Post: #1

One of the most overlooked aspects of this "rape epidemic" is the effect it has on males, especially males in my demographic (college age). Seeing all of the feminist propaganda distributed by both campus and feminist organizations is one thing, but experiencing the hypocrisy of modern college age women is another.

Post: #2

You should have had trust issues with women and men way before college. Honesty and trustworthiness are rare in this day and age. I'm not saying there aren't people out there you can trust.... I'm just saying trust is something that needs to be earned.

Post: #3

"Welcome to the Monkey House."

~ Kurt Vonnegut

Post: #4

This is why I dont have much interest in American girls anymore. It's just not worth the risk.

Post: #5

Two aspects to this question.

1. Cover your ass with some evidence.

Even a text conversation where you say "I had a good time last night" and the girl says "me too" shows an element of consent that will help you protect yourself from false accusations after consensual sex.

2. Protect your reputation.

I'm not quite sure how to do this in general, because each situation is different. I have been accused of shit too. Just point out the obvious facts to whomever brings it to your attention, and you should be fine. "We had consensual sex and now, eight months later, she is making false accusations. All I can say is that what happened was consensual and if there were any evidence to the contrary, she certainly could have presented it sooner instead of making a baseless accusation months after the fact." Also, don't publicize your exploits, because that can put some incentive on a girl to make accusations just to seem like she's not a slut.

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Rape is not a girl having some drinks with you, making out with you, coming back to your room, and then having sex while somewhat tipsy. Anyone who argues otherwise is disempowering women from making their own choices.

Certainly, rape does sometimes happen when a girl is drunk. I once walked in on a guy taking the virginity of a female acquaintance while she was blacked-out drunk and half-asleep in a bed at a party. I got her out of that place pretty quick, and when I talked to the girl after taking her back to her house, she was aware that she had had sex earlier in the night, but thought it was with a different guy than the one who raped her while she was more or less unconscious. I actually wouldn't mind seeing guys like that get convicted, publicly shamed, and locked up.

Post: #6

I have trust issues with girls but in way different from you...

I'm able to tell f they're lying to me. I get this twitch in my gut and it's usually right.
I haven't figured out how to reconcile this feeling when i'm around the type of girl who lies a lot.

I just avoid them altogether.
My suggestion is find a different type of girl to see. There definitely is a pathology to how a girl's brain is wired and how ok she is with doing certain things.

Post: #7

I've had several false and exaggerated accusations thrown at me as well. Often the accusations are just vague ones like: "He didn't respect my boundaries." The people don't ask for details and just assume the worst. I was once accused of "not respecting boundaries" because I talked to a bitch and then walked away politely after five minutes because I figured she wasn't interested. Women will make up anything in their heads. I don't think they are actually lying--they really believe this shit when they say it. Memories have a tendency to change over time.

I also lost a lot of trust for women after working in customer service jobs. If a woman gets bad service at a restaurant or a hotel, she will go out and tell fifty or a hundred people. But she will NEVER tell her story to anybody who can actually do something about it--a person working at the restaurant or the hotel. Women don't want to solve problems--they just want to bitch and get attention.

Feminism will die quickly when the white knights leave them. That will happen in one or two generations, as more and more are falsely accused.

In some states, you can record on audio your interactions. That is the only other thing I can suggest.

Post: #8

OP, how big is your college?

I had this issue at my college. The school was only 6,000 students wide but 3 degrees of separation deep. I'll be honest, it was one of the shittiest 4 years of my life.

Sure I learned a lot about game, women, and sex. But my reputation after year three was crap. It was extremely difficult to game on girls in certain environments. When I was a senior, I couldn't game anyone in my year and the year before me. I ended up going for freshmen and grad students

Either way, when it comes to college game avoid attending college/universities that have less than 10,000 students lest you want to run into this issue. At smaller schools, you have to employ small town game to avoid poisoning the well which severely limits the amount of no strings attached lays.

Honestly bud, there isn't a whole lot you can do beyond finding different social circles. Don't let the people get to you, hit the gym, and be as good as you can get. Haters will always hate.

Post: #9

Be careful sleeping around inside your own social circles in college. American women are vindictive. Sometimes it is even better not to eat where you shit completely. Keep certain circles separate from others, so that if you are known to be fucking gals in one, that you do not get noticed in another circle that you intentionally connected together.