Post: #1

Let's say there are two girls you're scoping out, would you ever take both of them out on a date at the same time? The idea I have is to take one girl with me, while I invite another girl who will meet me there. Once I get there I introduce the two of them to each other as my "friend". This will get them curious about their own position with me, and, I'm imagining, start to compete for me...

I've never done anything like this before, but I have friends who like to set up girls like that to parties and get togethers, introducing two different girls they're scoping out to each other. It works, but I've never tried it out for myself so I want to see what your experiences are...

Post: #2

It could go either way. As you said it is possible that they try to compete with each other for you, or it could backfire and you could lose both of them. It depends I guess on a number of things.

A few things to keep in mind are how they compare to each other with respect to you in terms of comfort, attraction, etc. It would be best if they are on a level playing field in terms of the above.

Also it would not be a good idea if they are more than .5 apart in terms of their looks/attractiveness. A bigger difference will trigger different reactions in them and not in your favor from either.

The most important thing probably is your level of confidence in pulling it off successfully. It is more or less being tight with two girls at the same time without either of them losing their attraction to you, so it is basically double work.

It might also be good to be at a place where you either have a chance of running in to other people you know, or arrange it so that you will run in your friends etc at some point. This probably would serve well as a backup in case you decide to go for one of them, and want to pursue the other in the future.

Post: #3

If your already banging both of them this is a bad idea unless you want to see if the are DTF in a 3 way. If you are getting tired of them then u really have nothing to lose though. Might as well get em drunk together and see what happens.

Post: #4

Indeed, I once did this (not planned) with a girl I was banging and another one and it wasn't exactly what I expected it to be like. It depends on what kind of date you are on or what kind of things you are after.

Post: #5

If your cards are played right it can turn into a threesome

Post: #6

Emergency post.
i may be in a bit of a pickle

I set up a date with a chick on OKC a couple days ago.. Flaked on her cause I met a different girl.
At the same Time.. I've been pullling more number on OKC

Every now an then I double book dates assuming one flakes.

So with this new number.. I book a date for tonight.
Figure logistics out and its schedule.
At the same time, I was talking to the girl I flaked on.. and joke that we should meet up tonight. because her roomate is also going out.

The Day before.. she tells me she is new to the area and tells me her roomates favorite bar.
This new chick..Just told me the same bar is her favorite.

Both girl have roommate in the same area...They also have similar styles.
Im more than 50 percent sure these chicks are together.

What is the procedure for when you independently schedule dates with chicks that turn out to be roomates.

Post: #7

(01-03-2015 08:16 PM)Sourcecode Wrote:  Emergency post.
i may be in a bit of a pickle

I set up a date with a chick on OKC a couple days ago.. Flaked on her cause I met a different girl.
At the same Time.. I've been pullling more number on OKC

Every now an then I double book dates assuming one flakes.

So with this new number.. I book a date for tonight.
Figure logistics out and its schedule.
At the same time, I was talking to the girl I flaked on.. and joke that we should meet up tonight. because her roomate is also going out.

The Day before.. she tells me she is new to the area and tells me her roomates favorite bar.
This new chick..Just told me the same bar is her favorite.

Both girl have roommate in the same area...They also have similar styles.
Im more than 50 percent sure these chicks are together.

What is the procedure for when you independently schedule dates with chicks that turn out to be roomates.

Chances are that the girls your talking too aren't the roomates. It's possible though. I'm interested in how this goes.

Whatever happens, maintain frame.

Post: #8

(01-03-2015 08:16 PM)Sourcecode Wrote:  What is the procedure for when you independently schedule dates with chicks that turn out to be roomates.

RVF'er donkeyschlong and I scheduled a double date in the Philippines and found out that both girls were sisters - they didn't know that the guys they were messaging knew each other and would be at the same place - and we didn't know they were related.

Post: #9

I've done it many times.

KEY THING: Whether I'm introduced or we met randomly the vibe between us is fun / friendly / flirty.

When I get introduced to one girl I meet all her friends. When I cold approach some chick let's say in the club I talk to her friends too. I want to become one of them and work from within. Like a virus Essentially I turn every social encounter into social circle game asap.

This way it's just me being me and a couple of girls around me. There is no traditionally romantic vibe between us. A lot of flirty vibe going on of course but no courting in the air at all. The dynamic looks like they talk to some cool guy they knew from somewhere. I convey my intent by giving more attention to the one[s] I like the most and check whether she/they respond or not. By attention I don't mean only nice attention but also teases, wacky compliments, negs, turning away, etc. As we all know girls crave getting attention so playing with this is very good way to express interest in any high pressure social situation [even at work].

When I invite them out they know it's a group hangout. Not a date. So then it's a matter of gaming some more, seeing what's up with who and orchestrating some 1on1 time. When I click with a girl it just happens naturally. It's actually funny how "accidental" it looks from distance that we just "happen" to be talking each other more than to others.



PS. I don't recommend having 2-3 girls you have romantic vibe with and inviting them both on traditional date as a surprise it's not typical 1on1. It's so fucked. Managing expectations for the win.

Post: #10

Re: Sourcecode:

This shit happens all the time with online dating.

Girls don't want to join dating apps "alone" so they talk their roommate into joining at the same time as them.

Back when the Tinder app first came out, I matched with two 21 year old girls who, unbeknownst to me, were roommates.

They played me for a bit until I figured it out, and they thought the whole thing was just hilarious. Ended up doing a 3-way phone call with them to chat and shoot the shit, and they suggested we all meet up at a hookah bar.

Unfortunately my game wasn't strong back then, and I blew it during the meet up, but it was still a funny learning experience.

Post: #11

Alright..
It turned out.. the girls weren't roommates.
They just had a lot of similarities.
I didn't give either of them a specific time to meet. I just said Ill be there around *** oclock.
giving them the names thick freak (5'10 hipster girl with big ass) and mouse face 5'5 hipster girl that kinda had a mouse face..but all a thick ass.
Mouse face kept her time.. but thick freak moved the time back because of her roommates.

So I ended up meeting mouse face first and after she went through a couple glasses of wine, she was trying to eat my face off.
Just as I was leaving with her.. Thick freak walked.. luckily the bar was so crowded..she hopefully didnt see me. (but I saw her...you cant my a 5'10 woman with short blond hair)

Thick freak also has a broken phone.. so she couldnt text me.
as far as she knows.. I flaked on her twice.

Post: #12

I was kinda hoping they would know each other.. or at least both approach me at the same time.
That way I could revel in the feeling of going.."hey mouse face.. this is my date thick freak".. vice versa.. :lets get a drink together."