Post: #1

This week I've taken care of everything except improving game...went out only once and didn't even do St. Patricks.

It's getting to the point that I'm barely even improving, maybe at a snails pace.

Obviously, you can't tell me much, other than to just plow through. Guess I'm just venting and seeing if others on this forum are having the same issues. Feel free to comment with any tips on just focusing on game.


Trying to follow Nike's motto: "just do it". Simple, but definitely not easy.

Post: #2

Blackliter, I provided some easy ways to improve yourself in another thread that you can start NOW. And they're not hard. They don't involve directly talking to girls either which I'm not sure you're ready for.

Starting another thread to "vent" about procrastination just increases the procrastination to another level.

Why don't you start by doing a few of the things I or maybe others suggested and post your experience here. That way the forum members can analyze and help you.

This forum will help you. But I'll be honest man, it's not gonna happen unless you put in some sincere effort.

Post: #3

I know how you feel, Blackliter.

Personally, I don't talk to as many girls as I should because I use the fact that I commute to campus as an excuse. It's a hassle to go out there, but that doesn't mean that I can't do it.

I'm relying mostly on social circle and house party game. I rationalize it by saying to myself that I'm currently focusing on other aspects of my life, which is somewhat true, but why put off self-improvement when I have the time and resources to get it done?

Someone on the forum has a signature that says, "A year from today, you'll wish you started a year ago" or something to that effect. Every time I remind myself of that quote, it motivates me to take action. Try memorizing it, it works for me!

Post: #4

I said this to myself:

Quote:Focus only on the goal.
Don't think about how you're gonna do it, as long as the goal is accomplished.

It doesn't matter if you got the lay by cold approaching, ignoring her or by wasting more money than usual by going to a lot of venues. Hell, even if you're shitfaced on certain substances it doesn't matter as long as you got the shit done and can do it again sober.
People will almost always notice only the result of your actions, not the little things you did; how you do it is up to you.

If you think about the process needed for the result, you're only limiting yourself and your ideas.
However, if you think about the goal first, and then think about how to accomplish it, you get several ideas instead of being stuck on only one.

For me, the results have been nothing short of amazing: now, instead of being lazy and thinking of various excuses why something wouldn't work, I constantly try to learn new things and do stuff that I always wanted to do - people are noticing my confidence and unshakeable inner game now without me having to do shit to be liked except focus on myself.

Post: #5

Get out of the mindset of "I have to go out to game girls". Girls are everywhere.
Approach them anywhere you see them. They're all fair game.