Post: #1

Is kryptonite to any budding pick up artist.

Some guys want a nice long term relationship with a super hot chick.
Other guys want lots of SNL's with local hotties, and pull new chicks at the snap of a finger.

Personally, i've always preferred the brief intense relationships that combust @ the end.

I find myself @ the front end of one, but I don't see (or don't want to see) an end in sight.

Balancing that with my urge to really master pick up.

How do you guys make the decision?
And if you decide to pursue pick up, how do you de-escalate the relationship FOR YOURSELF. I mean, you can always tell the chick, let's take it slow...but what if you're split on the decision. Your brain says to build skills, but the rest of you is satisfied with a nice hot chick for the winter.

Post: #2

Quote:i've always preferred the brief intense relationships that combust @ the end

I could have written this. I don't like staleness so i end it before it gets there instead of working through things.

The decision becomes more clear with time. Eventually you will not care about building your skills anymore or staying on top of your game.