Post: #1

A girl that I have gone on 4 dates with and we had sex on the 4th date came over today after we hadn't seen each other for almost a month.

We had a nice day on a date and came back to my place and started having sex. Everything was going well and from the sounds she was making she was enjoying it. I changed positions a few times and started doing her doggy style and was pulling her hair a little bit and started going really fast.

After about 20 seconds of that she just starts crying. I had no fucking clue what was up. She was like "It feels like you're just fucking me like I'm an object"

She was going to leave but I comforted her. Eventually after about 20 minutes we went back to have sex and I made sure to go really slow and sensual. I wasn't sure if I should ask her more about it or if it may have been a sensitive subject from the past.

She just left and it was on good terms but I'm still a little confused.

Post: #2

Some chicks are like that when it comes to sex.

Some chicks are
- don't kiss me, it's too personal
- no anal
- no bj's, I save that for my boyfriend
- I only swallow for my boyfriend

When you have a nut case like this, it's basically going to be your job to train her how to please you.

That becomes your decision, whether or not you want that burden.

Were it me,

1) i'd be getting on other chicks
2) I'd tell this broad she makes me feel uncomfortable and I'm not interested in pursuing anything further. She's weird, and I don't want to be pulled into her emotional black hole where anytime I want something from her, I have to jump through all these emotional hoops, traps, and snares she has out.

That's me though.

WIA

Post: #3

I've had this before with an ex of mine. I was fucking her as usual and after I finished she got up and started freaking out saying "You just fucked me like a one night stand!" She was going apeshit and telling me to get out. I had never seen her like this.

I told her she was fucking crazy but she was inconsolable, so I got up and just hugged her and held her. She calmed down pretty soon.

Honestly I think you can just chalk it up to their alternating chemicals and the cycles that they go through.

Post: #4

(06-30-2014 12:24 AM)Teddykgb Wrote:  After about 20 seconds of that she just starts crying. I had no fucking clue what was up.

Hate to burst your bubble, but she is clearly not in the "zone" if she's got the mental capacity to be doing that. Work on the foreplay son, by the time you're actually fucking her she should already be senseless
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Post: #5

My take: she's been fuming about the fact that she put out on your last date and then didn't see you for a month, so she decided to throw this at you, whether consciously or not who knows. If.you want to see her again just act like this outburst.never happened. Of course if she pulls it again... What does the barber say?

Post: #6

(06-30-2014 12:24 AM)Teddykgb Wrote:  Everything was going well and from the sounds she was making she was enjoying it. I changed positions a few times and started doing her doggy style and was pulling her hair a little bit and started going really fast.

After about 20 seconds of that she just starts crying. I had no fucking clue what was up. She was like "It feels like you're just fucking me like I'm an object"

Quote:Eventually after about 20 minutes we went back to have sex...She just left and it was on good terms but I'm still a little confused.

Post: #7

This is just a guess but I think you probably didn't switch to the rough sex with enough vigour.

You say you pulled her hair "a little bit". You need to pull it a lot, choke her, slap her, talk dirty to her. Be totally into it and congruent.

Post: #8

Some girls orgasm and start crying because they feel guilty about it. I call it a whoregasm. Nothing for you to feel bad about. Shit happens.

Post: #9

Women are emotional, sex is emotional for some women, ergo, some women get emotional during sex.

Hamsters gonna ham, just write it off as a game expense and keep porking here whenever you can.

Have some kleenex next to your bed just in case, You should anyway, unless you want them wiping off your cum with your pillow cases.

Post: #10

"It feels like you're just fucking me like I'm an object", you should have said "yes, yes i am"

Post: #11

Bitches be crazy is all I can say. I've had girls who really got off on rough sex and normally beg for it all the sudden get this attitude and be like you never make love to me you always fuck me, etc, etc, etc.

Honestly I wouldn't really care one way or the other if they wanna stop seeing more or whatever else, I can keep up with this type of drama but you almost have to comfort them and stick around because I'm scared to death of girls crying rape or deciding after the fact they aren't happy with something they asked for.