Post: #1

ARGH!

(This is all taking place in the south of france)

The girl there I have my sights on lives in Barcelona (though she's Columbian), and she is living in the next town over (20 mins) for two months. Well, two weeks into her stay she starts dating some French guy who isn't particularly masculine or handsome. In her mind, she's just here for two months, so why not have fun (hence quickly finding a guy).

I was out last night in her town (20 mins away) where she lives with a group of friends. She's there with her boyfriend, but is talking only to me.

We talk a bit about random hookups (she says "why wouldn't you invite someone to a wedding if you'd just gotten drunk and had sex with them once or twice"), I mention that I'm going to barcelona this month, she expresses disappointment that we won't both be there at the same time. I tell her what I do for a living, and she says she thinks it sounds really cool and dangerous.

At the end of the night, she gives me her number and adds me as a friend on facebook (I haven't accepted the request yet).

Where do I go from here?? Obviously, I could just wait a month and then go to barcelona, but there must be a better way.

Disclaimer--she looks into my eyes and smiles in a way that feels like a good connection, like she's attracted to me, but she's generally loud, smiling, and outgoing...

Post: #2

you have her number and facebook. ask her out for drinks, use tuthmosis' guide. if she says yes, you're in, if not then move on.

Post: #3

- don't add her on Facebook.
- don't change your plans for her.
- do set up something with her asap, one on one, so that you can escalate and bang.