Post: #26

(07-10-2014 04:56 PM)runsonmagic Wrote:  9000V Hitachi Clit Pounder

Post: #27

Nothing wrong with a girl being upfront about sex, especially within the confines of an LTR, which the OP has mentioned he is considering with this girl.

Therefore, if I was in this situation, I would capitalise on this openness and take control of her sexual energy.

I believe that deep down all women want to be dominated and want to be able to utterly surrender to a strong male who can let them express the full range of their sexuality. This means threesomes, bondage, domination. But YOU must be in control at all times, or you will get burned.

Post: #28

The general rule is that girls who masturbate more are going to be more sexually aggressive, good in bed, and orgasmic.

Are they more loyal or slutty?

Well, this can go two ways.

A. high-masturbation girls can have high sex drives that lead them to fuck around
B. but high-masturbation girls can also orgasm more easily, which can make it easier to pair bond and have satisfaction with one man

I honestly don't know which trend dominates the other. But, overall, when girls masturbate, I celebrate, because it means she probably wants to have sex sooner, will be better at it, and will enjoy it more.

Post: #29

(07-11-2014 12:56 AM)Noir Wrote:  One of my buddies (magician funny enough) has a Hitachi Magic Wand at his disposal.

He says its one of the best buys he's ever gotten, for his sexual life.

I wonder who else here has experience with using this on girls?

I own one. It is money well spent indeed. I'm no fool, I know theres things that magic wand can do that no human being can do. Its just another tool in the tool box. Its much easier to give a girl a few extra orgasms with it through out sex then with your dick, fingers, or tongue. Its not something I use all the time, it makes the girls that much more excited when I do break it out.

Post: #30

Magic Wand? What is this? The 80's? Spend your money on a Sybian and girls will want to come over all the time.

Post: #31

(07-12-2014 07:07 AM)Hamsterchoker Wrote:  Magic Wand? What is this? The 80's? Spend your money on a Sybian and girls will want to come over all the time.

If I was set up some where more permanent and not about to start traveling again I would buy one.

Post: #32

More masturbation = higher sex drive.

Doesn't neccessarily make here sluttier, but she's going to be more horny in the relationship.
Which is not a bad thing.

Post: #33

I have sometimes come across girls who really claim they don't ever masturbate at all.
I'm always surprised that this is even possible and am never sure if they are telling the truth or not.

I think it's down to many different things....but one of them may be the type of guys she has been with in the past.

If those guys gave her lackluster sex without enough clit fingering or failed to tease or turn her on verbally when they were apart, then she really has never known what's like to be really worked up and horny and need immediate release.

In any case, I make sure all girls I am banging, touch themselves while we are talking over the phone (or online) in those instances when we are apart.
It certainly seems to make them bond closer to me if they can make themselves cum just from my words and what I am ordering them to do.

Make sure you get her to say "yes sir" a few times out loud while she's doing it.

Post: #34

(07-09-2014 08:58 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  What is your opinion on girls who masturbate frequently, and are open about it (maybe not to everyone, but to you)?

I'll explain what made me bring this up to give you some motive:

I recently stopped masturbating and watching porn; not 100%, but I have probably jerked off a total 4 or 5 times in the past 2 months and watched porn once. I did this for my mental and sexual health - wanted to disconnect from affiliating masturbation and porn with orgasms. Was sick of not getting boners as easily with real women and having to close my eyes and imagine watching porn to cum. Totally unhealthy, not to mention the "easy-out" mental release you get from jerking off is not good for motivation, game, or your libido.

Anyway, I have been seeing a regular girl for a few months now - playing around with the idea of girlfriending her. She masturbates regularly; seemingly as much as a guy does. She watches porn often as well. She is open about it with me, and will bring it up unprovoked or when talking about sexual things. Example:

(Texts from last night)
10:55pm - HER: I want your cock. RIGHT NOW
1:06am - ME: Darling You'll just have to wait like a good girl
8:41am - HER: If that includes masturbating for half an hour this morning than yes, I'm a good girl

In my semi-abstinence from masturbation, I've starting projecting it on her a bit. Wondering if her constant self-pleasure is good or bad for our sexual relationship. I don't particularly care if a girl gets off when we are banging or whatever, but I'm curious if her masturbation makes sex or cumming not as easy for her because she masturbates so much. On the otherside of the spectrum, I wonder if her horniness and urge to get-off a lot is a slut red-flag.

I want to note that I am not as concerned or bothered by this as this example makes it seem - just some thoughts in my head that made me think up this question. Sex with this girl is great and I'm not worried about it, but I also am not 100% sure how I feel about her (or any other girl) who is big into porn and masturbation. Kind of an oddly masculine trait, no?

Almost a year and a half ago and my perspective has changed a deal from OP.

Also I ended up developing severe oneitis for that girl. Tsk tsk.

I masturbate regularly nowadays and believe that is actually good for my mental health and keeps me free of distraction from my libido. I was going through a time the past 6 months - 1 year where women were becoming too distracting. I caught myself wrenching my neck everywhere I went and expending a lot of time and energy getting my dick wet. Just difficulty focusing on other things. I now welcome that easy release to get my mind off of pussy and re-center myself on more important matters.

As for girls who watch porn, masturbate often, and are open about it - I could give a shit less how easily they get off during sex. I would consider that a slut tell, though. Rule of thumb is any girl who is overtly sexual and loves getting off a lot is certainly no stranger to getting smashed out.

That girl I was talking about in OP was a slut. Perpetual online dater, cheated on her last BF with a british guy she met at a friend's wedding, generally going from dick to dick, etc. Go figure.

Post: #35

(03-23-2016 10:50 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  I masturbate regularly nowadays and believe that is actually good for my mental health and keeps me free of distraction from my libido.

Do you have a set schedule that you keep or is it more on an as needed basis? My biggest struggle has been moderation. I can go on long no fap runs but if I jerk it it always ends up being at least twice a day. The chaser effect is very real.

Post: #36

Not trying to hijack the thread, but have you guys noticed a difference in your motivation and general mood when you:

1. Stop jerking off altogether (for a period of time)

2. Jerk off, but not to porn

3. Jerk off to porn.


#3 always leads to decreased drive and confidence in my state of mind, so I've ceased doing that altogether.

#2 I don't get the psychological malaise that comes with watching porn, and it keeps me sated, however it can affect my motivation to go out and approach.

#1 I find I'm the most aggressive when I jack off only once a week or less. I also find myself being more productive with my spare time. This is my current state since I've been banging this plate who comes over almost every day to drain my balls. I'm trying not to get complacent with the situation though.

Post: #37

Crazy every last one of them. I might elaborate more in person but a recent experience half a year back has proven it.

Post: #38

I'll chime in. I definitely feel like girls who masturbate have a higher sex drive than those who don't. There are some girls who claimed to have never masturbated, but I'm not sure if that is true or not. The girls who don't masturbate are often a little shy in bed, or have experienced some sexual trauma in their past. they'll still fuck, but it's a lot more timid.

Post: #39

If a girl becomes a regular I tell them "That pussy is mine. No one else is allowed to play with it unless I'm around. That includes you babe. If you want to cum then come over and I'll make you or watch you while you do"(sic) It's a true test of compliance and submission. If she agrees to it...you own her

I have a hot 24 yo Czech former model (was Miss Czech Republic runner up a few years ago) that I've been banging about 3 weeks now who totally compliant and is literally sucking me off almost every single night because I "laid down the law" (and the pipe).

Post: #40

^@PT I don't want to hijack this thread but I want to hear the backstory of where and how you gamed Ms. Czec if you haven't posted it already. Maybe do a write up in the lounge?

Post: #41

(03-23-2016 12:14 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

(03-23-2016 10:50 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  I masturbate regularly nowadays and believe that is actually good for my mental health and keeps me free of distraction from my libido.

Do you have a set schedule that you keep or is it more on an as needed basis? My biggest struggle has been moderation. I can go on long no fap runs but if I jerk it it always ends up being at least twice a day. The chaser effect is very real.

Purely as needed. Often times when I start thinking about wasting time browsing and messaging on a dating app or texting a FB even though I don't particularly want to spend time with anyone or go out - just itching for a nut - I'll rub one out and immediately snap out of it.

I'll go a few days without it, then I'll go a day and crank out a twof'er.