Post: #1

So I met this younger chick (we'll call her "Natalie") at a bar last Fri and got her number.

You can read the story here /thread-34586.html

We've been texting a little bit. She's a little hottie but not a party animal. She doesn't drink very often (but some).

She wants to do something during the day, presumably sober. Here's the exchange:

ME - Hey Natalie. ***** from *****. How r u?

HER- Hey *****! I'm well. How are u?

ME - Not bad typical mon. We should meet up this week. Any free time?

HER - Im only available in the AM

ME - Same on wknd?

HER - Except sundays

ME - Im a night worker too.

HER - Crazy! Thats perfect then. Where do u live?

ME - Were vampires I'm in *****. U?

HER - I'm currently residing in *****
HER - Ha!ha! Not quite. I love vampires though

ME- Ha *****? Is that in *****

HER- Yea. It is. It's off the *** near ****

ME- Ah, I see. Cool. Gonna sort out my schedule for the week then I'll text u.

HER - Sounds good

Not sure what to do. A drink at night would be easiest of course, but I've been presented with this little challenge instead.

Thought maybe I'd invite her to brunch somewhere nice, close to where she lives (although I don't know her neighborhood very well at all. It is fairly close to me though…).

Does anyone think that's a terrible idea for a first date? Sounds like a potential friendzone trap if I'm not careful. If anyone had has any thoughts/suggestions please feel free to let me know.

Thanks!

Post: #2

(04-01-2014 09:53 PM)EpicBeta Wrote:  ME - Not bad typical mon. We should meet up this week. Any free time?

Here's the biggest mistake. Never ask this as question. "I'm free Thursday" (or whatever day) would have been better. Also, cut out the smiley faces in your texting.

As far as the morning date goes, that sounds really bad. I know someone (Gio, I think) has mentioned meeting girls in the morning and banging them. If, in fact, she only can meet in the morning (and I have major doubts about that), make her come over to your place for it. At least that way you can go for the bang.

Post: #3

(04-01-2014 10:21 PM)Bacchus Wrote:  

(04-01-2014 09:53 PM)EpicBeta Wrote:  ME - Not bad typical mon. We should meet up this week. Any free time?

Here's the biggest mistake. Never ask this as question. "I'm free Thursday" (or whatever day) would have been better. Also, cut out the smiley faces in your texting.

As far as the morning date goes, that sounds really bad. I know someone (Gio, I think) has mentioned meeting girls in the morning and banging them. If, in fact, she only can meet in the morning (and I have major doubts about that), make her come over to your place for it. At least that way you can go for the bang.

Got it. No more asking and no more smiley faces. Thanks!

Still feel weird about trying to invite her over and bang her. She doesn't seem like the type. This is just my beta thinking getting the way probably…

She doesn't seem uninterested and did ask where I live. She also mentioned she has Sun nights open. I just get the impression she wants to start with a day date and go from there. We'll see…

Anyway, many thanks for the advice!

Post: #4

(04-01-2014 10:27 PM)EpicBeta Wrote:  

(04-01-2014 10:21 PM)Bacchus Wrote:  

(04-01-2014 09:53 PM)EpicBeta Wrote:  ME - Not bad typical mon. We should meet up this week. Any free time?

Here's the biggest mistake. Never ask this as question. "I'm free Thursday" (or whatever day) would have been better. Also, cut out the smiley faces in your texting.

As far as the morning date goes, that sounds really bad. I know someone (Gio, I think) has mentioned meeting girls in the morning and banging them. If, in fact, she only can meet in the morning (and I have major doubts about that), make her come over to your place for it. At least that way you can go for the bang.

Got it. No more asking and no more smiley faces. Thanks!

Still feel weird about trying to invite her over and bang her. She doesn't seem like the type. This is just my beta thinking getting the way probably…

She doesn't seem uninterested and did ask where I live. She also mentioned she has Sun nights open. I just get the impression she wants to start with a day date and go from there. We'll see…

Anyway, many thanks for the advice!

You're assuming that she's not the type to have sex.

Unless she's a robot, she enjoys sex and enjoys it with dominant men who can lead the interaction and give her a great experience.

Get your Frame right.

Get your Inner Game right.

You can do it, but your self-doubts are getting in the way.

Breakfast, Brunch, Dinner, and just drinks can all work if you have present it right.

Go with the easy route though. She said she's free on Sundays. Cool, then set it up.

Don't over think it, and lead the interactions.

Post: #5

Thanks a lot Christian. Frame frame frame. Going to keep repeating that to myself.

Cheers