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I Waited Until 42 To Have A Baby. I'm Hoping It is Not Too Late.
This would be less frustrating if she could take the correct lesson from it and educate women younger than her.

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Quote:My husband A is a dentist and I am a a lawyer. We both grew up working class and put ourselves through school. Our combined student loan debt is a large two-story house in most states. Education was always our priority. After UC Riverside, I went to USC Law and he went to Cal Poly and UCSF Dental School. We made it, together.

My husband and I have been together forever. Twenty-one years and counting but only married for six. I call myself the patron saint of patience and despite all the ominous warnings from my friends, the wait paid off for me. A is a loyal and steadfast husband and he makes me a better person.

A and I had achieved everything we had ever wanted. That is, until we tried to have a baby. We started trying when I was 36, right after we got married. We continued to try and try again for two years with no result. Let me assure you reader that it was not for lack of trying.

People said to lose weight, which I did with surgical intervention. By 39, I was 90 pounds lighter and yet still, no baby.

At 40, I started to panic. It felt like it should have happened already. I kept thinking of the many years we had only used the pull out method. Maybe it wasn't the method that kept a baby at bay but something else. Something was wrong. This should have been easy right? Babies were supposed to happen organically.

I started seeing a fertility expert in Riverside. They diagnosed me with "unexplained infertility" whatever that means. I soon learned that fertility at 40 is a murky proposition at best. The doctor told me that my hormones were low, so low that my eggs might not even be viable. It was probably the stress, the doctor said. He elaborated that, "We get a lot of lawyers in here that can't get pregnant."

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Unexplained fertility?



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Well, there's IVF. It's only $30,000 a try or so.
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(05-20-2014 08:49 AM)Sumanguru Wrote:  They diagnosed me with "unexplained infertility" whatever that means.

It means God is finally starting to pay attention to the shit show going on down here.
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(05-20-2014 08:58 AM)frenchie Wrote:  Unexplained fertility?



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She should have went to a doctor 10 years before. If he wasn't a puss, he'd have diagnosed her with obesity and Geriatric Fertility.
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Wow. Superstrong hamster.


Did she think that she was a man????

I think a lot o women think that because they become lawyers that they cease to be female....
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(05-20-2014 10:54 AM)kdolo Wrote:  Wow. Superstrong hamster.


Did she think that she was a man????

I think a lot o women think that because they become lawyers that they cease to be female....

Even for older men it's an issue. Sure, they can still impregnate women, but they're sperm is usually of low quality. More incidence of autism, learning disabilities, etc.

But men, for the most part, have no problem dealing with this reality. Women = children forever.
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90 pounds is like losing a small woman. Why would her husband want to impregnate that in the first place.

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Old disgusting pig cannot understand why she cannot get pregnant. Shudder I can only imagine who the boyfriend is.

I love watching nature at work.

Quote:We started trying when I was 36, right after we got married. We continued to try and try again for two years with no result. Let me assure you reader that it was not for lack of trying.

Guess what? Women aren't supposed to wait until they are 36. You're supposed to have kids at 26.

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I know we do a lot of talking in the manosphere about the female rationalization hamster. Seems to me we are neglecting an equally evil entity, the female inner entitlement monkey.

Women like her not only want it all (great education, job, family), they feel entitled to it all. Guess what special little snowflakes, you are entitled to precisely zero.

I had to laugh at the comment from her doctor where she was told that a lot of lawyers who come in are having trouble getting pregnant. Of course they are. A legal career requires significant sacrifice of one's youth for schooling and huge hours early in your career. You will be mid to late thirties before you are established. If you interrupt that to have a family, you endanger your career. You prioritize your career, you endanger your future ability to be fertile. It's a tradeoff.

I am surrounded by young female lawyers who want the profession to change to allow them partnership (and the accompanying pay raises) on less hours and for less merit than the men they compete against, all because they want to take time off to have family. In short, they want it all. Indeed they fell entitled to it all and rail against anyone who points out to them that reality, capitalism and business don't work that way.

The biggest lesson these special little snowflakes could learn in their lives is that actions all have consequences. You choose a career that sacrifices your youth in favour of becoming established and well-to-do later in life, you probably also have to sacrifice your best fertility years along with it.

End of rant.
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Marriage and the pull out method Huh Does not compute. Laugh

So she lost 90 pound surgically? Put down the fork honey and take the fucking stairs once in a while. The poor guys sperm was probably retreating back to his balls at the sight of this naked beast.

I'm shocked at the arrogance of this "educated woman" Dodgy

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I started college the year my mother turned 42.

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90 pounds is like losing a small woman. Why would her husband want to impregnate that in the first place.

My mother weighed barely more than 95 pounds and still does, funny enough. No problems getting pregnant either.
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(05-20-2014 11:34 AM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  I started college the year my mother turned 42.

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90 pounds is like losing a small woman. Why would her husband want to impregnate that in the first place.

My mother weighed barely more than 95 pounds and still does, funny enough. No problems getting pregnant either.

Haha. My Mom was 39 when I started college. She was 37 when my older brother started.

My Mom used to take small part-time jobs to help out with expenses. She made crafts on the side, too, for some extra scratch. She worked full time for about five years after she was 50 -- hated it and went back to crafts, scrapbooking and other ways to make a little money.

She's now 62, retired. Has seven kids that shower her with stuff on Mother's Day (her BDay is coming up, so she'll get the usual spa gift cards etc. for the second time in May). She watches two of her grandchildren during the day and generally has a fun, easy life.

I asked her recently, "Mom, did you ever want a career?" She said, "Yeah, but once I had you guys it never entered my mind. Plus, I found out working isn't all that fun."

Ball-busting lawyer bitch will be a bitter, dried up super-cunt at 62 with no kids, a husband she hates and ache from a life wasted.

And I'll bet she'll still somehow blame men for her life choices.
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(05-20-2014 11:24 AM)redpillrage33 Wrote:  I know we do a lot of talking in the manosphere about the female rationalization hamster. Seems to me we are neglecting an equally evil entity, the female inner entitlement monkey. Women like her not only want it all (great education, job, family), they feel entitled to it all.

Women can indeed have it all: great education, job, family. However, they will have to sacrifice alpha fucks and go for beta bucks in her late teens, instead of her late 20s.

Here's what them "stoopid womynz" must do:

1) Get married at 18. Give birth at 19, 22, and 25.

2) Go to college at age 28, when her youngest child is 3, and her eldest is 9. This may be her chance to get some alpha fucks if the Lacrosse Team members are into MILFs.

3) Graduate at 32, start her career.

By the time she's 40, she will have three kids, two of them in college.

One of my buddies in Poland got married at 26 to a woman aged 22. She was a mother at 23 (right after graduation) and 25. She started her career at 27, and her employers were happy to know that she had already been a mother and was not planning on having more children. She will soon be 30, and she has a 3-year-long career, two boys, and a financially secure husband in his mid-30s. She's infinitely smarter than these idiotic career women in the U.S. and Western Europe who wait till they are 30 to find beta bucks.

A career can wait. Fertility can not. If we lived in a sane society, women would be told this early on. But we live in a sick, demented society in which the media are controlled by faggots, manginas, and childless women.

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(05-20-2014 09:01 AM)Sp5 Wrote:  Well, there's IVF. It's only $30,000 a try or so.

Freer markets would diminish this cost. Remind your feminist friends.
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(05-20-2014 01:08 PM)Icarus Wrote:  
(05-20-2014 11:24 AM)redpillrage33 Wrote:  I know we do a lot of talking in the manosphere about the female rationalization hamster. Seems to me we are neglecting an equally evil entity, the female inner entitlement monkey. Women like her not only want it all (great education, job, family), they feel entitled to it all.

Women can indeed have it all: great education, job, family. However, they will have to sacrifice alpha fucks and go for beta bucks in her late teens, instead of her late 20s.

Here's what them "stoopid womynz" must do:

1) Get married at 18. Give birth at 19, 22, and 25.

2) Go to college at age 28, when her youngest child is 3, and her eldest is 9. This may be her chance to get some alpha fucks if the Lacrosse Team members are into MILFs.

3) Graduate at 32, start her career.

By the time she's 40, she will have three kids, two of them in college.

One of my buddies in Poland got married at 26 to a woman aged 22. She was a mother at 23 (right after graduation) and 25. She started her career at 27, and her employers were happy to know that she had already been a mother and was not planning on having extra children. She will soon be 30, and he has a 3-year-long career, two boys, and a financially secure husband in his mid-30s. She's infinitely smarter than these idiotic career women in the U.S. and Western Europe who wait till they are 30 to find beta bucks.

A career can wait. Fertility can not. If we lived in a sane society, women would be told this early on. But we live in a sick, demented society in which the media are controlled by faggots, manginas, and childless women.

Feminism is basically a death cult. Self-imposed genocide.
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(05-20-2014 01:16 PM)Mormon Nailer Wrote:  Feminism is basically a death cult. Self-imposed genocide.

Quoting Nietzsche:

Quote:Everything about woman is a riddle, and everything about woman has a single solution: that is, pregnancy.

Quoting Mencken:

Quote:The woman who has not had a child remains incomplete, ill at ease, and more than a little ridiculous. She is in the position of a man who has never stood in battle; she has missed the most colossal experience of her sex.

From the Bible (1 Timothy 2):

Quote:8 I desire therefore that the men pray everywhere, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting;
9 in like manner also, that the women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with propriety and moderation, not with braided hair or gold or pearls or costly clothing,
10 but, which is proper for women professing godliness, with good works.
11 Let a woman learn in silence with all submission.
12 And I do not permit a woman to teach or to have authority over a man, but to be in silence.
13 For Adam was formed first, then Eve.
14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived, fell into transgression.
15 Nevertheless she will be saved in childbearing if they continue in faith, love, and holiness, with self-control.

Nothing new under the sun, gents...

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(05-20-2014 01:08 PM)Icarus Wrote:  Women can indeed have it all: great education, job, family. However, they will have to sacrifice alpha fucks and go for beta bucks in her late teens, instead of her late 20s.

Here's what them "stoopid womynz" must do:

1) Get married at 18. Give birth at 19, 22, and 25.

2) Go to college at age 28, when her youngest child is 3, and her eldest is 9. This may be her chance to get some alpha fucks if the Lacrosse Team members are into MILFs.

3) Graduate at 32, start her career.

By the time she's 40, she will have three kids, two of them in college.

A career can wait. Fertility can not. If we lived in a sane society, women would be told this early on. But we live in a sick, demented society in which the media are controlled by faggots, manginas, and childless women.

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(05-20-2014 11:26 AM)Master Of My Own Kingdom Wrote:  [Image: 1264319881771.gif]

Megan Ward was 23 in Encino Man (above). Here she is at 44. WYB?

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Fat, infertile, and over 40. Yeesh.

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My grandfather said the same expression vinman. I thought he made it up.
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Icarus, you have triggered me, lol, by posting a Biblical quote in any but the only possible translation.

Look at how much purer and better the real KJV is. What fool dared to put "self-control" in that verse? Jeez.

Quote:8 I will therefore that men pray every where, lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting.

9 In like manner also, that women adorn themselves in modest apparel, with shamefacedness and sobriety; not with broided hair, or gold, or pearls, or costly array;

10 But (which becometh women professing godliness) with good works.

11 Let the woman learn in silence with all subjection.

12 But I suffer not a woman to teach, nor to usurp authority over the man, but to be in silence.

13 For Adam was first formed, then Eve.

14 And Adam was not deceived, but the woman being deceived was in the transgression.

15 Notwithstanding she shall be saved in childbearing, if they continue in faith and charity and holiness with sobriety.

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Women are told to get a career and family later or not at all. Women are told they dont need a man to help and support her but in todays economy a man can help you with your children and keep you out of poverty.

All of these women and very few actually realise this trap that has been set for them.
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