Post: #1

I know I'm dumb for getting into this situation. But of the women I've been dating recently, the one I'm most into has been separated for about 7 months (so still legally married). We've only made out so far (multiple times) but we are really into each other - there is no question. I feel like I should do something w/her on v-day, but I have never been the type to really pay attention to that day. So far, there's been no discussion w/her as to where this is going. Thoughts on a good tack to take here?

Post: #2

Go for it.

Post: #3

First date idea she ever shot down. She said it would bring up to many negative memories of high school breakups, being alone, marriage and shit. Guess I knew going into it that it wouldn't be pretty. At least I have some other options.

Post: #4

Time to restart this thread.

I'm going to grab drinks with a separated women on Tuesday. I've had sex with a divorcee before, but never with a woman who is still technically married.

I'll probably game her like all the rest, but are there any little caveats or things to watch out for that might be beneficial?

Post: #5

Game as usual, the caveat would be if you would consider an LTR with this person. Assuming you're not, proceed as usual.

Post: #6

I've banged out and dated chicks with kids. Many years ago I was seeing a woman that was separated with a young kid (was still technically married, and to a professional boxer no less). She was the last chick that I raw-dogged. We fucked once with her kid asleep in the bed next to us. But because I didn't see a future (not that I ever wanted one), and learned more and more about her family, the more I realized it was time to bail NOW.

If you're into a separated chick, and you really want to bang her, game on. Let her issues be her issues, not yours. No Captain Save-A-Ho shit. Just fuck her like any other chick, and when you get tired of her, do what you would do for any other chick.