Post: #76

You lot might be crunching too many numbers on these lay stats. Do you consider yourself the average man? If so, expect average results.

I'm not average, never have, never will be..so the only stats I can observe are my own..

Post: #77

I think part of the problem here is that the OP is proceeding to make deductions from faulty premises. Regarding sex in America, the following points need to be mentioned:

1. It may appear that more women are having more sex than ever before. But we have to be clear what we're talking about. The distribution of sexual rewards is not equal. Women now all want (and think they deserve) the top 5% of guys. So, what is happening is that the top tier guys are doing most of the fucking, leaving the rest of the average guys to fight over the leftovers. Women are no longer interested in nice, normal guys who can "provide" for them. They don't need that anymore. They want to throw themselves at the top 5% and rack up their own notches.

2. More and more women have taken themselves out of the "running" by letting their appearances go, becoming fat, embracing tattooing, lesbianism, or other forms of antisocial behavior. This reduces the pool (drastically in some areas) of available women worthy of sexual contact with.

3. I am not so sure that Americans have as much sex as they claim. If you really probe into this, you'll find that most people lead lives of quiet desperation, where they are just grateful to get a few bangs in their life from luck or random accident. The media crams the enticements of sex down our throats for marketing and salesmanship purposes, but the reality is quite different.

4. Many guys have checked out of the game completely by embracing fatness, laziness, homosexuality, bitterness, or despair. The American power structure encourages this, actually. They want us to be beaten down, hopeless, atomized, and without a support network. That way they can sell us things. The ultimate consumer is a mindless, sexless drone.

What all this means is that the marketplace in the US is more difficult than ever for the average guy. Yeah, some people are doing all the fucking.

To quote Dickens, "It was the best of times. It was the worst of time..."


Q

Post: #78

Quintus, so what's the answer now? Target the FOB's, right? Lizards are like economy and jobs.

Let's use an analogy here.
When jobs are scarce and underpaid for the amount of work one has to do..how do you battle that?

See the society (feminisim and the proliferation of fat acceptance) as the companies who dictate the job market and lower salaries for longer and more difficult work hours.

When you find out that you don't have job security (a lizard could take you to the cleaners for everything over nothing) and the job market is generally sparse and they ask you for the sun and the moon to pay you 12 dollars an hour, how do you approach it?

Some people do the following:

1) Move to greener pastures (change location for better lizards)
2) Work remotely (source all your lizards from abroad i.e. target FOB's)
3) Stick with the job they have and manage the changing requirements (stay with the wifey and grind it out. Maybe wifey is genuinely good or maybe delusions on the man's part)
4) Juggle the poor options available (temping in the 12 dollar an hour lizards until too much is asked) and then go on unemployment (wank) until picking up another underpaying job.
5) Either stay on unemployment (wank) and moan about the economic (lizardly) situation or stay in situation 4 and still moan.

My end point is, when the economy is bad, did moaning change your situation? When you found out that <insert percentage> of your demographic was unemployed, how did you beat that?

Post: #79

^^^

Moma:

The solution? Well, there really isn't any magic wand. There's no magic bullets. We have to try to do the best we can in a difficult situation. I think the following tips make sense:

1. You need to understand what is going on around you. That's another way of saying "red pill beliefs". If a guy can just get past this revelation, he will be ahead of 95% of the other guys out there. Pretending that things are like they were in 1975 is a recipie for going insane.

2. You need to find some sort of sustaining worldview or philosophy of life, that gets you through the low points. Because, believe me, anyone who is not depressed by all this stuff has not fully understood the implications of all of it. Our entire social system, and our "leaders", have been selling us down the river for 30 years. It's important to understand this.

3. Try to improve yourself as much as you can mentally, physically, and emotionally, so that you can be one of those guys in the top 5%. Don't give in to despair or resignation.

4. Travel abroad as much as you can, and try to focus on foreign women if possible. Don't rule out girls here, but for most guys who have their shit together, American women begin to lose their appeal steadily over time.

5. Try to wean yourself from America's 24 hour news cycle and popular culture. Almost all of it is trash. Worse still, it's a depressing waste of time.

6. Your health and independence is paramount. No drugs in any way, shape, or form. Alcohol should be drunk in moderation.

7. No wasting money on stupid frivolities.

8. Read my writings and follow my guidance to the letter. (Just kidding...or, maybe only half kidding ).

Q

Post: #80

... and I was thinking not banging on a weekend vacay was a failure

Post: #81

(06-10-2014 12:56 PM)Quintus Curtius Wrote:  7. No wasting money on stupid frivolities.

What would you have in mind?