Post: #1

What's up guys, well, let me give a brief description of my problem.

I have a sexual partner, we always used condom and the sex was great, good time, she came a couple of times, etc.

So she decided to start on the patch and I know that we are clean all that shit so great for me but, since we do it raw, I came in less than 10minutes, sometimes in like 5min, this has never happened to me, obviously is a really different sensation with a condom than withouth, pussy is so wet and hot that OMG but, I need to last longer, any advices?

I've been trying Kegel for the last couple of days and mental relaxation but is not working as expected.

Thanks.

Post: #2

I have a funny story about this.

So I'm sleeping with a girl I've banged before . A girl who I didn't want to fuck but decided to because I wanted to say I porked two girls in two nights. Anyways, I had been teasing her with the fuck all night until I woke up and sat up like a zombie who wanted to bone. I sat up like the old school wwf undertaker and said "alright let's do this Kelly" (I think she was asleep) I strapped up and mounted her missionary style. At this point she was awake. I started thrusting and wasn't into her at all.I just wanted my nut. I closed my eyes and focused on finishing as fast as possible. I was done within a minute, rolled over and passed out. She was gone when I woke up.

As for your question I can't help you. I give myself a five star performance when I approach 10 mins

Post: #3

(01-18-2011 02:55 AM)bars Wrote:  What's up guys, well, let me give a brief description of my problem.

I have a sexual partner, we always used condom and the sex was great, good time, she came a couple of times, etc.

So she decided to start on the patch and I know that we are clean all that shit so great for me but, since we do it raw, I came in less than 10minutes, sometimes in like 5min, this has never happened to me, obviously is a really different sensation with a condom than withouth, pussy is so wet and hot that OMG but, I need to last longer, any advices?

I've been trying Kegel for the last couple of days and mental relaxation but is not working as expected.

Thanks.

Is this the first time you did it raw? Did it make any difference on your second round?
Back when I used to drink beer and I had a dedicated girlfriend (we always went bareback), I used to last longer when I was drunk.

Also, I lasted longer on my second nutt with her.

Some years back, I had a dedicated buttaface who I used to go in raw with.
I don't know what she put on her pussy but I always used to nutt real fast with her.
I'd tell her azz to slow down when she rode me (usually I last longer when I'm being ridden) but the greedy heiffer used to grind herself really hard and fast on me and I'd always end up squirting my goop prematurely.
I never could hold off a nut on her..

One tactic I would use on Miss Wet Pussy was to think of Margaret Thatcher when I was banging. Margaret Thatcher does nothing for me sexually. In fact, she puts me off sex. When I would visualise Margaret Thatcher, it would actually help me prevent the kettle from boiling quickly..if u get my drift?

Post: #4

Alot of times this is psycological but it also depends on how you're doing it. Obviously if you're thrusting non stop like a madman you'll cum fast, just take it slowly and after some time has passed, leave the good stuff for the end.

I also think its normal to last less while raw, adding the fact that you are not used to it. If you have good trust and a good connection with your partner she can help you out with all this while having sex.

Post: #5

There are a lot of methods and medicine, but check with your doctor first. You may have a medical problem, and even if not, they still may be able to help you. Don't be shy, they've seen it all.

Post: #6

Do you know how long the average guy lasts? If not then how do you know you have a problem?

Post: #7

Medications used to treat depression known as SSRI's (i.e. prozac)

have delayed ejaculation as a side effect...This is an option if it bothers you enough.

Post: #8

(01-18-2011 07:54 PM)Roosh Wrote:  Do you know how long the average guy lasts? If not then how do you know you have a problem?

Very good question. It's funny, for some guys lasting 5 mins feels like an eternity and a great feat. For others, lasting 20 mins its premature ejaculation.

Post: #9

Im like a jackhammer after a few beers. Not too many though or I literally cant cum and it goes a bit limp

But yeah sometimes when your super horny it can be quite a struggle. I used to get the girl to bite and scratch me. The pain seemed to take my mind of it. ALso the older you get the easier it is to not get so excited.

15 - 20 minutes is a very good length of time. I have had marathon sessions but it can lose steam after a while and she'll stop enjoying it as much. Leave them wanting more. Quality not quantity.

Post: #10

Read some study saying 13 minutes is the average for men. I always have trouble first time i've slept with a girl. The desensitising trojans work wonders for me. As for fixing it going raw, drink a few beers, hit it twice?

Post: #11

Having the right buzz always works for me, not too many though or it either doesn't get up or I don't get off. Also, the hit it again strategy should also work well. I always last a lot longer the second round.

Post: #12

Have a couple drinks to help relax you and give you just enough numbness. Try not to get too excited mentally. When you feel like you're about to blow it whip your dick out and smack it with the back of your hand hard. This will help. Trust me.

Post: #13

With condom I was in the 15-20min range, without I'm around 5, for me that's a problem.

I think that the average guy is 10-15 isn't it?

Post: #14

(01-18-2011 08:17 PM)bigxxx Wrote:  Medications used to treat depression known as SSRI's (i.e. prozac)
have delayed ejaculation as a side effect...This is an option if it bothers you enough.

So does Viagra for a lot of guys. Or alcohol. But check with the doctor first.

Post: #15

I would not mess with my hormonal balance using psychotropic drugs. But you might try yohimbine - a reliable drug to treat erection problems that mainly have a psychological cause. Might help with premature ejaculation, too. Also, have a look at 'The New Male Sexuality', Revised Edition by Bernie Zilbergeld PhD

Post: #16

(01-19-2011 06:39 AM)Chase Wrote:  I would not mess with my hormonal balance using psychotropic drugs. But you might try yohimbine - a reliable drug to treat erection problems that mainly have a psychological cause. Might help with premature ejaculation, too. Also, have a look at 'The New Male Sexuality', Revised Edition by Bernie Zilbergeld PhD

If I'm not mistaken and my translation is correct, that drug is used to create sexual desire in animals such as cows. So I 'd think it twice.

Post: #17

(01-19-2011 06:39 AM)Chase Wrote:  I would not mess with my hormonal balance using psychotropic drugs. But you might try yohimbine - a reliable drug to treat erection problems that mainly have a psychological cause. Might help with premature ejaculation, too. Also, have a look at 'The New Male Sexuality', Revised Edition by Bernie Zilbergeld PhD

He doesn't have a problem with getting it up, he has a problem with staving off that nutt...

He hasn't given enough information for one to determine that it is even an issue or cause for concern..

Post: #18

I think the average time for ejaculation is 3 to 7 minutes (I don't know how many thrusts that is - it depends on if you're fucking, or making love...HA HA!). Remember, humans fucked for procreation, not for male or female pleasure. The purpose wasn't to tear the pussy up, or make her come a bunch of times. It was to get your seed in there.

Jerking off can help desensitize your dick, but you need a quicker solution. I suggest rubbing that first nutt out yourself, prior to having sex. I think most guys can go longer on the second go-round. You could also use one of those desensitizing creams to help you delay eruption. You could find a position to start out that doesn't giving you so much friction on your dickhead (I generally can't come in cowgirl - I need missionary or doggie to squirt). I found that when I first started fucking that mental tricks don't work, like thinking about a steaming pile of dog shit or something. You need to find a way to minimize stimulation.

Post: #19

Depends on the position for me, I can rawdog missionary and doggy longer than I can with the girl on top. You need to be in control of the rhythm when rawdogging otherwise there is the risk of blowing inside her.

Post: #20

im the complete opposite

I CANT NUT FOR AGES. i think its from desensitizing it from so much porn. im giving up the wacking and the porn for a while. i can never fully get into it when im nailing,porn messes with your mind

Post: #21

(10-26-2011 05:32 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  I think the average time for ejaculation is 3 to 7 minutes (I don't know how many thrusts that is - it depends on if you're fucking, or making love...HA HA!). Remember, humans fucked for procreation, not for male or female pleasure. The purpose wasn't to tear the pussy up, or make her come a bunch of times. It was to get your seed in there.

This is very true. It's only pleasurable for the female so that she doesn't try to kill you while you are caning her.

Also, humans are designed to nutt quickly because if you there fcuking a lizard for 20 mins, a predator has a greater window to show up, jump and consume your arse as opposed to a much more narrow window of 2 mins.

Post: #22

(01-18-2011 08:17 PM)bigxxx Wrote:  Medications used to treat depression known as SSRI's (i.e. prozac)

have delayed ejaculation as a side effect...This is an option if it bothers you enough.

stay away from SSRI's ...
it takes ages to get off them, and more over kills your sex drive.

have a glass or two of wine, always makes me calm and horny for some reason.

Post: #23

(10-26-2011 10:14 PM)isis Wrote:  

(01-18-2011 08:17 PM)bigxxx Wrote:  Medications used to treat depression known as SSRI's (i.e. prozac)

have delayed ejaculation as a side effect...This is an option if it bothers you enough.

stay away from SSRI's ...
it takes ages to get off them, and more over kills your sex drive.

have a glass or two of wine, always makes me calm and horny for some reason.

You might want to be careful with the wine. It actually prevented me from getting fully hard the one time I tried to fuck after drinking some. I'm not a wine drinker, and I didn't have that much.

Post: #24

(01-18-2011 10:09 AM)Moma Wrote:  

(01-18-2011 02:55 AM)bars Wrote:  What's up guys, well, let me give a brief description of my problem.

I have a sexual partner, we always used condom and the sex was great, good time, she came a couple of times, etc.

So she decided to start on the patch and I know that we are clean all that shit so great for me but, since we do it raw, I came in less than 10minutes, sometimes in like 5min, this has never happened to me, obviously is a really different sensation with a condom than withouth, pussy is so wet and hot that OMG but, I need to last longer, any advices?

I've been trying Kegel for the last couple of days and mental relaxation but is not working as expected.

Thanks.

Is this the first time you did it raw? Did it make any difference on your second round?
Back when I used to drink beer and I had a dedicated girlfriend (we always went bareback), I used to last longer when I was drunk.

Also, I lasted longer on my second nutt with her.

Some years back, I had a dedicated buttaface who I used to go in raw with.
I don't know what she put on her pussy but I always used to nutt real fast with her.
I'd tell her azz to slow down when she rode me (usually I last longer when I'm being ridden) but the greedy heiffer used to grind herself really hard and fast on me and I'd always end up squirting my goop prematurely.
I never could hold off a nut on her..

One tactic I would use on Miss Wet Pussy was to think of Margaret Thatcher when I was banging. Margaret Thatcher does nothing for me sexually. In fact, she puts me off sex. When I would visualise Margaret Thatcher, it would actually help me prevent the kettle from boiling quickly..if u get my drift?

this is awesome dude.

Post: #25

(01-18-2011 02:55 AM)bars Wrote:  What's up guys, well, let me give a brief description of my problem.

I have a sexual partner, we always used condom and the sex was great, good time, she came a couple of times, etc.

So she decided to start on the patch and I know that we are clean all that shit so great for me but, since we do it raw, I came in less than 10minutes, sometimes in like 5min, this has never happened to me, obviously is a really different sensation with a condom than withouth, pussy is so wet and hot that OMG but, I need to last longer, any advices?

I've been trying Kegel for the last couple of days and mental relaxation but is not working as expected.

Thanks.

Keep a condom on until shes satisfied and then raw dog it. Or masturbate more and see how long you can go. Do this daily... maybe even consider getting a 'flashlight'