Post: #5076

^Has she hit you up since that night?

Post: #5077

So I had a chick tell me the other day "Well, you seem cool but I can't quite tell from your pics if I want to meet up..."

And while I'd never pursue a girl like that, I think she's right. My pictures aren't high enough quality, and like the old adage goes about customer service, if one customer takes the time to write in to a company to complain about the service, it means a hundred more are thinking the same thing.

So I know I'm losing out on bangs due to pic quality. Problem is, I have a really difficult time taking/having pictures taken that I like - I don't think I'm unattractive, but I'm just really critical and none ever seem to come out particularly good. What do you all do in that regard?

Post: #5078

(01-04-2016 12:40 PM)Remington Wrote:  ^Has she hit you up since that night?

I've blocked her on Facebook and Whatsapp, which she no doubt has noticed. She could still text me as I haven't blocked her there, but she hasn't...

Post: #5079

I met a 45 year old German MILF(?) on this tonight. When I saw her I thought I'd be a bit embarrassed to be seen with her in public given the age difference but would still consider banging her. So I thought fuck it I'm going to walk straight home with her if not I have better things to do anyway instead of wasting my time. Walked past a bar told her it's empty and I know somewhere better. She put up resistance and said she would like to get to know me first before that. I smiled at her and I walked home.

Had a flake last night, a girl I had a couple of dates with professed that she really liked me and so on, gave a handjob at most however. She said let's do wednesday instead. I'll believe it when I see it. I double booked her with a younger fitter girl. I may send her a nuke text to tell her if she doesn't want to meet it's cool i'm happy either way with a smilie face, push them away to pull them in.

Also kissed another girl from a date last week. She sent me a message after the date how she enjoyed it and all. Guess what a few days later I can see on whatsapp she deleted my number. The sheer retardation you get from girls in the hookup stages is incredible, and the better looking and younger they are the worse it is.

Banged two girls so far this week and it's only Monday so I'm not complaining.

Post: #5080

Just realized (and apologies for the derail) this little throwaway thread I started in order to share the shit I knew about online game is now 5 years old and spans 200+ pages.

Post: #5081

In progress, cold online approach -- a hot 7.9 43 year old... quite slim, brunette, and busty who has a very pleasing face:

Me: At the risk of sounding lame and goofy: Knock. Knock.
Her: LOL!!!! Who's there?! (read as: she's intelligent coz of the question and exclamation marks... atypical to younger women.)
Me: It's me! Wtf. You aren't ready yet? Mind if I mix a drink while I wait?
Her: Give me a minute!!!
Me: We have reservations at the plaza on Thursday at 8pm. Or would you rather meet at <lame supermarket all-in-one store> and pretend I just had to talk with you coz you are so intriguing looking at rice cookers?!
Her: I want calimari!
Me: That's the plan! Be there! ((she is hungry plus wants tentacles...))

Post: #5082

(01-04-2016 01:33 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  So I had a chick tell me the other day "Well, you seem cool but I can't quite tell from your pics if I want to meet up..."

And while I'd never pursue a girl like that, I think she's right. My pictures aren't high enough quality, and like the old adage goes about customer service, if one customer takes the time to write in to a company to complain about the service, it means a hundred more are thinking the same thing.

So I know I'm losing out on bangs due to pic quality. Problem is, I have a really difficult time taking/having pictures taken that I like - I don't think I'm unattractive, but I'm just really critical and none ever seem to come out particularly good. What do you all do in that regard?

There is an AMAZING thread on here about how to take good online photos (the original post has 200+ likes):

/thread-45167.html

Vincent Chase: I had a laugh about the German MILF. I've met a few MILFS and I've definitely have had the same feeling about the age/looks difference and how I AM the one doing these chicks a favor so things are going to be on MY terms. I know some guys here love MILFs but I've been very unimpressed with MILFs in general. A lot of them seem to have logistic/time issues (kids and baby daddys) and shitty/weird attitudes. But goddamn when and if you do meet, do these MILFs give it up fast. I think my average for first meet-to-bang time is 35 minutes. But even as it easy as it comes, I still can't be bothered.

And like fuckin clockwork, OKC is starting to heat up since Sunday. All of a sudden I'm getting a ton of likes, LONG replys to short messages, and unsolicited messages. It's a Players Christmas! (as predicted)

Post: #5083

I'm banned from OKC, POF doesnt really have anyone attractive, what other dating sites are their besides tinder off

Post: #5084

(01-04-2016 05:17 PM)Kid Strangelove Wrote:  Just realized (and apologies for the derail) this little throwaway thread I started in order to share the shit I knew about online game is now 5 years old and spans 200+ pages.

It's been a great source for people starting out with online game, but nowadays it's basically an extension of the "What should I text next," I-Just-Got-Flaked-On, and Plus-Notch threads peppered with people debating whether or not online game is dead.

Post: #5085

(01-05-2016 04:54 AM)The Black Knight Wrote:  And like fuckin clockwork, OKC is starting to heat up since Sunday. All of a sudden I'm getting a ton of likes, LONG replys to short messages, and unsolicited messages. It's a Players Christmas! (as predicted)

I don't know what kind of messages you are sending them. I've been varying my opening messages between the boring "Hey how you doing" to the most outrageous stuff I could get away with without getting banned.

Nothing but short and non-replies.

Post: #5086

I'm starting to get more replies on OKC than in December, but the chicks are still super-flakey.

One responded to my opening message and seemed down to possibly meet, but then hit me with "hey, I have a cold. Can we make it next week?" Ugh, fuck I knew that one was coming. I know you ain't got a cold, you're just booking some dweeb in ahead of me.

Another responded to a message of mine from over a month ago, but when I pitched the date told me "Well, I'd like to but I'm pretty sure I'm going to be moving away in the near future." Yeah, whatever, your profile will still be up in the same area three months from now.

Whaaaaaaaaaatver lame-os.

Post: #5087

Any estimates on how long it will be before I have to shave my beard? You used to often see "I like guys with beards, beards are cool" on women's profiles.

Now I'm starting to see "beards are gross, I don't like men with facial hair" more and more often.

Post: #5088

Have a couple of leads on OKC (one date tonight but she said upfront that she has to make it an early night).

But I noticed something strange. Trannies seem to be infiltrating OKC and Tinder in my area... and this is in Texas, and in a relatively conservative city compared to either US coast. It must be getting really bad in the liberal areas when trannies are out in the open around here.

Post: #5089

I've decided to start an OKC experiment:

I reactivated my account last night with the original intention of only talking to girls who message me first.

Rules of Engagement:

-I will only engage if they message me first.

-I will play quickmatch from time to time which will inevitably put me on girls' radars who I end up "liking" as I will show up on their quickmatch.

-I will not message them if we "match."

-I will go on dates if the text exchange leads to them.

***Here is the wild card***

Aside from using my normal OKC profile, I am going to create a new profile which will be geared towards being a purely sexual/asshole/clown persona. I will post pictures of me posing like a cocky shithead with little clothes on, and pics of me surrounded by girls.

The goal of this is to see what piques girls' interest more online.

I'm also open to suggestions on this social experiment.

I'm thinking the dates that end up hooking off of my player/clown profile I will put on a mask when I go to meet up.

EDIT: Noticed this when making my new account...

   

Post: #5090

(01-12-2016 10:10 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  I'm thinking the dates that end up hooking off of my player/clown profile I will put on a mask when I go to meet up.

How about doing an A/B split test where you make the player/clown profile using one email address, and use another email address to make another profile with you suited up and looking for dates and LTRs or something.

Post: #5091

(01-12-2016 10:14 AM)CleanSlate Wrote:  

(01-12-2016 10:10 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  I'm thinking the dates that end up hooking off of my player/clown profile I will put on a mask when I go to meet up.

How about doing an A/B split test where you make the player/clown profile using one email address, and use another email address to make another profile with you suited up and looking for dates and LTRs or something.

Was actually thinking of that too. Should I make the one "beta"?

Post: #5092

(01-07-2016 01:12 PM)CleanSlate Wrote:  

(01-05-2016 04:54 AM)The Black Knight Wrote:  And like fuckin clockwork, OKC is starting to heat up since Sunday. All of a sudden I'm getting a ton of likes, LONG replys to short messages, and unsolicited messages. It's a Players Christmas! (as predicted)

I don't know what kind of messages you are sending them. I've been varying my opening messages between the boring "Hey how you doing" to the most outrageous stuff I could get away with without getting banned.

Nothing but short and non-replies.

My online game is very tight, my profile is tight, my pics are OK, and I put substantial time into it on the most lucrative nights. So, my current success is largely the result of serious effort, trial and error, some significant grinding, and surgical targeting of baseline solid prospects. I never send a "Hey how you doing" ultra generic kind of message though. Ever. That shit might fly if you are super-good looking. Your lack of replys could have nothing to do with your online game however; just could be a shit location for OKC. I don't know your level of experience but if you questions, you can post them here and/or PM me and maybe I can help.

Short replies can be worked with as long as they seem to semi give a shit about moving the interaction forward. If a chick gives me a warm vibe but short messages, I just close her after 4-5 short messages. Takes 2 minutes of actual work. She stalls or doesn't give up the number, fuck her and move on. I got a number yesterday just like the aforementioned situation.

In contrast, I had a 3-4 message exchange going but with very long replies on both ends (almost ALWAYS a guaranteed lock to give up digits) AND this chick said a specific day when she'd be free to get together but when I asked for her digits? Completely ghosted on me even though she is still logging into her profile daily. It is pretty rare to have a substantial message exchange, she suggests a meeting day, and a twat to suddenly ghost when prompted for digits.

I'll probably send a a diplomatic funny version of "Why did you decide to be be a cunt all of sudden and disappear?" in a week or so since these were substantial replies AND the chick is pretty hot. It's a pretty safe bet some other guy hooked her and once she goes on a few dates and gets pump and dumped or finds out the guys profile doesn't line up with real life, I'll come back swooping in and maybe get a bang out of it. Low odds but could maybe swing it.

Anyhow the point is: whether you get short or long replies, the end result is ultimately unpredictable.

Post: #5093

(01-12-2016 11:01 AM)The Black Knight Wrote:  Anyhow the point is: whether you get short or long replies, the end result is ultimately unpredictable.

Yeah it's almost a crapshoot, pretty much.

You know, I've been getting the most mileage out of this one: "Hey you're pretty attractive. You seem like someone I may want to get to know better. How you doing today?"

Yes, it's a little boring. It's nothing special, it's not witty, and is neither gamey nor clownish. But it does get me responses, which means I get chances to further the interaction.

Post: #5094

Gen Stalin:

I believe OKC released data a while back that pretty much proved that while women say they don't like shirtless pics (the cocky/clown look and vibe you are going for), the same chicks will still message those guys in droves despite the bullshit they spew. The general conclusion was that the more skin you show (assuming you have the body to support it), the better. I don't think the profile or message content matters much once you cross a certain threshold in the looks/pics department.

I would suggest you go for the cocky/clown deal with revealing pics but do quickmatch AND send short generic messages to chicks to see if that alone hooks them. I would also experiment with very quick number closing with weak messages. Like:

You: Hey what's up?

Her: Heeeey handsome / Hey / Hi, how are you?

You: You seem cool. Lets exchange numbers!

And see if that kind of bullshit flies because your pics/profile vibe are doing the heavy lifting.

Post: #5095

(01-12-2016 11:20 AM)CleanSlate Wrote:  

(01-12-2016 11:01 AM)The Black Knight Wrote:  Anyhow the point is: whether you get short or long replies, the end result is ultimately unpredictable.

Yeah it's almost a crapshoot, pretty much.

You know, I've been getting the most mileage out of this one: "Hey you're pretty attractive. You seem like someone I may want to get to know better. How you doing today?"

Yes, it's a little boring. It's nothing special, it's not witty, and is neither gamey nor clownish. But it does get me responses, which means I get chances to further the interaction.

Not bad (although I would have never shared it on the forum lol. Even though its generic, I'd delete it but thats me). It seems sincere and when chicks are getting bombard with "Hey", "Whats up", and sexual/creepy messages constantly, it stands out.

Post: #5096

I appreciate the women in my area who put in their profiles "I'm big into social justice and feminism. Don't message me if you're looking to get laid."

I appreciate their candor and effort in saving me time.

Post: #5097

(01-12-2016 08:08 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  I appreciate the women in my area who put in their profiles "I'm big into social justice and feminism. Don't message me if you're looking to get laid."

I appreciate their candor and effort in saving me time.

I laugh so hard and close the tab at that point...although you can usually see it coming from the pics. Lately though I have seen a few "don't message me if you are going to vote for Hillary," which is a refreshing turnaround. I want to reply to them with customized Trump memes.

Post: #5098

So far my asshole profile has gotten 11 likes and 4 matches. No messages yet though.

Post: #5099

My thoughts on that "gender selection" page:



It really shows you what team the site is playing for. Wouldn't want to offend all the Hirja Two Spirits in the world. Someone should complain that you can only select five or less.

And why do all these beezies love dogs so much? It's kind of creepy. It's seriously like I'm on a bestiality fetish site sometimes.

Post: #5100

^I identify as a beer can. Why don't they have Cansgender on that list?

I'm offended.