Post: #1

Ok so I need your guy's help on this one. We are in a college tour right now on the road to san Antonio. On our way there we are stopping along cities in the south for instance today we stayed in Memphis, tomorrow we will go to Jackson, then New Orleans then Houston to ultimately stop in San Antonio. In each city we are staying in school gyms and camping out. So anyway there is 45 of us and I met this girl from Brazil with an amazing ass. I'm not the most good looking guy on the trip and I'm actually the shortest and slightly chubby since I let myself go in Mexico with all the food. But I'm the only one that has been trying to talk to her on this trip. I've been chichatting her here and there about school, Brazil, and talk about our travels but I cannot seem to escalate from that. I'm really bad at social circle game. Any advice? Another thing is that we walk together when were touring the cities. I just need advice on escalating. I'm afraid to go too direct because if I fail I will have to see her the whole week straight and that can be a little uncomfortable.

Post: #2

(03-22-2014 03:42 PM)MidWest Wrote:  Ok so I need your guy's help on this one. We are in a college tour right now on the road to san Antonio. On our way there we are stopping along cities in the south for instance today we stayed in Memphis, tomorrow we will go to Jackson, then New Orleans then Houston to ultimately stop in San Antonio. In each city we are staying in school gyms and camping out. So anyway there is 45 of us and I met this girl from Brazil with an amazing ass. I'm not the most good looking guy on the trip and I'm actually the shortest and slightly chubby since I let myself go in Mexico with all the food. But I'm the only one that has been trying to talk to her on this trip. I've been chichatting her here and there about school, Brazil, and talk about our travels but I cannot seem to escalate from that. I'm really bad at social circle game. Any advice? Another thing is that we walk together when were touring the cities. I just need advice on escalating. I'm afraid to go too direct because if I fail I will have to see her the whole week straight and that can be a little uncomfortable.

Damn....45 people.

Is she giving you any hints at all that she digs you? Or do you think you're already in the friend zone? If you're not sure, then you're probably in the friend zone. Obviously it's difficult to know from my perspective behind the computer, so only you can truly know.

You're on spring break, so your main goal should be having fun. Talk to everyone, on and off your bus, be the guy people want to be around, and take the lead. Just focus on having fun. All of these girls on spring break want some wild story to have/tell their friends. That "fun" attitude alone will attract her, and if not her some other girl.

Don't get too wrapped up in this Brazilian girl. You'll cockblock yourself in the end. I'd keep in light, with high fives, teasing/poking, put your arm around her sometimes, and see how she responds. Get a round of shots and ask her (in a sarcastic/fun way) if she's "ready to step it up a notch" as in having fun, etc. If it's positive, then isolate and go for the kiss. You'll know when the time is right... Grab her by the hand, and say "come here" as you pull her towards you.

Have fun and live it up!

By the way, why isn't that bus going to Austin instead of San Antonio? Austin is so much better.

Post: #3

^^This.

First of all escalating and Spring Break are like...the same thing (sorry I'm feeling dumb and can't write any better haha). In Panama City Beach 2 girls randomly came up to me and my friend and made out with us. What I'm trying to say is that Spring Break is a time where sex is on people's minds and they just want to let loose with no reprecussions. If a girl ever wants to be slutty and go all out it will be on Spring Break.

It's Spring Break, girls just wanna have fun! If you want to get laid be the guy having fun; don't be the guy posting on an internet forum about how to get laid on Spring Break.

Spring Break for me was probably the funnest week of my life. At times I was literally smiling for no reason because of all of the endorphins, amazing!

Stop worrying about this girl. Look I love ass too, but if you want to bang some Brazilian booty head down to Brazil itself. Check out the bazillion Brazilian (see what I did there?) threads on this forum. On Spring Break you should be lusting after drunk American college girls looking to make bad decisions.

Personally, I never got laid on Spring Break. I went down to PCB with a dozen of my frat bros and NO ONE got laid. Did we not have game? Debatable, but pulling on spring break is harder than it looks because of logisitics, and also people want to stick with their friends. I talked to a shit ton of strangers though, but we ended up hanging out a lot with a group of sorority girls from our school that were down there too. The year after I went I knew like two guys that got laid, and they banged girls they already knew from school. You can cold approach and get a ton of makeouts, and if your logistics are tight or you're sneaky then some bangs, but fun should be your main priority.

Again, just have fun, turn off the internet and go chug some cheap vodka

Post: #4

(03-22-2014 03:42 PM)MidWest Wrote:  I've been chichatting her here and there about school, Brazil, and talk about our travels but I cannot seem to escalate from that. I'm really bad at social circle game. Any advice? Another thing is that we walk together when were touring the cities. I just need advice on escalating.

Sounds like you may have friend-zoned yourself already. You need to have the confidence to make a move. Just game her like you would any other girl--start with light kino and work up to the kiss (you may want to isolate her before kissing).

(03-22-2014 03:42 PM)MidWest Wrote:  I'm afraid to go too direct because if I fail I will have to see her the whole week straight and that can be a little uncomfortable.

This mentality is precisely your problem.

Here is what Roissy says about this:

Quote:Embarrassment is a beta emotion.
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“awkward” situations which would make betas cringe and search for the nearest exit are in fact opportunities to increase the attraction voltage, and they work on almost any woman.
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Devil-may-care nonchalance in the teeth of a socially tense moment is very attractive to women. Like mirrors, women reflect our emotional state and if you are projecting awkwardness she will want to get away from you because she’ll start to feel the same way.
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As a player, never feel guilt or discomfort with your actions or with the whims of women. You will be rewarded for your state control.

Basically you have to make a move and go for it. If she's not interested, you shrug it off because it's no big deal.

Post: #5

The thing is that this isn't your typical spring break trip. We are "volunteering" in these cities. So no alcohol. Its more of like group activities, almost childish. But man does that Brazilian girl have an ass. Best ass I've seen in my entire life. Anyway thanks for the advice. I realized I've been friend zone. So I'm pretty much ignoring her now and trying to talk to everyone instead. Thanks again.

Post: #6

The thing is that this isn't your typical spring break trip. We are "volunteering" in these cities. So no alcohol. Its more of like group activities, almost childish. But man does that Brazilian girl have an ass. Best ass I've seen in my entire life. Anyway thanks for the advice. I realized I've been friend zone. So I'm pretty much ignoring her now and trying to talk to everyone instead. Thanks again.