Post: #26

(04-28-2014 05:45 AM)Blondie Wrote:  I've been fucking girls since some of you guys were sucking on your mama's titties. If my story sounds far fetched it's because you don't have enough life experience to be able to judge what is and isn't possible. Some of you guys won't even see 1k sex sessions in your lifetimes; it's all just probabilities, it's nobodies fault. It's like getting rich or dying at an early age, some guys do and some don't.
If you wanna believe this is a troll post I'll just say this- I'm gonna go buy this bitch a nice new Lambo cuz that's what I buy all my bitches.
There's your fucking troll.

You trying to brag and boast about "1k sex sessions" Holds not merit when your fucking lame enough to have to come on a public forum and ask if you have to buy your ex a car.

Fuck off Troll..... and really fuck off if your not a troll cause theres nothing you can bring to this forum thats gonna help anybody unless they are seeking to be a fucking loser.

Post: #27

(04-28-2014 05:45 AM)Blondie Wrote:  I've been fucking girls since some of you guys were sucking on your mama's titties. If my story sounds far fetched it's because you don't have enough life experience to be able to judge what is and isn't possible. Some of you guys won't even see 1k sex sessions in your lifetimes; it's all just probabilities, it's nobodies fault. It's like getting rich or dying at an early age, some guys do and some don't.
If you wanna believe this is a troll post I'll just say this- I'm gonna go buy this bitch a nice new Lambo cuz that's what I buy all my bitches.
There's your fucking troll.

This post opened up my chakras and for a moment my psychic powers went into full bloom, and I saw with my third eye the following images depicting your immediate future on this forum.

Post: #28

What seems even remotely far-fetched about this story? I hear them everyday and worse..hell the guys that work for me have worse stories every day.

Post: #29

I hear many kind of these stories (I'll be posting one soon about my friend). Some guys really can't see well. But to say you have "EXPERIENCE". Oh, dude. that's exactly what you are in need for.

Post: #30

Post: #31

There's enough emotional butthurt in here to launch a squad of hamsters to the moon. I came here looking for reasonable rational men to confirm my own belief that I'm not an asshole for telling this chick to get fucked and what I find in place of male thought and opinions is a forum seemingly populated by a majority of adolescent and high school girls with no opinions of their own and an affinity for blowing their rape/troll whistles.
I appreciate all of the respectful replies I have received.

Post: #32

Cool story bro

Post: #33

For what it's worth I didn't see it as a troll post. Not to mention seems a bit too detailed to be one. The whole 1K times a year thing was a bit of a goofy tangent to throw in there but whatever.

There are a lot of guys who feel an obligation to be there for or somewhat support exes, especially when there's a kid involved. This is no news to me.

I repeat my advice to tell her to get fucked. Sometimes with people like this (usually women), rationalizing with them is so pointless that you just have to accept that they're somehow going to make you out to be the bad guy and just straight up tell them, "The answer is no and it's not even up for conversation. End of story."

Let her do with that what she will.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #34

Where there's blood in the water here at the RVF the ban gifs flow like wine.

Post: #35

I am not sensing a troll, maybe it close to a troll post but just seems like he is just having problems with his ex.

The problem when people start jumping on the troll thing is some people start to get defensive and say stuff that gets them banned. Not the initial post or reason why the poster posts, just the reaction to guys starting to poke at him. Just my observations.

OP, if I may make a suggestion. Don't fight the troll posts. If you got the answer you needed, then thank the guys and be done.

If you have a follow up question ask it.

These guys don't know you and you don't know them. You are the new guy and the vets have seen a lot of nonsense troll stuff come on the board. The internet lets you say what you want, sometimes to your own detriment. I am trying to help here. But in what I quoted below, all you had to say was "I appreciate all of the respectful replies I have received." And leave it. I know it is hard to leave it alone especially when you have emotions riding on it. But sometimes you should.

And welcome to the forum.

Quote:There's enough emotional butthurt in here to launch a squad of hamsters to the moon. I came here looking for reasonable rational men to confirm my own belief that I'm not an asshole for telling this chick to get fucked and what I find in place of male thought and opinions is a forum seemingly populated by a majority of adolescent and high school girls with no opinions of their own and an affinity for blowing their rape/troll whistles.
I appreciate all of the respectful replies I have received.

Post: #36

(04-28-2014 11:01 AM)Tuthmosis Wrote:  

So this is the official warning gif?

Post: #37

(04-28-2014 02:38 PM)Blondie Wrote:  There's enough emotional butthurt in here to launch a squad of hamsters to the moon. I came here looking for reasonable rational men to confirm my own belief that I'm not an asshole for telling this chick to get fucked and what I find in place of male thought and opinions is a forum seemingly populated by a majority of adolescent and high school girls with no opinions of their own and an affinity for blowing their rape/troll whistles.
I appreciate all of the respectful replies I have received.

Post: #38

well guess I was wrong lol

Post: #39

When I was in my 20's I got fooled by the "My doctor said I can't get pregnant" line, and sure enough she got pregnant. "It's a miracle, OMG"

I have been paying dearly for that mistake for a very long time. The first 6 years I was in and out of Family Court fighting and fighting for Father's rights and justice and learned they don't exist, save for a few rare cases, here in America.

Should he buy his ex a new car? Depends. Usually either party can go back to court anytime to seek an upward/downward modification of support. How would he come out today if that were to happen? How much is the lawyer going to cost? Not just yours, but hers too. Oh yea, you could be paying hers.

Another thing to consider is your emotional well-bieing. How much is too much for there to be peace in the valley? That said, one extra request granted can lead to another and another.

There's no easy answer. There's a cost no matter what is decided. Guys who've been/are in this situation know that well.

Post: #40

"The first 6 years I was in and out of Family Court fighting and fighting for Father's rights and justice and learned they don't exist..."

QFT

Post: #41

I don't see this as a troll post.
I still think he should buy a 93 corolla for her to use, but keep it in his name, so he can regift it to his kid later on down the line.
It's not about her, it's about what's best for his child, and if that child is supposed to stay with her, try to make that kid's life easier considering the fucked up situation he has no say in.

If you have a kid, you have the responsibility to provide for it, not for the mother, so if you have to do it by proxy through her, then just do it.

Post: #42

(04-28-2014 03:34 PM)Thomas the Rhymer Wrote:  

(04-28-2014 02:38 PM)Blondie Wrote:  There's enough emotional butthurt in here to launch a squad of hamsters to the moon. I came here looking for reasonable rational men to confirm my own belief that I'm not an asshole for telling this chick to get fucked and what I find in place of male thought and opinions is a forum seemingly populated by a majority of adolescent and high school girls with no opinions of their own and an affinity for blowing their rape/troll whistles.
I appreciate all of the respectful replies I have received.

The internet needs more Limp Bizkit references.

Post: #43

TROLOOLOLOLOLOL bye felicia !

Post: #44

(04-28-2014 05:49 PM)Onto Wrote:  Should he buy his ex a new car? Depends. Usually either party can go back to court anytime to seek an upward/downward modification of support. How would he come out today if that were to happen? How much is the lawyer going to cost? Not just yours, but hers too. Oh yea, you could be paying hers.

Another thing to consider is your emotional well-bieing. How much is too much for there to be peace in the valley? That said, one extra request granted can lead to another and another.

There's no easy answer. There's a cost no matter what is decided. Guys who've been/are in this situation know that well.

I hear you, that's why it's called "divorce rape". But that's why I'm saying get some legal advice. There are "fathers rights" specialists in every major city now. I'm pretty sure a reputable attorney will give you 15 minutes free to explain your situation and give you an assessment. Even if the consult isn't free, if the dude can even consider buying a car for his ex, he can afford the $250 for an hour of a good attorney's time.

Post: #45

(04-30-2014 11:41 AM)RockHard Wrote:  I hear you, that's why it's called "divorce rape". But that's why I'm saying get some legal advice. There are "fathers rights" specialists in every major city now. I'm pretty sure a reputable attorney will give you 15 minutes free to explain your situation and give you an assessment. Even if the consult isn't free, if the dude can even consider buying a car for his ex, he can afford the $250 for an hour of a good attorney's time.

Even if you can find a great lawyer that really will fight for your interests, that lawyer is going up against the current zeitgiest which is pro-feminine.

Even if the lawyer says, "Hey! You're already paying the required amount you don't need to do more". The judge could very well say, "Oh, what the hell, give the poor sweetheart a little more."

The cost of going to trial will cost several thousands of dollars at a minumum for just his attorney, plus he could be ordered to pay for her attorney as well. It happened to me.

I think people who haven't been through the Family court system extensively have some sense that fairness and justice can be had if you just get a lawyer. It really isn't the case, but the lawyer will certainly "sell" you on that idea.

It's a cost/benefit thing, and I've learned that it's usually cheaper to stay out of court at all costs. Not just for financial well-bieng, but emotional as well.

Just my experience, there may be Father's out there that have had good experiences, and eventually the zeitgiest will turn back towars Father's and Maculinity in general. I don't think that's happened as of yet though.

Post: #46

(04-28-2014 05:32 PM)samsamsam Wrote:  well guess I was wrong lol

Having a different opinion than the majority doesn't make you wrong.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling