Post: #1

I don't really like the bar scene, and there's not many places t meet people here. what are some good places to meet girls?

Post: #2

where do you live?

The beach
Parks
In line at (insert business here)
Bus stop
Work
Clubs
Through Friends
Parties
Online

pretty much anywhere

Post: #3

Read this thread. The tips should allow you to meet a lot of girls. /thread-34576.html

Meeting girls is a matter of lifestyle. I'd suggest building up your lifestyle while hitting on cute chicks whenever appropriate. That will help you develop your game as well.

Post: #4

ok I will follow that advice. The biggest hindrance in my lifestyle is that I don't go out that much. If I spend the majority of my time by myself, I can't expect to meet many girls. I will definitely go out more and get my practice in.

Post: #5

(06-06-2014 06:23 PM)getmethepentagon Wrote:  ok I will follow that advice. The biggest hindrance in my lifestyle is that I don't go out that much. If I spend the majority of my time by myself, I can't expect to meet many girls. I will definitely go out more and get my practice in.

I'm guessing you're an introvert. Check out forum member MikeCF's blog Danger and Play. Here's a post on game for introverts. Mike is an introvert with tight game and an amazing lifestyle. I'm not a natural introvert, but his advice has helped me as well.

Thing about game is you are the game you have. That entails building a lifestyle and learning how to deal with women.

Even though I haven't achieved what I thought I would with women by this point after taking the red pill, I never imagined how much my life would change.

If you take legit advice seriously, you will be a completely different man one year from now than you are now. The most important tip I can give you is only read legit blogs, not blogs trying to sell you snake-oil or blogs written by bitter losers.

Some other good blogs are forum member Christian Mcqueen's blog, Good Looking Loser & http://kmilli.com/ .

Best of luck, let us know how it goes.

Post: #6

Your list.
Get more social. Join a meetup group. Go. Force yourself to talk to these fools. Do this NOW. Like join tonight and go to a meetup tomorrow. For now this is to get you out of the house and to force social skills. Suitable bangs at least in my area aren't existent here.

Concentrate on frame control with everyone around you. Holding frame is key to everything I think and nothing will boost your confidence more.

AFTER you get these under control you will being able to approach anywhere. The mall, the grocery store, gas station, you name it.

But since none of this actually answered your question I'll drop a simple answer for you.


Noodles & Company. Girls love that place. Go there, order the Thai hot plate then approach. The place has a coffee shop type atmosphere but without the wifi-meaning without the heads buried in the fucking phones or tablets

Post: #7

I'll second following McQueens blog.

I hate the podcast though. It's so damn entertaining he went from a cool guy with his shit together to someone I kind of feel like a fan of. Which is fucking gay.

I don't hate it enough to not listen though. I love that shit

Post: #8

First thing's first.

Toss any video games you have. Kill your TV cable connection. Never watch porn. Don't have junk food in the house that makes you lazy.

The only reason you should be at home is to sleep, shower, change, or have people over.

If you online game do it with a laptop from a university of coffee shop so you can approach in between messages.

Join meetups or social clubs with cute girls and befriend the queen bees and alphas.

Post: #9

(06-06-2014 07:41 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  First thing's first.

Toss any video games you have. Kill your TV cable connection. Never watch porn. Don't have junk food in the house that makes you lazy.

The only reason you should be at home is to sleep, shower, change, or have people over.

If you online game do it with a laptop from a university of coffee shop so you can approach in between messages.

Join meetups or social clubs with cute girls and befriend the queen bees and alphas.

Absolutely.

The other thing is to not give up after five minutes. This shit is a process not a switch.