Post: #1

Hey,

I want to try going out in a neighboring city. 30-45 minute train ride away + bike 15 minutes from station to my place. It's much bigger, so I might have better luck there. My last train from there is at 01 15, and then the next one is at 05 15.

So, what are my options here? Do I, at some point, tell whoever girl I'm gaming that I don't live in the city? Or do I not bring it up at all, and try to get her to go to her place instead?

And odds are the girls would've used their bikes to get to the clubs/bars, so maybe that could be a bit of a cockblock. How can I avoid this? Simply go for a cab, and then tell her to tell the driver where she lives? I think trying to get a tram in the middle of the night would be a bad move. They only run every half hour. It would work out way cheaper, but I don't wanna get cock blocked for the sake a few bucks. Same thing with walking....depending on how far she lives, she may start rationalizing why she shouldn't do it.

Post: #2

(05-27-2014 04:17 AM)Frank Wrote:  Hey,

I want to try going out in a neighboring city. 30-45 minute train ride away + bike 15 minutes from station to my place. It's much bigger, so I might have better luck there. My last train from there is at 01 15, and then the next one is at 05 15.

So, what are my options here? Do I, at some point, tell whoever girl I'm gaming that I don't live in the city? Or do I not bring it up at all, and try to get her to go to her place instead?

And odds are the girls would've used their bikes to get to the clubs/bars, so maybe that could be a bit of a cockblock. How can I avoid this? Simply go for a cab, and then tell her to tell the driver where she lives? I think trying to get a tram in the middle of the night would be a bad move. They only run every half hour. It would work out way cheaper, but I don't wanna get cock blocked for the sake a few bucks. Same thing with walking....depending on how far she lives, she may start rationalizing why she shouldn't do it.

just own the fact that you are from out of town and try to get back to her place. I have done it, I live an hour from the nearest city where there are any bars or women.

Post: #3

Don't limit yourself to just your place or hers. Expand your options. For example, any alleys around the bars that you could go for dome? Any bathrooms that you could bring her in? Cheap motels? Any friends in the city who'd let you use their couch? You said you take a train there, but could you bring your car?

If none of the above works, take a cab to her place.

Post: #4

If you own it and state with authority "we're going to your place" it works 90% of the time. Also eliminates the possibility in her mind that you're a serial killer and are going to take her to your place and brutally murder her. If you say "hey baby, i know it's not the best thing in the world but I live out of town so, I was wondering, can we please go to your place? If not it's totally fine" in a wimpy tone you will get shut down, but if you say you're leaving to go to her place with confidence and swagger it'll work. When a girl wants to bang, she wants to bang. Attraction overrides logic and will spin the hamster in your direction. The best player I know comes in from an hour out of town with no plan whatsoever and manages to make it out alive every time. If you're confident enough, your game is tight enough, and you can screen girls well enough you can easily find a place to crash.

Post: #5

I can definitely empathize with you. I'm in a very similar situation. However, when I go into the city, I usually do for a predetermined date (Tinder) since it seems like a crap shoot. I will begin venturing into the city more often to game, though.

I would say to think about it like this: Go out, have a good time alone or with friends, meet people, socialize, and if you get laid, you get laid. If not, you learn from your mistakes, and logistically make things better each time thereafter.

-R

Post: #6

Happy hunting.