Post: #51

I use the word ethnic to describe a girl sometimes when there is a mix or heritage I couldn't guess without asking first.

Post: #52

(04-18-2014 02:17 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  I use the word ethnic to describe a girl sometimes when there is a mix or heritage I couldn't guess without asking first.

Well on a forum you can't tell unless someone posts pics so I guess it's a better method to just state what she looks like.

Post: #53

I wasn't trying to be politically correct...I'm the last person to be. I was being vague on purpose (for my own reasons) and that's just the word that came up on my head.

Post: #54

(03-24-2014 01:43 PM)Blackliter Wrote:  Suggestions to improve?

Approach more girls, identify more "sticking points", ask more questions..

You are doing fine.

Honestly, the first 100 approaches are just a warm up. After you have done 100, think about what your weaknesses are.. Get help with those specific weaknesses.

I really don't have anything else to add.

You are doing a good job opening girls both directly and indirectly.

Obviously, you need to learn how to "ramble" better, basically, you need to improve your conversational ability in order to engage these girls a little longer.

And, you maybe need to learn how to PROJECT your voice better so girls in the club can hear you.

Just keep going. when you go 1000 approaches, you will be an expert!

Keep it up!

Post: #55

Approach 24 - I would of told her to come with me to another part of the bar so we could talk some more. If that didn't work out, get the number and leave them. Its hard to deal with the guy friends. Ask Hwuzhere about them at Barnes and Noble

Post: #56

(04-19-2014 02:46 PM)Screwston Wrote:  Approach 24 - I would of told her to come with me to another part of the bar so we could talk some more. If that didn't work out, get the number and leave them. Its hard to deal with the guy friends. Ask Hwuzhere about them at Barnes and Noble

Those scrubs from that time. Bitch gave me a dud number though and didn't text back, but ya to deal with the guy friends just ignore them to make them feel worthless. Being confident and keeping up the conversation with the girls gets them to do shit to get her attention. If they confront you belittle them by asking why they are butting in. Play them into buying you and her a drink or make fun of them. Damaging their pride lifts you up in her view, and makes it clearer to the situation of her friends being beta orbiters.

Post: #57

git r done

Post: #58

Approach 26
Bar. ..I approached her and she humored me for a bit before her friend cockblocked me.

I went back to her maybe 30 minuters later, and because her friend cockblocked me, it influenced her cold responses to me. I still made fun of her and caller her a prude and ridiculed her. I actually managed to neg her for 2 full minutes. it was pretty hilarious.

Approach 27.
went to a house party after. everyone was hooking up and getting laid here...except me. logistics were perfect, but i was just not able to make moves.

yea i saw a few DTF girls, but either they were guarded by cockblocking friends or already taken.

I'm so far away from getting laid. its depressing.

Post: #59

At parties move fast and move quickly. The majority of people who are not from their social circle will not approach until they are drunk. Start moving at the latest an hour and 10 min. after the start. Parties are a time and numbers game with the majority of gud with no game. You either arrived late or didn't approach fast enough.

Post: #60

(04-20-2014 08:38 AM)hwuzhere Wrote:  At parties move fast and move quickly. The majority of people who are not from their social circle will not approach until they are drunk. Start moving at the latest an hour and 10 min. after the start. Parties are a time and numbers game with the majority of gud with no game. You either arrived late or didn't approach fast enough.

Nice, thanks. I arrived late and didn't move fast enough..
I went to midtown and then came back to the house party...
so I should just stick with the house party all night?

Post: #61

(04-20-2014 10:01 AM)Blackliter Wrote:  

(04-20-2014 08:38 AM)hwuzhere Wrote:  At parties move fast and move quickly. The majority of people who are not from their social circle will not approach until they are drunk. Start moving at the latest an hour and 10 min. after the start. Parties are a time and numbers game with the majority of gud with no game. You either arrived late or didn't approach fast enough.

Nice, thanks. I arrived late and didn't move fast enough..
I went to midtown and then came back to the house party...
so I should just stick with the house party all night?

Oops meant guys not "gud", but in general yes. If you manage to get an entire group of girls from midtown to go with you to the party then that's massive DHV and well worth just starting off at the party.

Post: #62

Learn from my mistakes, don't show up at the last minute when going to a party. Fucked me over yesterday.

Post: #63

Edit: Joining the party late*
For my earlier post.

Post: #64

Haha gotcha.

I just thought of something for approach #24. Should I have been to the girl, "Hey introduce me to your friends"? I was actually holding my frame and vibing pretty well, they were just straight ignoring me and talking.

anyways she never responded. deleted number

Post: #65

You're doing good blackliter! Better than me even. Keep going.

Post: #66

(04-20-2014 01:55 PM)Blackliter Wrote:  Haha gotcha.

I just thought of something for approach #24. Should I have been to the girl, "Hey introduce me to your friends"? I was actually holding my frame and vibing pretty well, they were just straight ignoring me and talking.

anyways she never responded. deleted number

Think she was screening you for value(you are friends with a bunch of cool frat dudes right). Should have been more aloof and trying to get out of the conversation like she was nothing. Just do what I told you before if she comes up to you again.

Post: #67

Good read, Blackliter - keep at it! You're far ahead of the game just for having started.

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"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #68

Approach 28
She was an 8. House party, but a southern girl. I talked with her and she was really drunk but made no headway in terms of sexual attraction. Later in the night her "guy" came buy, idk if bf or not, but he was next her for the rest of the night so no chance even though she was wasted.

Approach 29

She was a 7.5 house party again. OMG Honestly would have taken her over any of the other girls. I kept introducing her to drinking games, but she was taking it slower. I went for the cheek kiss twice, DONE FUCKING KILLED IT, by showing too much interest. Rest of the night, she went back to another guy who said supposedly had sex with. The guy was a cool dude, and I talked with him, asked him how he broke her earlier. He said rebound...and the literally didn't have sex with him after, only once. Still I wish i couldve landed her, def got a boner on her.

Approach 30
Fuck this one, she was wearing a cool top so I approached her on that and it worked, but her girlfriend kept cockblocking me at this house party. I literally wanted to deck her face or throw a drink on her. Idk why i got so pissed but still...went and talked to a friend to cool down.

WTF, couldn't generate attraction. time is just going out the window...only things I did well were Vibing and talking to everyone, keeping it cool.

Post: #69

Sexual innuendo and complete confidence build attraction. If you can get her to subconsciously think of sex, get her to drink, and have fun(both you and her) then you win. That's the name of the game. Fun is a rather ignored part of the game. If you don't enjoy it don't bother.

Post: #70

Alright. I had confidence yesterday since I knew people there and was having a good time.

Did not even touch sexual innuendo though. Came no where close to making her think of sex or me being more than another guy. She was having a fun time with me though, until I went for a kiss too early. Got the cheek...kissed it anyway. I got her to play drinking games and got her drunk and I got kino in.

She walked away after the kiss..and yea fizzled out rest of the night

Post: #71

cheers! blackliter, you're off to a good start, dont get discouraged buddy.

Post: #72

(04-24-2014 11:59 AM)Blackliter Wrote:  Alright. I had confidence yesterday since I knew people there and was having a good time.

Did not even touch sexual innuendo though. Came no where close to making her think of sex or me being more than another guy. She was having a fun time with me though, until I went for a kiss too early. Got the cheek...kissed it anyway. I got her to play drinking games and got her drunk and I got kino in.

She walked away after the kiss..and yea fizzled out rest of the night

Don't think you should include cheek kisses yet into your game until you're able to read people better. Always go for the kiss on the lips, and hide sexual undertones in your conversation. Getting her thinking about sex is always good.

Post: #73

(04-24-2014 04:36 PM)hwuzhere Wrote:  and hide sexual undertones in your conversation. Getting her thinking about sex is always good.

What are some ways you incorporate them? Btw, repped +1, you've been helping a ton.

Post: #74

(04-24-2014 04:54 PM)Blackliter Wrote:  

(04-24-2014 04:36 PM)hwuzhere Wrote:  and hide sexual undertones in your conversation. Getting her thinking about sex is always good.

What are some ways you incorporate them? Btw, repped +1, you've been helping a ton.

No problem mate. I do what I can. On hiding them usually it's spontaneous based on the situation. It really depends on the type of person you're talking too. If it's an artsy chick I would use(and this may sound cheesy), but the "paint me like one of your French girls" reference from the Titanic. Just weird and different quips depending on the type of person. It's always based on the conversation she may be having with you. The goal is to make her laugh and/or getting her thinking about sex so anything that keeps the conversation going and does that. Getting her to laugh is a bonus point and usually signals that she digs you if it's sexual in nature.

Post: #75

starting to realize cold approaches dont work for college....have to run social game

Last couple:
Approach 31
I missed holding the door for her once, then the next 2 doors I held for pro-longed and smirked... she had an accent so i made fun of her and then played the guess her nationality game. we were walking in different directions so we parted way. she was cute, 7.5.

Approach 32
This girl was sneezing on the bike, I yelled bless you and she was ALL smiles lol. I probably should have called her to come by at least. Her entire face just lit up. Red hair too and cute, 7.

I'm seeing the familiar faces too often that cold approaching will be shut down soon. I recently read Conquer your Campus and its honestly one of the best guides for College students. kinda bummed, i guess ill have to save this once I'm working in a big city.