(02-18-2014 05:55 AM)Sargon of Akkad Wrote: Upon contemplating on this further, I realized I let my own biases and yellow fever warp my description of German women.
By and large, they can vary quite a bit in terms of appearance and quality, and it's impossible to talk about this either way without making any rough generalizations.
There are indeed quite a few women who take good care of themselves, and univeristy campuses tend to have an overall higher quality. I made the mistake of comparing German women to Chinese, Japanese and Korean. Contrasted to these three Groups, German women do indeed seem bulky, cold and masculine. I'd probably have a different impression if I compared them to American women (who I'm really no longer qualified to discuss with any accuracy anyway, since it's been half a lifetime since I've lived in the States).
(02-17-2014 03:05 PM)gloeb Wrote: Germany is shit for pickup, like Sargon mentioned.
The only places where you can find girls with a bitchshield that is not <9000 are the techno underground clubs (they are slowly coming back).
The problem is that most girls fear to be called a slut when they make out or go home with someone. Good way is, like Sargon mentioned, go to tourist bars/clubs where a more international crowd is.
(02-17-2014 05:05 PM)Aliblahba Wrote: I can quote about 8 friends/coworkers that say Germany is a puss paradise. 3 of them eventually married local gals and went native. All are/working on U.S. bases, and had money to throw around. I've seen the pictures that proved top talent German, Polish, and Russian chicks. I would love to run a 1 year contract over there and smash touristy bishes in Frankfurt on weekends. The German chicks I've met were always cool and receptive to masculinity.
edit-Masculinity-Stands when you pee.
(02-18-2014 05:02 AM)augen sehen Wrote: I live in Berlin, and I can categorically say that German women are, on the whole, hotter than American girls. They are white with good skin, many of them have light eyes and hair, most of them are not overweight (makes a BIG DIFFERENCE) and are usually polite if not outright sweet to strange men.
Berlin is not really a city for high heels and full makeup, but most women do take pride in their appearance and have a minimum of face paint when they go out, day time or night. There are plenty of 7's and 8's walking around, they're just all bundled up because... German weather.
Don't concentrate only on German women though, I found them hard to game unless you know German and have an in with a social circle. There are many foreigners from other European countries here and they are way more open.
(02-17-2014 10:49 AM)WD-40 Wrote:(02-17-2014 10:44 AM)Frank Wrote: So, what do you think of the women there and how did you adjust your game?
I adjusted my game by leaving the country.
(02-19-2014 03:26 AM)Sargon of Akkad Wrote: I think to sum Germany up one could say the following...
- While you can find quality there, the average German woman is nothing to write home about.
- You're most likely to have positive experiences with women in the major cities, mainly Berlin, Munich and Hamburg. However, these places are NOT representative of the rest of the country.
- While one night stands between strangers do occur, they are far less common. One should be mindful of the dominance of social circle game among the locals and not expect the same kind of hookup and one-night stand culture one may be accustomed to in other countries.
- German cities and University towns are fairly international, so if the average German girl is not your cup of tea, there are many other nationalities and ethnicities for you to choose from.
All in all: I'd say Germany is certainly not pussy pergatory, due in part to the amount of options, but it is far from an ideal place for guys on this forum. If you go there, go for the culture, history and the architecture. I would advise agsainst going there specifically for the women.
(02-19-2014 03:26 AM)Sargon of Akkad Wrote: All in all: I'd say Germany is certainly not pussy pergatory, due in part to the amount of options, but it is far from an ideal place for guys on this forum.
(02-19-2014 06:23 PM)Flint Wrote: As a German or an American who speaks the language you simply cannot use all the concepts of game like it is taught by Strauss or Roosh and expect it to work exactly like in the US. The way Germans socialize and forge friendships is quite different from what people usually do in America and many other countries.
The situation has improved over the years, I think, but in general it is safe to say that small talk is still widely unheard of and the concept is alien to most Germans. A few examples: while it is perfectly acceptable in Britain or the US to say "Beautiful weather, isn't it?" to a random stranger, many Germans would think you must be weird and have some mental issues in order to say that to someone you don't know. In Anglophone countries it's pretty common to ask "How is it going/How are you doing?" to greet people and to introduce yourself. You can reasonably expect that the other person says good, fine or great in 95% of the cases even if they feel bad. The question simply serves a social function and for native speakers it is clear that it is just chitchat that has no meaning. In German, "How you doing" will always be understood as a literal question and as a native speaker I only ask this people whom I know and who I actually care about. In addition to that, Germans put things quite literally and are not very subtle when it comes to conversations, especially when they speak English. The playful, ironic banter you can enjoy with people of both sexes in the US and Britain is existent here to an extent but not very entrenched in the everyday life. Also, people in general do not use the term friend lightly. Americans call everyone they know and like a friend, in Germany you would more often just be a buddy or good acquaintance. It takes several months until people consider you a real friend but then they will be extremely loyal to you.
All of which, affects the way you need to game German girls. When I lived in the US, I could be sober, walk up to a girl at a party and say things like "Hey girl, how is it going?" I think had the foreigner bonus at the campus I was studying at, so I felt that this was not exactly the greatest but a legitimate way to strike up a conversation with a girl. It never hurt me, at least.
The same sentence in German would be something like "Na Kleine, wie geht's? Alles klar bei dir?" but phrased like this you can't say it to the overwhelming majority of girls because it would come off as incongruent and unnatural to her ears. Also, despite all the rants about American feminism, I think when a man walks up to a woman in the US, it is clear to both parties what it's about it and I found it easier to create sexual tension with American girls as they also push for it when they like you and they accept their roles in the game. Not so your Fr盲uleins: first, German guys rarely approach and she is just not used to it. Many German girls sound extremely rational and robotic when you talk to them as if you are about to negotiate an insurance policy. It's like they never learned how to be sweet, seductive and feminine when they talk to a guy.
So, how to game here then? I agree that most German guys get laid and date through social circles. If you ask people how they met their girlfriends in 98% they will say through friends, study groups at university, work, common hobbies or a sports club. While this seems the usual way people find their partners around the world, at least among my British and American friends I hear WAY more often stories like "Well, I saw this chick in a book store and asked for her number" than from Germans.
If you come here, social circle game is certainly a safe bet but I daresay cold approaching works fine during the day and in clubs can get you laid just as well. SNLs in cities other than Munich, Berlin, Hamburg or K枚ln are rare but it's possible. Like BoiBoi said, Berlin is without a doubt the best place for it. Period. There are countless illegal open air raves and street festivals in the summer as well as great electronic music clubs, and if you have your shit together you can pull here with ease and even fuck in the venue. If you have an exotic bonus like TheDealCloser and greekkamaki, it will only help you and many chicks dig well-dressed "ethnic" guys (for the lack of a better word, since Germany is so white).
Another advice: Go direct.
I only started to cold approach abd to daygame last year, so my experience is sort of limited but I made the observation that you should not beat about bush when you walk up to girl. Like I said, people here don't get subtleties, so don't try Day Bang-style elderly chat but make your intentions clear from the very first moment on. Work on a sonorous voice, show a calm and confident demeanor, tell her what you think of her and go for the number close. No frills, no palm-reading bullshit, no negging. After I tried it a few times, I was surprised how powerful it is. In the last four months I only made about 20 approaches (result: 9 numbers, 5 dates, 1 bang, otherwise very polite and relatively pleasant rejections) but it convinced me enough to do rely more on daygame. Also, several girls, even 7s and 8s, told me that they were never approached by a guy during the day before which made me wonder.
The problem with indirect game is that you might get her into a conversation that feels good and she might even give her your number. But when you ask for a date, she acts completely surprised as she already has a boyfriend and was just trying to friendzone you. Male-female interactions here are very asexual and it's a common move. The female mindset is rather something like: "Why is he not interested in discussing genetically modified corn and renewable energies with me and my boyfriend? Why does he wants to be alone with me and go to a bar?"
TL;DR If you wanna have SNLs, go to Berlin. Use direct game during the day and filter out the boring chicks as there are plenty of them. Don't expect normal female behavior and adjust your game to extremely rational-minded girl types.
(02-17-2014 03:05 PM)gloeb Wrote: Germany is shit for pickup, like Sargon mentioned.You have one post. Which is hating on your own country. You simply have bad game. Suck it up..
The only places where you can find girls with a bitchshield that is not <9000 are the techno underground clubs (they are slowly coming back).
The problem is that most girls fear to be called a slut when they make out or go home with someone. Good way is, like Sargon mentioned, go to tourist bars/clubs where a more international crowd is.
(02-17-2014 05:05 PM)Aliblahba Wrote: I can quote about 8 friends/coworkers that say Germany is a puss paradise. 3 of them eventually married local gals and went native. All are/working on U.S. bases, and had money to throw around. I've seen the pictures that proved top talent German, Polish, and Russian chicks. I would love to run a 1 year contract over there and smash touristy bishes in Frankfurt on weekends. The German chicks I've met were always cool and receptive to masculinity.
edit-Masculinity-Stands when you pee.
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(02-20-2014 01:28 PM)Sourcecode Wrote: I theorize that most of the hate over Germany are from guys that simply aren't as good at game as they think they are AN OR can't adjust their game.
This forum is full of slavophiles that think eastern europe is the poosy paradise. or SEA is the best place to get laid.
Too many people seem to expect that they are gonna be welcomed with open legs in Germany. Thats not realistic at all. Germany isnt a borderline third world place like Poland/Ukraine ect. And you aren't gonna get the white god factor like you would in SEA.
Better economy, different laws,different culture. You aren't coming to Germany with a baseline higher status. You aren't special. You have to put in real work just like everyone else.
Women aren't gonna come to you just because you think you dress nice and are from a different country.
(02-20-2014 02:45 PM)Sourcecode Wrote: At the end of the day. This is still a travel forum...not a "I hope I can get laid on the first night"
Quote:I theorize that most of the hate over Germany are from guys that simply aren't as good at game as they think they are AN OR can't adjust their game.
Quote:Germany is a great starter country for a person coming to Europe.
Stable economy. Safe. Well known. and lots of stuff to do and travel to see.