Post: #1

alright gents I have a question. I have a prospect that I recently seen on Friday. we had a good time some macking and groping but no fornication. now the problem is most chicks I go out with right away they hit me up with a text saying "I had so much fun with you blah blah blah". anyways I haven't gotten jack squat. so is she waiting for me to hit her up or should I just chill out . im just trying to get a notch on my belt .of course ima keep rooshing but im curious. Im 18 shes 19. any thoughts from the pros?

Post: #2

Don't worry about it not all girls respond right away like that, wait a few days and contact her, if no response then next her.

Usually also girls that are hotter have more game themselves and won't show as much interest. Also as girls get older they get more game.

Unless you are ready to settle down and have kids, you should never care too much about any one girl.

I'm 28 and I still get surprised often by girls' behavior. Don't focus on it, it is a waste of time. Improve yourself, go after more girls.

Post: #3

Go after others. If she is interested, she will get curious with time and show you more interest. If she isn't interested, you will have a head start on moving to other girls.

Post: #4

Don't overthink it. Start focusing on other prospects or find some. Then text her a day or two later if she doesn't text you. Quickly set up your next activity (not date, you aren't gonna date her, take her to do something you'd have fun doing anyways, that way there is never a failed night.. even if you don't fuck you had fun, this aloofness about it will also draw her in) and keep pressing. You never score if you don't shoot.

Also, tinder is great for spitting game at a bunch of girls to keep yourself from focusing to hard on any girl. It's easiest to seem busy, by beeing busy.

Post: #5

Hard to tell based on these limited details whether we can read anything into her lack of a text. The best thing you can do is keep other plates spinning and not think about her much if at all. With some girls, it's best to send them the next text and keep the momentum going; others want you to prove how aloof and uncaring you are. After a couple days you should text her and just say hi. After about 4-5 messages back and forth, suggest plans for the next hangout. If she is still into you, she'll say yes or suggest an alternate night. If she's lukewarm, go radio silent and move on. She'll come back to you at some point if she heats up again. Otherwise, you're wasting your time and lowering her perception of your value with every additional text.