Post: #5126

@Vincent Chase,

What was the vibe like on the date? Was there a lot of laughing, kino, did she give any signs that she was dtf?

From your report it sounds like she was a tease and a big time waster.

Post: #5127

Funny how things can change really rapidly, OKC had been dead for me for about a month, and suddenly last night around 1 AM my phone starts blowing up from three girls at the same time. One of them was someone who I sent an opening message to a good 2 months ago and had totally forgotten about (so she probably just got 'single' again after the holidays and is going thru her pile of messages picking out the winners.) I knew if I let it drag into the next day it would be over, so I stayed up and got their numbers, one definite meet already scheduled, one still open but will probably happen, one probable timewaster. So in addition to the girl I mention a few posts above, if I'm lucky, I'll have three meetups this week. After weeks of zip.

Sorry I ever doubted the guys who were saying it would get better in January.

Post: #5128

I wanted to share my recent OKC experience for whomever it might be useful/helpful.

I have 2 OKC accounts, real one with pic, info & the whole nine yards and the "observation" one with just a profile pic in it and no whatsoever activity until yesterday. Despite all that, until yesterday, the profiles would get similar number of visits and likes and actually the fake one has occasionally even gotten messages from OKC women.
While I don't consider myself & my pictures ugly, I can't say they're out of a Hollywood movie either, but if this "observation" profile with only one picture of a dude sitting and drinking beer gets more traffic than the real one, it means that looks matter which confirms the 20/80 rule and apparently if one is not on the top 20, will have a much harder time in OKC. Talk about bitches' double standard.

Yesterday evening I started filling in some info and answering some questions. In about 1 hour I filled in 40 questions and the first 3 info boxes.
In the process I got 12+ visits, about 6 likes and 1 received message. Today I noticed also 4 quick matches.
I guess that confirms that performing activity on the profile, especially on a Sunday evening, increases traffic. Women's "Getting a bf" new year resolution might add to that.

Post: #5129

(01-18-2016 12:50 AM)~wrIghter~ Wrote:  @Vincent Chase,

What was the vibe like on the date? Was there a lot of laughing, kino, did she give any signs that she was dtf?

From your report it sounds like she was a tease and a big time waster.

It was a daytime date, I very rarely do these as it's much harder for anything to happen and I took it as a slow burner. I met up with her and she had a hot drink as it was fucking freezing outside and the place we went to wasn't ideal (my regular was full) as it felt too pretentious like a 5 star hotel bar sort of vibe to it. Too much of a whiff of rich man's game to it. No alcohol also generally translates to no sex, not always but often.

I did a variety of negative expressions, some kino. Eventually pulled her back to my place as it was getting darker. There nothing happened, I went for the kiss and she backed off, I backed off and tried some kino and back to escalate but nothing worked. So I told her we should be friends and kicked her the fuck out before she wasted my time any further.

You certainly can't win them all.

The amount of time you waste in game is incredible. You have to wonder what goes through a girl's head to be with a guy for 3-4 hours. get back to his place and yet reject kissing him. What the fuck does she think she is a fucking puzzle?

I used to chalk it to experience but the more you go through the less you are willing to put up with. I didn't get angry or upset I just smiled at her and showed her the way out.

Post: #5130

(01-18-2016 06:13 PM)Vincent Chase Wrote:  The amount of time you waste in game is incredible. You have to wonder what goes through a girl's head to be with a guy for 3-4 hours. get back to his place and yet reject kissing him. What the fuck does she think she is a fucking puzzle?

It's fairly clear they don't have any idea what they want, or what they're doing, most of the time.

Post: #5131

I bailed on a meet I had set up from OKC tonight because she outed herself as a serial dater via text, before I even was supposed to meet her later this week.

Her: "well, I got a busy day tomorrow, lots of stuff to do and a date after work"

Me: (6 hours later) "cool, hope you guys hit it off"

Her: (3 minutes later) "lol I canceled on him because he was sending me weird texts"

Me: "I'm canceling on you for the same reason"

Post: #5132

^

Post: #5133

(01-19-2016 11:57 AM)Red_Pillage Wrote:  ^

Yeah. Must suck to take the time to make a bunch of dates, and then shoot yourself right in the foot because you think guys want to stay apprised of your online dating schedule, and that I'm thirsty enough to be cool with it MS. I AM BIG TIME DESIRED. You know, that feeling kind of like your time was wasted?

Yeah...

Sadly, it seems like more chicks are openly running "I AM A BIG SHOT" game online and straight up telling dudes they're being booked in like my dentist. And unfortunately, I'm sure there are plenty who will take them up on it.

Post: #5134

Did she ever respond to your last text?

Post: #5135

(01-19-2016 12:56 PM)Remington Wrote:  Did she ever respond to your last text?

Yeah, she responded this morning with "Thanks. Good luck to u"

I found that admirable. I figured it would take a hamsterization of truly epic proportions to laughingly tell me how she bailed on someone, but then get angry when I did the same thing.

Another one in her 30s who doesn't quite realize that I'm off making plans with 23 and 24 year olds in the background.

Post: #5136

I was hoping for more of a blow up than a "Thanks" text. Goes to show that she has unlimited options.

Post: #5137

(01-19-2016 01:01 PM)Remington Wrote:  I was hoping for more of a blow up than a "Thanks" text. Goes to show that she has unlimited options.

Exactly, and it comes out on dates too - the girls I've banged were somewhat respectful and at least put up a guise that I wasn't the third guy they met up with this week, the ones I didn't often do and say whatever they want, want to chat with me about their Tinder statistics, steal glassware from bars, and I catch them texting the next guy they're seeing that evening when I'm leaving the bathroom. Or right in front of me. They don't care. And some of them were basically "5.5"s on a good day if they really put a lot of effort into getting cleaned up.

Post: #5138

(01-19-2016 01:39 AM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

(01-18-2016 06:13 PM)Vincent Chase Wrote:  The amount of time you waste in game is incredible. You have to wonder what goes through a girl's head to be with a guy for 3-4 hours. get back to his place and yet reject kissing him. What the fuck does she think she is a fucking puzzle?

It's fairly clear they don't have any idea what they want, or what they're doing, most of the time.

One girl told me recently, after I got a blowjob from her on a first date but didn't bang her second time she was there (I think I just didn't take my cock out soon enough when she was completely naked and she got turned off) that "I don't know why I'm here". She just lay there for about 20 seconds trying to work out why she was naked in my bed, and said "there must be a reason otherwise I would have walked off before I got here". Eventually she said "oh I remember now". I didn't bother asking her what it was. All I was thinking was "what a fucking retard".

Post: #5139

(01-19-2016 03:37 PM)Vincent Chase Wrote:  

(01-19-2016 01:39 AM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

(01-18-2016 06:13 PM)Vincent Chase Wrote:  The amount of time you waste in game is incredible. You have to wonder what goes through a girl's head to be with a guy for 3-4 hours. get back to his place and yet reject kissing him. What the fuck does she think she is a fucking puzzle?

It's fairly clear they don't have any idea what they want, or what they're doing, most of the time.

One girl told me recently, after I got a blowjob from her on a first date but didn't bang her second time she was there (I think I just didn't take my cock out soon enough when she was completely naked and she got turned off) that "I don't know why I'm here". She just lay there for about 20 seconds trying to work out why she was naked in my bed, and said "there must be a reason otherwise I would have walked off before I got here". Eventually she said "oh I remember now". I didn't bother asking her what it was. All I was thinking was "what a fucking retard".

She would have been lost to me forever at that point, because given my personality type and how easily I laugh at things, I would have had enormous trouble not being all Idi Amin:



One time I was putting my finger in a girl's butt and she was making the silliest faces and noises and I couldn't help myself:



She got pissed

If you can fart on her and she thinks it's hilarious you got a winner on your hands, IMO. I think OKC actually has a "match" question about that.

Post: #5140

(01-19-2016 01:01 PM)Remington Wrote:  I was hoping for more of a blow up than a "Thanks" text. Goes to show that she has unlimited options.

Yup, they don't give a fuck.

They rationalize it as a shrug.

Nuking a girl or insulting a girl you've matched from online is just pointless nowadays.

You'll never get a blow up anymore.

Post: #5141

(01-19-2016 12:49 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  

(01-19-2016 11:57 AM)Red_Pillage Wrote:  ^

Yeah. Must suck to take the time to make a bunch of dates, and then shoot yourself right in the foot because you think guys want to stay apprised of your online dating schedule, and that I'm thirsty enough to be cool with it MS. I AM BIG TIME DESIRED. You know, that feeling kind of like your time was wasted?

Yeah...

Sadly, it seems like more chicks are openly running "I AM A BIG SHOT" game online and straight up telling dudes they're being booked in like my dentist. And unfortunately, I'm sure there are plenty who will take them up on it.

Same concept as women getting tatted, swearing constantly and generally being brash and unfeminine. They are attracted to that, so they imitate it. They're fucking clueless in that they don't realize by embodying behavior they are attracted to they're making themselves unattractive.


Same goes for male feminists.

Post: #5142

(01-19-2016 04:02 PM)Red_Pillage Wrote:  Same concept as women getting tatted, swearing constantly and generally being brash and unfeminine. They are attracted to that, so they imitate it. They're fucking clueless in that they don't realize by embodying behavior they are attracted to they're making themselves unattractive.


Same goes for male feminists.

She sort of fit that demographic, so shame on me as well. Too bad I kind of like tattoos.

Post: #5143

One of the early 20s girls flaked on me today. Got her number on Sunday, and made plans for Friday. That was concerning as it felt just too far away, as I mention above a week is near an eternity, even if you've made "definite" plans. She texted me quite a bit on Sunday, Monday, and Tuesday to make sure we were both free for the meet, she was letting me know what she was up to, talking about how she was looking forward to meeting me, blah blah. Last night she hit me with "what are you up to tonight?" It was at like 9 PM and I'm 30 miles away. I couldn't make it.

Pinged her this afternoon and nothing. She likely found a better Friday option and was looking to push me up.

Oh well. I don't have much luck with the under 25 demographic so I think I'll throw this one in the "restart" bin.

Wow. Apparently this thread was about getting laid like a boss at one point! It's been well over a month since I hooked a girl from the site. Hope to have another success story eventually. I still need to get some better pic action going on...

Post: #5144

Girls on okc have been replying to my openers, sending back and forth 2-3 messages where I feel we click then COMPLETELY ignoring me and it angers me to no end. I'm so upset.

Post: #5145

(01-21-2016 06:50 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  Girls on okc have been replying to my openers, sending back and forth 2-3 messages where I feel we click then COMPLETELY ignoring me and it angers me to no end. I'm so upset.

Hello sir. Are you new here?

I wouldn't get upset over it, not really productive. Just throw the ones who reply but are wishy-washy in a list and hit them up later...they may ghost on you now, but if you text them a month from now they may be ready to go. It's happened to me and just kind of the way women on dating sites operate. The days of two people just immediately hitting it off ("clicking") on a site with mutual respect and meeting up with no drama seem mostly over - the high quality girls are going to play games and make you work for it.

And you could watch the following for inspiration:

Post: #5146

(01-20-2016 10:15 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  One of the early 20s girls flaked on me today. Got her number on Sunday, and made plans for Friday. That was concerning as it felt just too far away, as I mention above a week is near an eternity, even if you've made "definite" plans. She texted me quite a bit on Sunday, Monday, and Tuesday to make sure we were both free for the meet, she was letting me know what she was up to, talking about how she was looking forward to meeting me, blah blah. Last night she hit me with "what are you up to tonight?" It was at like 9 PM and I'm 30 miles away. I couldn't make it.

Pinged her this afternoon and nothing. She likely found a better Friday option and was looking to push me up.

Oh well. I don't have much luck with the under 25 demographic so I think I'll throw this one in the "restart" bin.

Wow. Apparently this thread was about getting laid like a boss at one point! It's been well over a month since I hooked a girl from the site. Hope to have another success story eventually. I still need to get some better pic action going on...

Your instincts were correct on Friday being too far away, but also never book a first meeting for a Friday or Saturday. Too many other options for stuff to do + too high-pressure. Shoot for nice Sunday or Tuesday nights, then the setup is chill and you have a PUA-esque false time constraint built-in of having to get to bed to go to work.

Post: #5147

(01-22-2016 11:19 AM)BadgerHut Wrote:  Your instincts were correct on Friday being too far away, but also never book a first meeting for a Friday or Saturday. Too many other options for stuff to do + too high-pressure. Shoot for nice Sunday or Tuesday nights, then the setup is chill and you have a PUA-esque false time constraint built-in of having to get to bed to go to work.

That makes sense. I think I'll shoot for Sunday and Tuesday on my other couple of options.

Post: #5148

(12-29-2015 05:48 PM)Red_Pillage Wrote:  I may have to create another profile on OKC. It's been awhile. I deleted it about 2 years ago and when I briefly came back on it i noticed that the number of trannys on there had gone WAY up.

I've also noticed that there are lots of pre-op trans women in the w4m section around here; it's pretty easy to understand - every halfway decent looking straight guy who clicks on their profile validates the shit out of them and their decision.

I've made that error on a few instances and then they seem to always come visit my profile multiple times.

Post: #5149

According to her cupid answers, she is still a Virgin

Post: #5150

B. for batshit crazy.