Post: #26

At the moment:

Logistics are good, internet game is superb, nightlife closing very good, dating top notch, what could be better? Cold approaches in day game, I do them occasionally but not enough and I need to get more general energy so I can do more dates and invest more time in things.

Post: #27

Empathy, I'm very indifferent about things...

I'm very in control of my emotions so I can't really relate to most people. For instance a few weeks back a chick didn't want to go home and have sex because she almost got raped a few weeks back. I simply said "ooo wow..." then proceeded to tell her this was just a one time thing, parted ways and went to party. The way i reacted was as if she had just told me "she had work tomorrow'.

Essentially I "let go" so easily that even if a chick I love did something I didn't like or wanted to end it, I'd be 100% cool as if I had no emotion. In reality I did like them alot, it's just it's a waste of time to dwell on things that have ended, so instead I let it go.

Post: #28

(03-13-2014 02:09 AM)Distant Light Wrote:  Empathy, I'm very indifferent about things...

I'm very in control of my emotions so I can't really relate to most people. For instance a few weeks back a chick didn't want to go home and have sex because she almost got raped a few weeks back. I simply said "ooo wow..." then proceeded to tell her this was just a one time thing, parted ways and went to party. The way i reacted was as if she had just told me "she had work tomorrow'.

Essentially I "let go" so easily that even if a chick I love did something I didn't like or wanted to end it, I'd be 100% cool as if I had no emotion. In reality I did like them alot, it's just it's a waste of time to dwell on things that have ended, so instead I let it go.

I am completely with you on this. In life this is a big strenght not a weakness, but game wise yeah sometimes I see the look on a chicks face, waiting for some emotional response from me which is never going to come.

Post: #29

(03-09-2014 06:14 PM)ElJefe Wrote:  weak spot here is forgetting to game her because im not paying attention to the interaction.

For instance, been seeing a real cutie a few times. She was kinda old-school, but I decided to put in several dates because she had long-term potential.

Over just a few days, her response times have gone to super-slow and to my last message. No response. That sucks. Really sucks. Being on the short end is the worst feeling I know.

Yep, I've had this. For me it's, this is the hottest girl with LTP yet...it's just a sign I haven't had chances like this before.

I only make that mistake once...until the next hotter better potential chic comes along, then gotta re-learn. Getting better at it though.

Post: #30

(03-13-2014 10:58 AM)rottenapple Wrote:  

(03-13-2014 02:09 AM)Distant Light Wrote:  Empathy, I'm very indifferent about things...

I'm very in control of my emotions so I can't really relate to most people. For instance a few weeks back a chick didn't want to go home and have sex because she almost got raped a few weeks back. I simply said "ooo wow..." then proceeded to tell her this was just a one time thing, parted ways and went to party. The way i reacted was as if she had just told me "she had work tomorrow'.

Essentially I "let go" so easily that even if a chick I love did something I didn't like or wanted to end it, I'd be 100% cool as if I had no emotion. In reality I did like them alot, it's just it's a waste of time to dwell on things that have ended, so instead I let it go.

I am completely with you on this. In life this is a big strenght not a weakness, but game wise yeah sometimes I see the look on a chicks face, waiting for some emotional response from me which is never going to come.

Agreed, I think it's a BIG STRENGTH in general. However two things I notice...
1. Chicks become highly intimidated
2. If I don't "actively" maintain a relationship the person takes it as me not wanting to "hang" anymore and so they simply fade away eventually.

I notice this when I started looking back at a year ago and realized many chicks who I was running into were chicks I used to fool around with. Nothing BAD occured, I simply just was "living life".

Then it hit me that it's like being Indiana Jones, the storyline continues with or without them and the fact that I don't care nor "actively" give opportunities it causes that "situation" to unfold. This goes with both men and women.

How I know this is true...
- Last "connector" guy I interacted with, I CAME TO HIM and actively told him I'd come by next week with some friends. Next time we met, he was talking about us doing dinner and talking. We started messaging back and forth about super bowl weekend.

- I once ran into this chick who for some reason I started liking a lot. That night I told her, how I always thought she was an awesome chick. (Her energy was unreal) She was SHOCKED and saying "o my, why didn't you ever tell me!!!"

- A girl once told my friend how she really likes me but "implied" that I'm so indifferent that she can't read me. (knowing her past, she probably doesn't want to get attached and hurt by another guy)

All in all, I know I won't change this aspect since in every area of my life it has helped me stay "sane"

Post: #31

Confidence swings.

Sticking with day approaches and not bailing before I should.

Roosh's Day Bang states do not under any circumstance kill the interaction unless the girl moves her feet or body direction away from you. As long as she stand her ground keep going as long as possible.

A weak point I had years ago that is almost miraculous in its change is my now non-existent expectation for any girl either before or after sex. Anytime things go wrong, flake out, or fizzle with a girl I have seen so many ways it has happened that it no longer phases me including when recently the hottest girl I ever banged fizzled out on me when I thought things were going great.

Post: #32

Logistics.

Elaboration - I've been reading a lot of 'sphere blogs and to me there seems to be a lot of conflicting advice. On the one hand we say go to the gym, buy stylish clothes and get good logistics, on the other we have the work-hard-now-and-get-pussy-in-your-30s school of thought.

Sometimes i wonder if i'm in the latter crowd or if its just my male rationalisation hamster making excuses. But rent is fucking expensive down here, and living out of home for no guarantee of regular pussy doesn't sound attractive. So now i'm working and blogging and hoping it works out in a few years time.

I still can fuck though. Had a ONS with a chick at a friend's house party few weeks back. But house parties are rare and unreliable. Clubbing isn't my thing. Looks like time to save up for Krauser's Daygame Mastery book

Post: #33

Game is no different than making money or being successful at anything. There are literally a 1000 ways for shit to go wrong but only a few ways for it go right or work in your favor. There are always many, many ways to fail but only a few ways to succeed. Success requires the constant alignment of many variables at the same time while failure only requires the misalignment of one at any time.

Post: #34

"If you don't fail ,you don't succeed "- unknown

Post: #35

Not aggressive and don ' t know when to sexualize .

Post: #36

Jukes- when I was in high school I had the same issue. Then just started doing the opposite of the 2 points you listed and it's true what these guys preach. Better to be aggressive, pro-active and sexual than not.