Post: #1

A couple of old travel buddies I hung out with for lunch mentioned that girls in South America LOVE msn/chat, much like Euro girls love Yahoo/Gmail/Skype etc chats. They asked me how I've managed to juggle and truly connect with latina women who adore msn much more than texting.

We all know by now that women love to use their phones to text all day long. They will sit there and play this text game with a dozen men they have met in a week to satisfy their cravings for attention, and cures for plain boredom. It does not change with msn chat.

We also know that it does nothing to really get us closer to fucking a target if we are not physically present escalating Kino to go with sexual banter. So, you are caught playing a girls game with very little return, and tilted to favor her needs, not ours.

If you are planning on gaming women internationally, then you have no choice but to play the dreaded msn/chat game to warm her up, and get her ready for sex since you cannot physically be present.

Here are some things I have learned from MSN chats with Latinas in South America that successfully build attraction/comfort so you can definitely be on easy street when you meet in person and bang her within hours of physically meeting her.

1. Be in control, and let her do most of the typing. When she asks you about yourself, say something cocky/funny, and throw back an open ended question that challenges her to prove herself to you, not the other way around.

2. Keep it short and sweet, much like text game. Do not sit there for hours trying to DHV, and type til your fingers fall off. If you are like me, you are trying to chat up 20 girls at a time so you can pick the top 5 to bang as soon as you land.

3. After 15 minutes of chatting, suggest a webcam conversation. This will mitigate the chances that you are dealing with a fake online profile from a scam agency. If a girl is willing to show her face on webcam consistently, then she's likely real, and what you see is what you get.

4. Always be the one to say goodbye first! This is as important as leaving a girl alone immediately after sex - it's DHV. The best time to bolt is as soon as she is really having fun chatting, and laughing and wishing to talk to you for another hour - SORRY - GOTTA GO!

5. If she likes you, she'll likely you send you offline messages - do not respond until at least 2 days later, and then do not chat with the same girl until 3 days have passed minimum. This gives her a level of instability, and a sense that she does not fully have you, and you are very sought after. I have chatted with women acting like total bitches at first, chat for 30 minutes, build DHV, make her laugh and tell her I have to go right at the peak of our conversation. Hours later, I get these nice e-mails of how wonderful I am, a few days later I get offline chats telling me she misses me, and how she cannot wait to meet me (aka fuck me) when I land in her country.

6. After the 3rd chat/webcam session, get her phone number and call her randomly when you are out and about your day. Somehow, calling a woman you chatted up on msn/skype gives her the same feeling of venue changing, and it makes the connection stronger. Then do not call her again for a few days, chat again, and call her randomly. Make sure these calls are sweet and quick. No more than 10 minutes!! keep her begging to hear from you. always! So, chats and random, very short phone calls go together like liquor and venue changes.

7. Do not chat with women until 3 weeks before your trip. No need to sit there and do everything I've talked about above if you are not planning on meeting her for another 6 months. Chatting just weeks/days before you land in her country keeps her heated, and excited that you are days away from being physically present.

Follow these 7 tips, and when you narrow the top 5 girls you connected with, you can literally bang her hours after your airplanes tires have hit the tarmac.

Feel free to add more tips/views.

Mixx

Post: #2

Very Solid information MiXX. I do agree that there is nothing better than up close and personal. I also agree its a good idea to get atleast a few things lined up when you get there, but damn it gets real old chatting to these bitches. A ton of these girls (Esp. Colombianas) are already very caloused to online game and extremely suspicious of game and sex tourist gringos who write promising rings, marriage, love etc and instead of any of that give these beautiful women a short stubby cock for 2 minutes of furry after a few .50 Aguillas. It's sad they represent us Yankees but its true in more cases than it should be. And word travels fast about gringo's fibbing their asses off.

LISTEN UP GRINGO's: As your resident Latino Gringo (as labeled by none other than MiXX himself jaja) I highly recomend bieng very very normal and laid back. MiXX its different for you becuase you understand the culture more and you know the intricacies of the latin humor and flirtation. (See Roosh's Example of refusing to buy the Colombiana a drink because he was applying spoiled American chic standards and blew it) Most white boys from USA are just as likely to shoot themselves in the foot with an over shot of Cocky / Funny...it simply doesn't translate the same unless you really know the culture. Way back before I first went to Colombia I was that way and got called egotistical and rude and yes a few very nice looking chicas blew me off.

Remember these girls have TONS of dudes writing to them from the moment they log on to whatever dating, social network sites etc. Some are rich guys, good looking, latino, gringo and Euro guys..so you will have competition yes, even in Online game. Just be cool and make friends and next thing you know you have some new friends in Colombia or wherever in SA.

Post: #3

Mixx is right on the spot. I can also add a couple of suggestions:

1. Have a profile somewhere so you can send them the link. This would avoid repeating same things again and again. If you have your own hosting, and have access to the web serer logs, send the link with some modifications (like my.web.site/profile.html?q=12345 for 1st girl, my.web.site/profile.html?q=98765 for the 2nd). Web servers typically ignore everything after "html?<any crap here>". Then you can check the web server logs and see when she looked at it, what country she really is in (good to detect scammers), and if she visits your profile periodically. When I run online game, I used to have a monitoring system set up which would send me a daily summary email about who visited my profile, and how often. It is a good sign if she visits your profile page on her own, when you're not chatting.

2. Keep the messages short. If you're typing very long sentences she might think you're copypasting.

3. Before you send a joke, think about it: is your joke really cross-culture? If you're talking in English and it is not her native language, consider whether your joke is understandable by someone who is likely using a dictionary. Most jokes are not. Americans are prone to overestimate the simplicity and popularity of their jokes.

Post: #4

Good points Nemesis - very very important not to over do the jokes. Same as with game, only some levels of bieng confident and funny are effective. You can probably tell us that with Russian or really most Eastern European girls, there really is less of a need for "game" as we are used to running here in the states.

Post: #5

(01-10-2011 04:07 PM)MiXX Wrote:  A couple of old travel buddies I hung out with for lunch mentioned that girls in South America LOVE msn/chat, much like Euro girls love Yahoo/Gmail/Skype etc chats. They asked me how I've managed to juggle and truly connect with latina women who adore msn much more than texting.

We all know by now that women love to use their phones to text all day long. They will sit there and play this text game with a dozen men they have met in a week to satisfy their cravings for attention, and cures for plain boredom. It does not change with msn chat.

We also know that it does nothing to really get us closer to fucking a target if we are not physically present escalating Kino to go with sexual banter. So, you are caught playing a girls game with very little return, and tilted to favor her needs, not ours.

If you are planning on gaming women internationally, then you have no choice but to play the dreaded msn/chat game to warm her up, and get her ready for sex since you cannot physically be present.

Here are some things I have learned from MSN chats with Latinas in South America that successfully build attraction/comfort so you can definitely be on easy street when you meet in person and bang her within hours of physically meeting her.

1. Be in control, and let her do most of the typing. When she asks you about yourself, say something cocky/funny, and throw back an open ended question that challenges her to prove herself to you, not the other way around.

2. Keep it short and sweet, much like text game. Do not sit there for hours trying to DHV, and type til your fingers fall off. If you are like me, you are trying to chat up 20 girls at a time so you can pick the top 5 to bang as soon as you land.

3. After 15 minutes of chatting, suggest a webcam conversation. This will mitigate the chances that you are dealing with a fake online profile from a scam agency. If a girl is willing to show her face on webcam consistently, then she's likely real, and what you see is what you get.

4. Always be the one to say goodbye first! This is as important as leaving a girl alone immediately after sex - it's DHV. The best time to bolt is as soon as she is really having fun chatting, and laughing and wishing to talk to you for another hour - SORRY - GOTTA GO!

5. If she likes you, she'll likely you send you offline messages - do not respond until at least 2 days later, and then do not chat with the same girl until 3 days have passed minimum. This gives her a level of instability, and a sense that she does not fully have you, and you are very sought after. I have chatted with women acting like total bitches at first, chat for 30 minutes, build DHV, make her laugh and tell her I have to go right at the peak of our conversation. Hours later, I get these nice e-mails of how wonderful I am, a few days later I get offline chats telling me she misses me, and how she cannot wait to meet me (aka fuck me) when I land in her country.

6. After the 3rd chat/webcam session, get her phone number and call her randomly when you are out and about your day. Somehow, calling a woman you chatted up on msn/skype gives her the same feeling of venue changing, and it makes the connection stronger. Then do not call her again for a few days, chat again, and call her randomly. Make sure these calls are sweet and quick. No more than 10 minutes!! keep her begging to hear from you. always! So, chats and random, very short phone calls go together like liquor and venue changes.

7. Do not chat with women until 3 weeks before your trip. No need to sit there and do everything I've talked about above if you are not planning on meeting her for another 6 months. Chatting just weeks/days before you land in her country keeps her heated, and excited that you are days away from being physically present.

Follow these 7 tips, and when you narrow the top 5 girls you connected with, you can literally bang her hours after your airplanes tires have hit the tarmac.

Feel free to add more tips/views.

Mixx

Mixx could you explain, what chat or social websites do you use to contact these girls?

Post: #6

(01-11-2011 12:55 PM)Sketness Wrote:  Mixx could you explain, what chat or social websites do you use to contact these girls?

I use latinamericancupid.com, but here are others:

match.com (international version), amigos.com (old reliable), romancelatina.com, tagged, hi-fi, and of course, Facebook.

Mixx

Post: #7

Quote:A couple of old travel buddies I hung out with for lunch mentioned that girls in South America LOVE msn/chat, much like Euro girls love Yahoo/Gmail/Skype etc chats.

MSN Messenger is more popular in Europe than Yahoo.

Post: #8

Mixx how do u open online without sounding creepy?

Post: #9

(01-19-2011 01:01 AM)htx713 Wrote:  Mixx how do u open online without sounding creepy?

Just state your intent for writing to her specifically because you are interested in learning her culture and have some local friends that have invited you in the city you are visiting.

Never say you are just passing by to check out the country. Always have a reason for visiting, and don't just say scenery or vacation.

Mixx

Post: #10

What If I've never been to the country before and know absolutely nobody there? Do you still tell her that.

Post: #11

(01-19-2011 01:20 PM)FretDancer Wrote:  What If I've never been to the country before and know absolutely nobody there? Do you still tell her that.

Yup. It's not like she's going to pull a background check on you to verify. It's just used to remove the "sleezy sex tourist" stigma.

Mixx

Post: #12

I use Messengers a lot. Its a totally different type of game, but its always seem to work for me. Just focus on the adventure part of life, exploration, new things, and shit. People who sit infront of their computers eat that shit up. I actually once banged a chick i met on Omegle when i was on a business trip in Harbin just through msger game and a few phone calls, and i got another chick in TW whos supposed to be my party tour to the sexiest parties of KH when im back there, also all arranged through msn.

One thing is to pick up on the trigger words about adventure and excitement they use, and relay them. Cold reading is also very effective. I also like it b/c i can do other things while msging like watching TV or something, unlike a phone call. All in all its a good tool for arranging meetings for people who arent in the city with you if you travel alot, but it sometimes leaves strange situations sometimes. Once i had a college girl call me up frantic afraid she was gonna get HIV from sucking off a white dude. Chinese chicks still crack me up.

Post: #13

I found it easy to get MSN info from Col Cupid. However, the girls always appear to be offline. You would think that if a girl responds to your initial Cupid message she at least wants to chat.


Do you just IM offline anyway? Or send an email?

Post: #14

(04-26-2011 05:35 PM)Lief Wrote:  I found it easy to get MSN info from Col Cupid. However, the girls always appear to be offline. You would think that if a girl responds to your initial Cupid message she at least wants to chat.


Do you just IM offline anyway? Or send an email?

Very common for a girl to appear "offline", when she is actually online. They do this to be able to pick and choose who they talk to without hassle from anyone else.

Mixx

Post: #15

ICQ was great in russia when i lived and travelled around FSU 5-10 years back

women from asia, latin america and russia are more into the IM / chat / social network thing than their western sisters. it applies for rich asian countries like singapore and japan too. well, japanese use their own IM / chat / SN stuff and you need to speak a language

Post: #16

(01-10-2011 08:42 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:  Mixx is right on the spot. I can also add a couple of suggestions:

1. Have a profile somewhere so you can send them the link. This would avoid repeating same things again and again. If you have your own hosting, and have access to the web serer logs, send the link with some modifications (like my.web.site/profile.html?q=12345 for 1st girl, my.web.site/profile.html?q=98765 for the 2nd). Web servers typically ignore everything after "html?<any crap here>". Then you can check the web server logs and see when she looked at it, what country she really is in (good to detect scammers), and if she visits your profile periodically. When I run online game, I used to have a monitoring system set up which would send me a daily summary email about who visited my profile, and how often. It is a good sign if she visits your profile page on her own, when you're not chatting.

Very good idea. In fact, I have done something similar already. I had a single web page that came up when someone would search for my name. This one foreign girl would Google my name and check out that page ever month for awhile. (I was able to see her IP address/location in my log files.)

Your post has got me thinking about setting up a site that will allow someone to create a profile page and allowing them to track visitors. If anyone is interested I will set it up.

(01-10-2011 08:42 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:  3. Before you send a joke, think about it: is your joke really cross-culture? If you're talking in English and it is not her native language, consider whether your joke is understandable by someone who is likely using a dictionary. Most jokes are not. Americans are prone to overestimate the simplicity and popularity of their jokes.

Haha, this reminds me of when I was in Africa. I was with this one guy and he was constantly saying American jokes that none of the locals could possibly understand. It was pretty embarrassing.

Post: #17

I've been using chatrooms, messaging, and IMing for nearly 17 years now, it's posts like these that remind me what I'm really good at and need to do more of instead of only relying on texting. Spot on as usual Mixx.

Post: #18

(12-23-2011 05:24 PM)Gmac Wrote:  I've been using chatrooms, messaging, and IMing for nearly 17 years now, it's posts like these that remind me what I'm really good at and need to do more of instead of only relying on texting. Spot on as usual Mixx.

Here's something else to think about...I live in a small city of 25,000 and work on about 20 girls cars with pof accounts. If the car is done or if I have a problem I send the message thru pof to them cause I'm a dick like that. They call in two minutes everytime even if you look at the last message and it appears she hasn't been online for days.