Post: #376

(05-25-2015 06:10 AM)PersonaNonGrata Wrote:  A year ago I stayed on this Indian script writer chicks couch in Mumbai. On the 2nd day in the middle of the night she pounced on me naked. She did the same on my last 2 nights haha

That was the first time I ever went on CS and I was just looking for a couch haha. I got lucky i guess.

Nice. I had similar experiences more than once.
First time was my very first cs experience. I was surfing the couch of this danish girl in Copenaghen. She was flirting and at one point she suggested to sit together on the sofa and check some stuff on her laptop. She put the laptop onto our legs, start typing something, then gently places her forearm on my dick, acting as nothing was really happening. I had a boner, and she was still there with the forearm. I did nothing as I sincerly didn't expect that and the girl wasn't particularly hot (29yo, a 6 I'd say). I think she was testing me to see if I wanted to bang her, 'cause then she stood up and said "I'm on my period". Still I did nothing and never banged her. I ended up staying at her place for two weeks and also bringing a girl home one day she was out of town lol.

Other experience was in San Diego, CA. A chubby girl hosted me. She had an amusing personality. We went out and got drunk. When back on her place, I placed myself on the sofa ready to sleep, but suddenly she literally jumped on the couch, rubbed her (fat) body on mine and moaning: "let's do couch-fucking, let's do couch-fucking". I didn't get any boner, she realized that, went to sleep and next morning said: "let's forget what happened last night, I was drunk". I enthusiastically agreed.

Post: #377

And what about girls coming to our cities as tourists? Are any bangs possible?

Post: #378

(05-25-2015 09:18 AM)drmariusz Wrote:  And what about girls coming to our cities as tourists? Are any bangs possible?

I had at least two or three girls who seemed dtf when at my place, so I'm sure it is possible (and for sure many people do it) but as I said, I had this rule of not trying anything when hosting girls. Although I've always preferred to host pretty girls, it's been just to gain some good references as a host, as my main aim with CS has always been to travel AND get laid while abroad.

Btw I know guys who host continuously, and some of them have more than one negative reference where the girl accuses him basically of creeping her out... I guess these guys take the risk and perhaps they have gotten laid several times through hosting, not caring much about the consequences of a possible negative ref. If you have 20 good ref as a host and just a couple of negative, people will keep asking you for a couch.

Post: #379

I am asking because I cannot host girls but I am curious whether the bangs are possible with girls who have already accomodation and search only guide through the city.

Post: #380

(05-25-2015 10:48 AM)drmariusz Wrote:  I am asking because I cannot host girls but I am curious whether the bangs are possible with girls who have already accomodation and search only guide through the city.

Ah ok. Well in this case the amount of work you need to accomplish it is too big and boring for the real possibilities to make it.
Girls who wanna be escorted around the city usually write a pubblic post on the local cs forum. If the girl is slightly pretty, she will receive dozens of offers, perhaps hundred. This means if you don't stand out for some particular reason, she won't even bother to reply you, and if she does, still worse, because she will have probably set several dates on the same day to maximize her possibilities of fun/exploiting the man; this will make her distracted by her phone, and not focusing on you because she is also looking forward to discover how the next man will be. Of course if you are the next man, it can also happen taht she will flake because she likes/bangs the first dude. But you may be also the lucky one, who knows. So possibilities are existing, but not high. If you have the right look and vibe, and have time and will to play this game, you can do it, but I don't reccomend it, even because you put yourself in the same category of thirsty guys and this devalue you to the eyes of a girl.

There's also the case when a girl directly writes to you in private asking to meet up for showing her around. This happens rarely (in 7 years of cs it happened to me no more than 10 times, and I never bother to reply to any 'cause they were all ugly, fat or old), but I met some pretty cs girls who told me they do it, so perhaps there are some lucky dude out there who gets pussy served on a silver plate once in a while, 'cause in that case it's evident the girl is up for something ;-)

Post: #381

Thank you for your tips

Post: #382

(05-25-2015 10:48 AM)drmariusz Wrote:  I am curious whether the bangs are possible with girls who have already accomodation and search only guide through the city.

Of course it is possible. My first CS bang was at the chick's host's place, at 15:00!

In fact, it is much, much easier to bang CS girls when you do not host them. If you have a flexible working schedule and can take time off during the day from Monday to Friday, then it's perfect. Let the betas host the chicks and monopolize them between 19:00 and 9:00 of the next day, and during the weekends. You monopolize the chicks while the betas are at work. My last CS bang was at a public park, at 16:00, for instance.

When you offer to show a chick around, you are her equal. You do not have the power of a host. Hence, she will be much more genuine. For example, if you show her around one day and she asks you if you can show her around the next day, then you know she probably likes you. If you were her host, her wanting to spend time with you would probably just be her looking for a positive reference, not genuine interest in you whatsoever. Moreover, when you show her around, you get to decide where to take her, you guide her, which makes you look at least a bit alpha in her eyes. You speak the local language, you know all the restaurants, people greet you when you go to bars. Just don't act beta and ruin it.

Post: #383

(05-25-2015 11:51 AM)Icarus Wrote:  

(05-25-2015 10:48 AM)drmariusz Wrote:  I am curious whether the bangs are possible with girls who have already accomodation and search only guide through the city.

Of course it is possible. My first CS bang was at the chick's host's place, at 15:00!

In fact, it is much, much easier to bang CS girls when you do not host them. If you have a flexible working schedule and can take time off during the day from Monday to Friday, then it's perfect. Let the betas host the chicks and monopolize them between 19:00 and 9:00 of the next day, and during the weekends. You monopolize the chicks while the betas are at work. My last CS bang was at a public park, at 16:00, for instance.

When you offer to show a chick around, you are her equal. You do not have the power of a host. Hence, she will be much more genuine. For example, if you show her around one day and she asks you if you can show her around the next day, then you know she probably likes you. If you were her host, her wanting to spend time with you would probably just be her looking for a positive reference, not genuine interest in you whatsoever. Moreover, when you show her around, you get to decide where to take her, you guide her, which makes you look at least a bit alpha in her eyes. You speak the local language, you know all the restaurants, people greet you when you go to bars. Just don't act beta and ruin it.

Yes Icarus, but showing her around is not a 3 hour date, lets have some drinks and wham bam thank you mam. At least, the decent good looking ones will expect a major time commitment, in time and energy, showing them the town. Most couchsurfing girls are not worth it.

Post: #384

(05-25-2015 01:24 PM)chochemonger1 Wrote:  At least, the decent good looking ones will expect a major time commitment, in time and energy, showing them the town. Most couchsurfing girls are not worth it.

I agree. Most CS girls are not worth it. Which is why I focus on the best ones only.

As I get closer to my mid-30s, the Western European CS chicks no longer want to meet me, but Russian chicks in their early 20s seem to have no problem with my being 10+ years older than them. The Russians are prettier and more pleasant, too. Do cute Russian chicks visit my city every week? No, but when they do, I do my best to monopolize them. Also, some of them use AirBnB for accommodation and CS only to meet locals.

Post: #385

I found someone who was looking for a place to stay for a layover (less than a day). I hosted her and she had really strong body language and we made out but didn't bang. Normally I would push through LMR but not in this situation. She did leave me a glowing reference though.

Since then I verified and got requests from three different dudes.

Post: #386

(05-25-2015 09:55 AM)Garzero Wrote:  Btw I know guys who host continuously, and some of them have more than one negative reference where the girl accuses him basically of creeping her out...

More often than not those guys were in fact weirdos who do shady stuff, since youre a part of this forum i dont think you should worry too much about it.
I have read a lot of negative references though about guys making a move getting rejected and then completely ignoring the girls. So of course thats gonna piss off the girls.

(05-25-2015 11:23 AM)Garzero Wrote:  There's also the case when a girl directly writes to you in private asking to meet up for showing her around. This happens rarely (in 7 years of cs it happened to me no more than 10 times, and I never bother to reply to any 'cause they were all ugly, fat or old), but I met some pretty cs girls who told me they do it, so perhaps there are some lucky dude out there who gets pussy served on a silver plate once in a while, 'cause in that case it's evident the girl is up for something ;-)

A ton of girls only put up one pic and nothing on their profile. Do you really think they care about the "community"? Those are the girls that are turning it into just another online dating page. And yeah those lucky dudes are not surprisingly the good looking ones. (Just check the references of said girls and look for ;-))

(05-25-2015 11:51 AM)Icarus Wrote:  In fact, it is much, much easier to bang CS girls when you do not host them.

Well she already has free housing, why would she need a guy to show her around? I mean its really hard getting lost these days. Cant we assume that if she agrees to meet up then she is already attracted to you hence making it easier?

(05-25-2015 03:11 PM)Shimmy Wrote:  Since then I verified and got requests from three different dudes.

If you are only doing it to get girls, just host all three of them and get over the part of getting references as fast as possible, once you get a few you can even switch to preferred female if you like.

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(05-25-2015 07:47 PM)dog24 Wrote:  Well she already has free housing, why would she need a guy to show her around? I mean its really hard getting lost these days. Cant we assume that if she agrees to meet up then she is already attracted to you hence making it easier?

If a chick posts on my city's group or local discussion and says that she wants to meet people, asks for tips on what to see, and asks if someone can show her around, then I send her a detailed PM on what to see in my city. This takes 10 seconds because I have a template saved, and only need to add her name to the template.

Then, I wait. If she replies and sounds like an ungrateful bitch, then I am glad I did not invest more than a few seconds in her. If she replies and sounds grateful, I then may offer to show her around. If she accepts my offer to show her around, then I meet her. If she's boring, I make up an excuse and ditch her. If she does not even reply to my offer, then I am happy she rejected me before I invested more time in her. After all, there are 80 other chicks visiting in the next few weeks...

Post: #388

Quote:If you are only doing it to get girls, just host all three of them and get over the part of getting references as fast as possible, once you get a few you can even switch to preferred female if you like.

How does that work? Doesn't it make you look like a creep if they see you're only accepting females or do you put a disclaimer like "men are too messy i prefer only women guests?" Also is it good to have all female reviews (social proof) or should I have guy reviews too so the women won't think I'm there to bang them?

Post: #389

The site works like everything in life based on status. The more references you get the more status and the ability to get away with things new comers couldnt. At some point other people including girls are gonna try to win your approval and not the other way around.

Post: #390

Almost every question here as been answered.
It's great.
How many of y'all go to the meet ups?
Every now and then I woukd hit one up.. Usually mostly guys all gong for the attractive girls attention.
But I feel like, if you don't treat it like a club.. It's a great way to meet some new people.
Maybe even hand pick some friends if you're bouncing into a new country




I no longer live in a city where I child host new chicks every week.

I still message girls all the time to try to meet up.
It still works pretty well.. As the person above said.. You just need status.. A good well written profile, pictures and references wins over anything.

Post: #391

On Thursday and on Friday I am meeting with a girl from Belarus coming to Warsaw (my city). And I am wondering how to play the game We are going to spend time during daylight.

Post: #392

(05-25-2015 10:36 PM)Shimmy Wrote:  How does that work? Doesn't it make you look like a creep if they see you're only accepting females or do you put a disclaimer like "men are too messy i prefer only women guests?" Also is it good to have all female reviews (social proof) or should I have guy reviews too so the women won't think I'm there to bang them?

I wouldn't change "preferred gender" to "female". Hide your intentions.

Unfortunately, you have to pay your dues. Host guys. It kind of sucks, but that is what it takes to build a reputation on CS. Interestingly, guys are often a lot more polite and grateful. Some are even shocked that they managed to find a host! Girls, however, tend to be spoiled, ungrateful and entitled. Some CS girls think you host CS girls because you have no friends, no life, and can't get laid, and they don't hide their contempt all that well. Never show weakness.

If you host groups, then demand that every member of the group have his or her own CS profile before you offer accommodation. If you host a group of 5, you can get some 2-4 references at once. Hosting a group of 5 guys sounds scary, but sometimes chicks travel with their castrated orbiters, and orbiters don't scare anyone.

I hosted a few couples, but didn't like it. My apartment is not a motel. What else do they want? Am I supposed to buy them condoms, too?

If you check the CS page on Reddit, you will often find posts of women asking for tips on how to choose hosts. Guys who only want to host females and who have references from females only raise red flags immediately. They don't know if the host is alpha or omega, and unless the guy's photos suggest he is alpha, they assume he is omega.

If you bang a CS chick, she probably won't write you a reference. I don't know why.

Post: #393

I think it depends if you host them or not.
Every girl that I just let through cs and smashed, never left a review.

But the ones that I actually hosted, they all left reviews.
I joked to a friend that my reviews started off innocent, but if you read them over time they seem more and more like an inside joke.. Or a review that had underlying tones that other stuff happened

A review of how well I laid the pipe and kept the girl happy.

I even theorize that those reviews lead to more cs bangs.

Girls are great at picking up the subtle hints of alpha guys.. Especially in the sea of betas ( thee majority of guys on cs)
They can't read between the lines that other girls leave.

Since those traveling girls are looking for a great time riding you and your couch.. They figure out which guys are worth it and which aren't.

Post: #394

(05-26-2015 06:43 AM)Sourcecode Wrote:  Girls are great at picking up the subtle hints of alpha guys.. Especially in the sea of betas ( thee majority of guys on cs)
They can't read between the lines that other girls leave.

This is a great post. I read in an article to see if a girl has wink faces from other reviews. I just got a request from a European girl who's email for a request looked more like an email you would get from a girl on a dating site. I checked her ref and while most were from people she met at CS meets there were 2 from hosts, both guys, and both guys left her wink faces in the review.

Post: #395

That was a mistake.. I actually meant to say.. They CAN read between the lines


Damn cell phone auto correct

Post: #396

The rise and fall of couchsurfing:

http://kernelmag.dailydot.com/issue-sect...chsurfing/

Post: #397

That article was pretty interesting, grown from nothing until it became too big to function in the same way it could originally.

Makes me wonder if there is going to be an app sometime soon that lets you find open "couches" through GPS and profiles to see if you even want to hit them up to be shown around/crash.

That could be pretty interesting if you go to a city, run out of things to do and hit up that app to see what people are willing to show up and show you around at the drop of the hat.

Post: #398

(06-01-2015 03:07 AM)cascadecombo Wrote:  That article was pretty interesting, grown from nothing until it became too big to function in the same way it could originally.

Makes me wonder if there is going to be an app sometime soon that lets you find open "couches" through GPS and profiles to see if you even want to hit them up to be shown around/crash.

That could be pretty interesting if you go to a city, run out of things to do and hit up that app to see what people are willing to show up and show you around at the drop of the hat.

You realize that couchsurfing already has an app that does pretty much exactly what you are saying.

I would be at number one in search for hosts on my city if i get verified, anyone that has done it think its worth it?

Post: #399

(06-01-2015 11:10 AM)dog24 Wrote:  I would be at number one in search for hosts on my city if i get verified, anyone that has done it think its worth it?

Do it!

Post: #400

How do you know you would be the number one search.
I never saw verified members get bumped to the top.
members that seemed to host alot or were online often where usually at the top