Post: #1

I get a nervous energy when I do cold approaches, especially during the day. It's literally a physiological thing. Any way I can either calm this down or get rid of it?

Post: #2

Does it go away after the initial few seconds?

Post: #3

(01-15-2011 08:02 PM)SHANbangs Wrote:  I get a nervous energy when I do cold approaches, especially during the day. It's literally a physiological thing. Any way I can either calm this down or get rid of it?

you are putting too much power into the woman. Try and remove the power from it. It may not go away initially. You might have to do about 50 cold day approaches before it becomes normal.

Do you get nervous when you speak to pretty women with no sexual intent behind your communication?

Post: #4

Smoke weed or take some xanaxes.

Aloha!

Post: #5

know that in the end shes just another potential bang for you, her opinion doesn't matter if you're afraid of what she'll think. If it's a matter of getting blown out same thing its only a rejection its how you get good, and if you're afraid that you might get rejected for coming on too strong too quickly try escalating slowly and gauging her interest.

Post: #6

Just so u know it feels great having no approach anxiety. If I saw a pretty girl right now i could talk to her. U will be able to the same thing if u keep developing your skills

Post: #7

(01-15-2011 08:02 PM)SHANbangs Wrote:  I get a nervous energy when I do cold approaches, especially during the day. It's literally a physiological thing. Any way I can either calm this down or get rid of it?

With practice it will go away. I still remember my first several skydives when I was really scared just to think what gonna happen in next ten minutes. Now I'm often sleeping in the plane when it goes up. Took probably fifty jumps or so. Should take even less for approaching.