interactions to the limit and be bold without caring if you burn a particular opportunity. Of course, this confidence often results in well placed boldness and increasing success.