Post: #1

Women, especially white girls/women (aged 14-50) are more promiscuous than ever before in the history of western civilization, yet according to some, it is "harder than ever" for the "average joe" to get laid. The conclusion does not follow from the premise, which is basically irrefutable (every single study I have seen shows the "# of sexual partners for the "avg. woman" skyrocketing). Anyone who has ever stepped foot on a university (or high school) campus, or been to a "club" (or hell, just walked down the street or been to a mall or traveled to a classic "sexcation" party hotspot such as Vegas, Cancun, etc.) realizes that women are giving it up more easily/freely than ever before. This hypothetical person would also realize that women's standards have NEVER been lower (a necessary by-product of hyper-promiscuity...just take a look around- you routinely see pretty and cute chicks with fat guys, nerdy guys, ugly guys, chubby guys, guys of different races, etc.) Part of me thinks that our fathers and grandfathers must be envious as hell, since they actually had to be patient and WAIT/PRAY for some lovin'. You know they actually had to "wine and dine" a girl for several dates before they got some. No one can deny that we now live in a "F8ckbuddy/no strings attached/hang out and hook up asap/"Dating and commitment are for losers" culture which takes pride in pretty much tolerating EVERYTHING (aside from rape, pedophilia, terrorism, racism/intolerance (ironically enough) and murder-pretty much EVERYTHING/ANYTHING else "goes" lol). SO, with all of that having been said, how can getting poontang be considered difficult or challenging? The individual, average 21st century POF/Tinder-addicted woman is F8cking more dudes than ever before in the history of Western civ....yet there are entire communities of angry "incels"/frustrated guys complaining about how hard it is to get laid these days?!! I must be missing something...what is it?!!!

Post: #2

So, paragraphs?

Post: #3

Cause most guys don't even try.

All you have to do is try.

But people in general don't try, or they try once or twice then give up and bitch about it for the rest of their lives.

Nothing easy is worth having.

Post: #4

Yeah that was like one long ass run on sentence

Post: #5

Society isn't as promiscuous as you think. The average person has less than ten sex partners in their life. This is pretty well researched. There was a recent thread which I can't recall ATM that showed that young people in recent years are having LESS sex.

What was generally concluded is thst social media validation is giving women the attention they once had to get from males. Which means it taker that much more effort to to get them out without flaking. The top guys are pulling like never before. The bottom and average guys are working harder than ever for lower quality.

Post: #6

The rich have gotten richer and the poor have gotten poorer. Guys who would've at least gotten a wife 30 years ago are left with their right hands. Guys who would've played the field 30 years ago continue to play the field.

Consider this: I lived in a dorm with 15 other guys (16 in total). Only 5 of us (including myself) had sex at any given point over the course of the year.

Post: #7

(06-05-2014 08:13 PM)Tarleton Wrote:  yet there are entire communities of angry "incels"/frustrated guys complaining about how hard it is to get laid these days?!! I must be missing something...what is it?!!!

Because most guys don't want to be a player, they want a cute, feminine girlfriend. Pay attention to the way Elliot Rodgers talked about women and you'd notice he was the same. Obesity has slashed the supply of attractive women. Feminism has slashed the supply of feminine commitment worthy women women, and most importantly most young girls are not interested in relationships anymore. For a lot of single guys, this means an occasional drunken one night stand with a mediocre girl followed by long dry spells.

Checkout Basil analysis of a study of 30,000 college students. The average male gets 1.7 new notches a year, and the median is 1 (a small elite drag the average up quite a bit), mathematically this must be the same for women (although the amount of sex is distributed more evenly for them) . Over 1/3 of college men had no sex in the last year and 72% of men had no more than 1 partner in the last year. It's no wonder a lot of guys are starved.

Post: #8

^^ So many guys lie about getting pussy in college when they get none. Don't worry though, I will happily pick up the slack.

Post: #9

1. Don't believe the hype and the media. They always exaggerate everything.

2. The quality of girls you are going after makes a huge difference. If you are willing to bar hop until you find a drunk girl to fuck then you will get sex. It all comes down to how low you want to go

3. A lot of guys don't want to be players and just bang any girl. A lot of guys are actually looking for half decent relationship with a half decent girl.

4. I don't know where you live but I don't see any hot girls in Miami with fat, nergy guys UNLESS they are rich.

Here is a typical nightclub in Miami. Find the hot girl with the fat, nerdy guy:

https://www.facebook.com/storymiami/photos_stream

Post: #10

Yeah, girls give it up more easily - to the same guys. So most guys are left with their porn and lube while a few guys (small percentage of the population) get almost all of the good pussy (not old women, ugly women or fatties). Think about it as how the top 5% own hold most of the nation's wealth. Remember - socialism is good for the sexual market and bad for the financial market.

Our forefathers would not have been more happy - because their female descendants are complete sluts.

Post: #11

I would say that the PUA era is coming to an end, it is difficult to find people that identify as "pickup artists" and not men who are just members of the red-pill society. Pickup is one facet of life, whereas taking the red pill translates to all aspects of life, making you a better man and in turn, making you better with women.

I say this because the time of the Mystery method and such is over, and doesn't particularly work in 2014. Men today play many a style, as well as use multiple alleys of game (Roosh covers it quite well in his "16 types of game" article). I also see less and less men constantly focused on PUA skills as opposed to life skills in general. Become a well rounded individual, it makes everything easier.

We see the matrix and not many men can say that they do, but what I take from everything I've learned is:

Game is life and life is a game.

Post: #12

Even with the high divorce rate, a lot of guys past 25 (whether alpha or not) are married as well, that seems to be forgotten.

Post: #13

(06-05-2014 09:58 PM)Deluge Wrote:  

(06-05-2014 08:13 PM)Tarleton Wrote:  yet there are entire communities of angry "incels"/frustrated guys complaining about how hard it is to get laid these days?!! I must be missing something...what is it?!!!

Because most guys don't want to be a player, they want a cute, feminine girlfriend. Pay attention to the way Elliot Rodgers talked about women and you'd notice he was the same. Obesity has slashed the supply of attractive women. Feminism has slashed the supply of feminine commitment worthy women women, and most importantly most young girls are not interested in relationships anymore. For a lot of single guys, this means an occasional drunken one night stand with a mediocre girl followed by long dry spells.

Checkout Basil analysis of a study of 30,000 college students. The average male gets 1.7 new notches a year, and the median is 1 (a small elite drag the average up quite a bit), mathematically this must be the same for women (although the amount of sex is distributed more evenly for them) . Over 1/3 of college men had no sex in the last year and 72% of men had no more than 1 partner in the last year. It's no wonder a lot of guys are starved.

This is the problem that I have. Just having meaningless sex does not feel right to me. There will be a day when I will want to find a wife, and I don't want to become desensitized to women. Unfortunately I live in the US, so finding a woman worth marrying is like searching for a needle in a hay stack.

Post: #14

Meaningless sex feels very right to me

Post: #15

Young American girls are not busy having lots of sex because they are too busy eating themselves to obesity for that. Ask any young girl under 22 which do she prefer: food or sex? Just look at the their Instagram for the answer: count the number of hot guys vs food pics.

Post: #16

(06-05-2014 08:38 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  Society isn't as promiscuous as you think. The average person has less than ten sex partners in their life. This is pretty well researched. There was a recent thread which I can't recall ATM that showed that young people in recent years are having LESS sex.

What was generally concluded is thst social media validation is giving women the attention they once had to get from males. Which means it taker that much more effort to to get them out without flaking. The top guys are pulling like never before. The bottom and average guys are working harder than ever for lower quality.

When you talk of average person, do you speak of lizards or men? Cos North American lizards bang alotta guyz (and gals).

Post: #17

(06-06-2014 12:20 AM)Nomad77 Wrote:  Young American girls are not busy having lots of sex because they are too busy eating themselves to obesity for that. Ask any young girl under 22 which do she prefer: food or sex? Just look at the their Instagram for the answer: count the number of hot guys vs food pics.

And let's not forget their facebook friends that tell them how beautiful they are, even though they weigh 200+ pounds.


My ex had a miserable fat cunt of a roommate who had to be driven everywhere because she would always be out of breath. She was also on high dosages of anti depression meds. Yet, her friends would always tell her how "she gets more beautiful every day". Obviously not hurting her feelings was more important than saving her from a future heart attack.

Post: #18

It's a proven fact that as girls get fatter the less sex they want - men too. So with at least 30% of the country being fat that 30% that's not having a whole lot of sex.

Post: #19

Depression meds can do it too. I'm taking some right now, and have noticed a decreased desire for sex compared to before I started taking them (3 weeks ago).

Post: #20

This is true. I have dealt with depression for years. What I can recommend that works for me is regular aerobic exercise and a high dosage (3000mg) per day of Saw Palmetto supplement.

Post: #21

(06-06-2014 12:54 AM)BigBoyPants Wrote:  Depression meds can do it too. I'm taking some right now, and have noticed a decreased desire for sex compared to before I started taking them (3 weeks ago).

10% of Americans are on anti-depressants, and it's even higher for women. It's 25% for women in their 40's and 50's... This could be having a big cumulative effect on the pussy supply considering what they often do to people's libido's. That said, the girls who'd have to take those medications are sluttier than average anyway, so maybe it all balances out.

Post: #22

That's why - the distribution of pussy:

   

Post: #23

The overall supply of sex offered by women is slightly down because of several factors, the most important of which is the possibility of fulfilling sexual needs through attention whoring (i.e. rampant sluttiness that doesn't eventually result in penetration).

At the same time, because women are getting more and more hypergamous (because of being more and more insulated from the consequences of their choices), this dwindling supply of sex is being distributed more and more unevenly. Extensive number-crunching from the study mentioned above has resulted in the conclusion that the top 2.6% of men get 29% of all sex, the top 5.5% of men get 40% of all sex, and the top 28% of men gets a staggering 78% of sex. The other 22% of sex is distributed among the thirsty masses of the remaining 72% betas.

Also, the percentages of sex that these top groups of men get are constantly increasing; 10 years ago, the same study found the top 2.6% got 25% of sex, not 29%. 30 years ago (no data though, just speculating), it might have been as low as 15%, with all other percentages proportionally lower too. Inequality is skyrocketing.

Results: the average guy (i.e. not a guy with fame, amazing game and/or model looks) is finding it harder than ever to get laid, whereas guys with one or more of those have it easier than ever. The overall quality of women has gone down as well, but the top guys are not feeling it that much because they can still cherry-pick the best ones; again it's the average man that gets squeezed badly.

As a result of this, the game I learned and used to get solid results several years ago (what I call the "confident nice guy") has stopped working almost completely and I had to transition into darker areas like "asshole game". The sad fact is that, while game is absolutely mandatory for any guy that doesn't want to be slaughtered in today's sexual marketplace and thus the only rational choice is to learn it, the level of game required is increasing so rapidly that it might be completely out of reach for many men.

Post: #24

^Which just goes to show if men don't start developing game NOW, then they will be left the fuck behind in 5 years.

Game on.

Now.

Post: #25

(06-06-2014 02:05 AM)Handsome Creepy Eel Wrote:  At the same time, because women are getting more and more hypergamous (because of being more and more insulated from the consequences of their choices), this dwindling supply of sex is being distributed more and more unevenly. Extensive number-crunching from the study mentioned above has resulted in the conclusion that the top 2.6% of men get 29% of all sex, the top 5.5% of men get 40% of all sex, and the top 28% of men gets a staggering 78% of sex. The other 22% of sex is distributed among the thirsty masses of the remaining 72% betas.

Also, the percentages of sex that these top groups of men get are constantly increasing; 10 years ago, the same study found the top 2.6% got 25% of sex, not 29%. 30 years ago (no data though, just speculating), it might have been as low as 15%, with all other percentages proportionally lower too.

Good. I see this as a challenge. I'm in the top 28% of all men. Maybe I'm in the top 10%. But I'm not in the top 5.5% or 2.6%... yet. I see this as a challenge to get to that point.

I'm 18, so I'm young and learning. That puts me ahead of men who either refuse to acknowledge game or simply don't have it. I guess it also puts me ahead of guys who only have game while drunk. However, I'm not going to be fucking satisfied until I'm in the top 2.6% of men.