Post: #1

I went out last week to a random club.

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Post: #2

You're right, you should've said something to the girl while you were both at the club. You missed your opportunity. Lesson learned.

But more importantly, why are you putting so much mental effort into this one chick? Go find another girl, one who isn't living with a girl you've already pumped and dumped. Even if the roommate hasn't already poisoned the well, you're just asking for drama.

Post: #3

Called my gril today. We were chitchatting a bit, then she started how I haven't called her for like a month and all. I supposed there was drama waiting just around the corner, so I ejected myself. If I asked her about the roommate, it probably wouldn't end well

At least one thing is off my to-do list, so I have a free mind for tomorrow's night out.

Post: #4

(03-18-2014 04:13 PM)Dkby Wrote:  Called my gril today. We were chitchatting a bit, then she started how I haven't called her for like a month and all. I supposed there was drama waiting just around the corner, so I ejected myself. If I asked her about the roommate, it probably wouldn't end well

At least one thing is off my to-do list, so I have a free mind for tomorrow's night out.

Yeah, I second what Isaac Jordan said. You missed your opportunity to get her number that night.

However, there is a possible way: Indirect
1. Message or call your "girl/chick you used to bang"
2. Have some bullshit conversation and find out what her and her roommates schedule is like. Obviously in a way that she doesn't catch onto. Or you could skip this and just go for step 3.
3. Tell her you're planning something, and that she should invite her friends and roommate for...any given thing. A barbecue, out for drinks, shooting pool, house party...whatever. Hopefully they'll both be free, your old fuck buddy will come and bring her roommate for a night out with a group of people. When the time is right, game the roommate.

Post: #5

Okay, let's see what we got here.

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Post: #6

Facebook is only good for retro bangs(banging girls you went to high school and college with).

She likely just added you so you can be another one of her orbiters to like the photos she puts up and has zero interest in dating you. If that is what you want, then carry on. Otherwise, eject.

Post: #7

(05-16-2014 10:20 AM)Dkby Wrote:  To me it looks like, she would go out with me, but the only problem is that I went out with her friend a few times. Anyone successfully solved situation like this? I want either a date with her or absolute rejection (her blocking me, stop responding to my messages, etc). I really hate to give up on things somewhere in the middle because you don't know if you have used all possible options.

Based on your texts I doubt she's all that interested. However, your responses were pretty bad past the first shit-test deflection. I'd put it back on her that you weren't offering to hook up, just to hang out. Besides, her roommate isn't your ex. Past that I'd just see her out or invite them all to group events, then game where it is feasible. You use too many smilies and agree to her frame too much in your texting/facebooking.

(05-16-2014 10:20 AM)Dkby Wrote:  Maybe it's worth mentioning that there are always a few hours between our messages. When I sent her a message she usually checks it pretty soon, but then takes a few hours to repond.

This is normal chick stuff. They don't know how to come up with a good response right away so they put it off.

Post: #8

Can you give me some examples what could I have done better (for next time if I run in similar thing)?