Post: #51

One thing that really really complicates this thread is correlation vs. causation.

You can stand up for yourself, and the girl can deny you sex. That doesn't mean she denied you sex because you stood up for yourself. In fact, everything we know about game says that this probably didn't happen - there was probably some other factor that caused the no-sex (a confound).

Post: #52

(06-15-2014 12:35 PM)dog24 Wrote:  Ive heard that exact phrase before... who do you think you are!

"A guy who knows he can do better than you. Excuse me."

I've heard it all at my age. Every possible smug and sarcastic statement has already been said to me by now, and I recognise that certain behavioural patterns and personal attitudes paint girls as unworthy of the required time investment for a bang.

I simply walk away, and see what else is on offer, taking care to approach a hotter girl next because I know successfully opening her will annoy the hell out of the girl I just walked away from - she wants to think she 'won' - and if it doesn't work, what's one more rejection?

Tolerating a snarky bitch purely to get pussy seems like stealing time from me that I could be spending with a fun, pleasant girl.

Maybe it's an age thing, knowing I have less time left in the game.

Post: #53

"I think here you acted from a position of anger or disgust. Instead of asking for her to make dinner why not just ask if she wanted to come over directly? Had you any pity, you could have at least given the girl a chance. Asking her to make dinner was too much. Sure it would have made you feel better, but that one extra step may have cost you a bang. And she still could have apologized through sex."

The girl was feigning being a prude, I doubt the come over salvo would have worked. I have used it on really borderline chicks, and it always worked - either the girl came over and we fucked, or she ran away which was fine because i wasn't willing to put in more effort.

I told the girl that flaked tonight that she'd have to get me dinner for flaking hard, she got pissy initially and then continued texting me. It's a personal principle of mine - if you fuck with someone, don't just flap your fucking labia and mime an apology, that's for phony politicians, you do something - buy them a drink, do them a favor, something. If someone understands this, they don't need to be told, but girls need to be told because that kind of integrity especially in dealings with men is a foreign concept to them. If they can't do this, my residual disdain from them stemming from their disrespect for me will remain, and I cannot stomach seeing them.

As for my disdain for American women flowing into my game - I'd say nah for the most part - it only becomes evident when its clear I won't get the bang if at all, or for nasty unpleasant girls. Otherwise I just roll with what's happening. This is not something you can tell about me or really any forum member unless you wing with them.

Post: #54

(06-17-2014 12:19 AM)Samseau Wrote:  I think your disgust for American women spills over into your game. I know because it's happened to me many times. I finally got over caring and realized there was nothing I could do about the situation other than to pity what is basically a perfectly good waste of a woman, which is the average American female.

You can't become upset when some organism acts according to its nature.

There is a contradiction that exists among many of us.

We say we are alpha and that woman are whatever, and yet we get upset when women behave exactly as they should.

If a woman acts out, then she is perhaps in need of some discipline.

Girl flakes. What do I say? Tell her to fuck off? Hell no.

Use it to pre-screen.

Tell her you're going to punish her for flaking.

If she's into that (most are), then she'll ask what you have in mind. If she's not into it, great, you got rid of a time waster.

"I want to see my hand prints on your ass."

As a man we must control our own emotions. Getting angry over flakes o being butt hurt is not masculine behavior.

When girls act out, we don't rage. Rage is for little boys who lack control.

We sternly discipline them for bad behavior.

That was my biggest game shift over 3 years and it's insane what a different in mindset that makes.

Post: #55

(06-17-2014 02:42 AM)Basil Ransom Wrote:  As for my disdain for American women flowing into my game - I'd say nah for the most part - it only becomes evident when its clear I won't get the bang if at all, or for nasty unpleasant girls. Otherwise I just roll with what's happening. This is not something you can tell about me or really any forum member unless you wing with them.

Write enough and you will reveal your soul. Ethos goes back to Aristotle. Character is hard to hide.

The fact that you wrote your thoughts means that you have these thoughts.

These thoughts exist in your conscious and unconscious mind.

Those thoughts will manifest themselves in your behavior and subtly in body language.

Post: #56

I like this "I will punish you for flaking" idea.