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RE: Does creating a business teach you the "price" of money?
"Now - lets imagine he is now running the laundromat - and he realises that for a little extra work (and alot of it not unpleasant) he is now taking home a lot more money.
As such - he may start to feel like he was an idiot before in not working for himself.
Is that how it feels? "
Yes everyone tells you how hard it is to run a business when in fact it's easy as fuck if you make everyone else do everything for you. Do I do paperwork? Sales tax? Even read my mail from the IRS? Fuck no! I pay a trusted friend who's an accountant to deal with all that 100 a month. Shit she even filed a BP claim for me. I was just thinking about how much I love her today I'm going to give he 33% of my BP cash as a gift. As a mechanic working for other I made about 800 a week but working for myself I can make 10 X that while fucking around all day.
Some people cannot work for themselves they need to rules, be told what to do, and get a steady paycheck. These people are called "betas" or pussies.
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RE: Does creating a business teach you the "price" of money?
Many small businesses 'fail', but I strongly believe every man should try his hand at being self-employed.
There is nothing like it. Nothing.
Once you cross over and see the power of 'writing your own check', then you not only have more incentive to make it work, but you definitely make more. Also, you realize how badly you get fucked working for others.
Anytime one person can dictate your financial well-being then you're giving them all of your power. Going to work everyday not knowing if it's your last day of employment is no way to live.
Top that off with a heavy dose of not liking authority (me), then being self-employed is the only route.
To answer your question...once I started working for myself, specifically with the Afterhours club, then I started to treat money differently, because I saw what went into making it on a greater scale. It also helped me broaden my mindset on making money from a wage-slave to a boss who could make a couple of moves and make even more money.
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RE: Does creating a business teach you the "price" of money?
Interseting subject, definately does change the way you look at money. My situation in this, I work a fairly low level job for my day job, I make about $14 an hour.
About two years ago I started a business, started off slow making beer money, then grew to maybe 3k a month 5k on a good month. Nice side money but not enough to quit my job for.
Fast forward about a year and a half in consistantly making 15k to 20k for about 6 months. I still havn't quit my day job as majority of our cash gets rolled back into our business or is held by long reserves or holds on our merchant accounts, plus I'd like a year of consistant money and business before quitting my job with a steady paycheck.
Anyhow, when I have my boss in at my office trying to get me amped up off maybe earning a $100 bonus for our office which I have to split with one or two other people, and he's telling me thats like your making an extra 0.50 cents per hour over the course of the month. I almost feel insulted. I hate to say insulted because they dont neceesarily have to give me a bonus and I'm sure there's unemployed people out there who would love to make $14 an hour with a shot at a little bonus so I don't mean to sound unappreciative, however when I think about I can sit on a call with a customer for 5 minutes and pull in $1500 off a deal I do with them it really skews your view of money but more so working for other people.
I posted asking for some advice on another thread, without goign into too much detail I'm at risk of having to stop my business due to regulations and my state and its very stressful and makes me super fucking angry essentially some fucking buerocrat is going to take my dream and my livelihood over some red tape. What I mean by that is in any other state they would love to have me and my business in my state they are gonna try to extort money and threaten me with a felony. Anyhow, that's a total side note but with that situation its got me thinking of my next move because to me it would be equivalent to winning the lottery and losing the ticket if someone took my business away from me and I'm back to making $14 an hour even though I've yet to even really be spoiled by the money I'm making as I can't really currently pay myself much but a few hundred bucks to keep myself motivated and put a little money in my pocket.
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RE: Does creating a business teach you the "price" of money?
(03-04-2014 03:31 PM)dulst Wrote: I'm self employed but as a sole trader charging an hourly rate. So I still view the price of items in terms of how much time I have to work to pay for them.
The difference is things feel easier when you know an hour of your time is worth £20 rather than £7, and that you can raise your own prices by as much as you want, providing it doesn't put people off.
This means when I invest I view the return as hours I've saved myself.
When I was your age, I was working fifteen hours a day and thinking I was the man for making £200.
Now I employ two guys, and make the same with half the effort, and can make extra if I care to go out with them. Don't raise your prices- employ someone to do the extra work. Far better to have plenty of customers- your business will grow much quicker through recommendations and all you need to do is hire another guy when you get busy enough.
It's not about what the job is worth per hour- it's what it's worth to the customer. If you invest in something, as you say, to save you time, then you need to profit from this by giving a quote for the whole job and knocking it out in half the time it normally takes.
Please don't wait until you're my age (25) to realise this. I'm still kicking myself.
What's your trade BTW?
They who would give up essential Liberty, to purchase a little temporary Safety, deserve neither Liberty nor Safety- Benjamin Franklin, as if you didn't know...
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RE: Does creating a business teach you the "price" of money?
creating a business didn't teach me the price of money so much as it taught me what i really wanted in life.
i think the bottom line is it really depends on the individual. there is no one-size-fits-all here.
back in 2011, all i wanted was money. i started and grew my primarily b2c biz into a 6-figure business which i was very proud of. Then I went to work for a former client's corporation in 2012. i know that the general consensus on RVF is that if you're not working for yourself you're a wage slave aka scum, but there are things i've learned/people i've met here that i probably would never have otherwise.
so the reason why it taught me more about myself: i learned that i apparently respond very well to project-oriented, commissions-based work. i've worked a plain salary job before and felt no motivation to work hard. i ran a 6-figure biz where the money wasn't enough to offset the loss of my health and social life. i don't know why but working for bonuses/commission just gets all my creative juices flowing and puts me into primal beast mode in the workplace. i love the fact that if i do a good job, i'll be getting a bonus. if you've ever received a bonus before on top of your regular salary, you'd know how awesome it is. but this is just me. maybe you don't respond to the same incentives.
running my own business was stressful and left me with little time to pursue my other interests, which is what makes life fun and interesting for me. it had me scrambling/hustling to find clients all the time. i was out of shape, unhappy, and i was burned out.
i signed up for an MMA/Muay Thai gym at the beginning of 2014 and now have plenty of time to train my ass off, get in shape, and go meet girls at bars/clubs after work because my company will do the heavy lifting of finding all my clients for me. doesn't mean i'll stay here forever. when the right pieces fall into place, i'll be in a great position to work for myself again...but without having to sacrifice what's important to me.
mark cuban says that between going to school and working a job, he'd prefer to work because work is where you get paid to learn. i've always liked this reasoning. in my eyes, the only way you can ever be a "wage slave" is if you're just doing it for the money and you gain nothing else (connections, marketable experience, knowledge, etc) in the process.
with all that being said, i would recommend every single guy try to start a business at least once in their lives.
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RE: Does creating a business teach you the "price" of money?
Damn cardguy - I was literally planning on starting my first thread tonight and wanted to call it "Business | The Other Red Pill". It looks like you beat me to it. I thought it might be helpful to have a separate thread from Gringuito as although I agree with him 100% on everything, I think his angle is definitely biased towards tech. Oh well.
Before I ever heard of game and stumbled across this community of the "manosphere" I had already previously described starting a business as "red pill". It is exactly that. It is like all of society has determined that a W-2 is safe. If there is one key nugget, it is that all businesses have ups and downs in their cash reserves. If you run a business you will no doubt at some point be in a position where you look at cash reserves and think "if I don't do something to change...I'm out of cash in X time." This is just a fact. This is no different than if you work for a large company, some guy is staring at a P&L and cash flow and is figuring out what each unit of labor must do over the next X months to justify their existence. At least if you run the business you get the maximum lead time possible to make an adjustment (as opposed to the "safe" W-2 guy).
Back to the question, does creating a business teach you the value of money. My $.02 (with some experiences sprinkled in):
- In general yes. But, I think this is cyclical.
- Prior to starting a business I was on a high paying career path. After starting a business I still had employers throwing very attractive offers to try and get me to just go work for them. In the first two years it was really tough because although business was going as well as it could for an early stage business, the numbers that employers were trying to entice me with made me question my resolve (mostly because I had pregnant wife and then a new baby during this period). At this stage I valued EVERY dollar.
- The first two years is also tough because you will find yourself literally staring at a wall once in a while wondering if you are really making the right trade and whether or not you should just go get that W-2 and all that comes with it.
- After three years something different happens (I've talked to others that confirmed this, so not just me). The key difference is that the market starts to view you as a "market participant" rather than trying to look behind the curtain to see if they actually need to pay market or if they trust that you will be around. My key point here is that whether it is giving you a huge volume order like any other "market" player, or that you get to charge full "market" rates...you are no longer viewed as a startup and the revenue line can pop significantly. In a way that no W-2 income of any kind or any profession ever could. In my opinion, this is where you get the "red pill" and realize the whole "game" that the employment market is. Especially because at this stage you are employing people at "market" or "market+". Key point: you get to see how these people working for you behave and think how "safe" their W-2 is...but you started this business right? It can't be that safe yet, can it?
And then...
- We kept making money. 48 months in a row of profitability. Although we still valued the dollar and appreciated our freedom, it was clearly less so than in those first 3 years.
- Then we made a splash and hit front page of the NY Times, article in the Economist, various other outlets. We also had something much bigger than even that splash in the pipeline. So, we did what anyone would do: get the Tony office with a fancy address, expensive people, playboy model looking receptionist, fancy everything, full bar in the office, even the coasters were premium...like Mad Men. Hell, all of a sudden my partner is meeting bitches to fuck during lunch and I'm headed out at 5pm to meet mine. I think he had a revolving door of "arrangements" and I was hitting international travel on the slightest whim of a business opportunity.
And so, it took lighting a LOT of cash on fire to get back to valuing the dollar the way we used to. The business is still going as strong as ever, but we had to shed our fancy overhead and start actually working again like we want it and watching profitability. I now think it was a blessing to burn that much cash when we did. If we didn't have a hiccup in revenue we would probably have kept that burn rate and ultimately burned through 10x the amount of cash that we did (and, without the overhead we actually might've stopped and said "are we doing what we want to be doing, because we don't have to do anything).
In summary:
- Yes, going in business for yourself is indeed the other red pill
- Yes, it will teach you the price of money for a while
- Yes, you will likely abuse money at some point
- Hopefully, you will get back to a place for the long haul where you get back to equating money with time and freedom (jury still out on me...but, I think this is where I'm at).
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RE: Does creating a business teach you the "price" of money?
Man, I thought this was going to be about starting a counterfeit ring.
Cardguy, I would say you would be more aware of cashflow. Most people live paycheck to paycheck and in that regards will plan things out maybe a month or so in advance.
As a business owner, you have to look more long term because not only could you have dips in sales within the year, you also have to juggle that with long term plans like new products, expanding into new markets and so on.
Not everyone who owns a business is good at it. For example, I have a good friend who has had a couple of successful businesses. I would say he reached the mill a year mark in yearly sales for both companies. Not huge but rather good for being in a small market. He also lost both because he pretty much sucked out all the cash when it became available and left none to weather the storms of lower sales. He thought it would never stop dropping cash into his pockets until it... well, stopped dropping cash into his pockets.
He liked some of the stuff I was doing and he had some skills that I liked so we decided to try working together. I thought I could reason with him when he got greedy.
Big mistake. In fact, that cost me about 100k and left me to start over. You see, he got greedy again and thought he could run with my plan and do it himself. He later told me he tried and it was a lot more difficult than he ever imagined. hah He just couldn't see the big picture I had laid out and went for the quick cash.
We are still friends, I just know where that friendship stops.
To answer your question, no, it doesn't help teach some people.
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