Post: #1

...when first approaching them/chatting with them, what exactly is that code for? Have any of you guys ever been told or heard that? I have been told that multiple times by different women (when trying to chat them up for the first time), but I don't really know what they mean by it. I am not screaming or yelling at the top of my lung or anything when I chat with them.

Post: #2

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You remind me of Tarleton in the above thread.

You mentioned in another thread that you had some problems (OCD etc). Have you done everything you can to alleviate those problems and got advice from good health professionals?

Post: #3

When I've heard that before it's usually been code for, "You make too much eye contact."

Try and break it for a couple of second every minute or two. There's a good thread on the forum about this too, BTW.

Post: #4

Are you more or less desperate for a girl? If yes, that might be one reason that you put them off. There's some advice on that here about the 'abundance' mentality.

Post: #5

I'm not hard up for pussy. there is no desperation in me at all.

but i get "you're intense" a lot.

and thats because of the eye contact. what i've found is that women that can't deal with eye contact, can't deal with themselves. they aren't comfortable in their own skin. they think i must be judging them.

when in reality i'm just observing them. judgment later

i just go with it. if they can't handle it, then i next them. its a filtering mechanism for me.