Post: #1

Background story

Anyway, so I didn't chill with these girls the same night, but they called me to go to the pool the next afternoon. I was a little cold (I hadn't approached anyone that day yet) and I happened to be at the pool. I was chilling there, and they (the 8 and the colombian 7) hugged me and just talked casually for a couple minutes. They were at both of my sides of the pool (I was at the middle) and they were too focused on twitter. I asked them a couple questions and I even told them about a funny story that happened to a friend of mine involving a tranny and they laughed. They weren't too focused on me at first, and I decided to ditch them. They were expecting one of their guy friends and his cousin (who later bailed rather quickly) I went to swim in the pool and chill there for a while. I started teasing them about anything that I could find, and I got a couple of good responses. I kept touching and chilling with them, but for some reason I just saw them not as interested as the last time. I was ignored 70% up to this point. I went to the bathroom and I told myself to my stuff together and not let them see me as a friend. After some oportunity, the 7 said she had dimples on her ass like shakira and I asked if she had a weird fantasy with her, and playfully smaked her ass. She was receptive and did not mind at all. I smacked the ass of the other one to get her attention and she just let me. Everytime i would call them, I would just smack their ass or just tell them to come to me. I would order them around, telling them to take a picture with me or pass me something. Afterwards, I undid the bun of the the 8's head, she let me, and I looked at her and said she looked more feminine and sexy with her hair down. Later she would be tanning, and she asked me to play her hair. I would pull it from time to time and she said if I liked to pull hair, I said "you have no idea", she would giggle. After a while, I would be talking about what kind of drunk they are and I assumed for all intends purposes I said you look like the crying drunk and you are the crazy drunk. They would laugh and say nah, so I would change my mind and said she was the horny drunk and her the annoying drunk. The one I said was the horny drunk did not deny it. The one I was pulling the hair from said I look like the horny drunk, and I told her to shut up and smacked her ass, she laughed. Towards the end though, they kept talking and the conversation kind of died down. I was left out of the conversation for a while and I just gather my stuff and the 8 asked "you're leaving now?" I didn't answer, so she said "ok bye". At the end, they weren't as enthusiastic as I like them to be. I kissed in the cheek the 7 one and the 8 said she wasn't a cheek kisser (she's half chinese half american) but I kissed her bye anyway, made fun of her being gringa and slapped her ass with my shirt. I left, but came back with her hair string, I made a motion as if I was going to hit her with it in the ass and she said "please, don't do it, I'm not going to be your friend anymore if you do" "I laughed and said "you're going to make a nice friend" she got up and took it, but I kinda moved around my hand to not give it to her. She quickly gave up and It just gave it to her. I left this time for real. Now, I don't know why, but I'm not 100% sure if they are dtf. My next step is to call the 8 to hang out, smoke with me and fuck her brains out. I'm comfortable with them, and I think I could fuck her but is there a way to be sure she's down? I think I can get the bang for the 8. What do you guys think?

Post: #2

Friend zone is, if you could do it comfortably with any of your guy friends without feeling gay, then its friend zone. If she's comfortable talking sexually with you and allowing you to smack her ass, its pretty clear that there's potential beyond friend zone.

Post: #3

Whenever you have to ask, yes, you are in the friendzone.

Post: #4

(02-16-2014 07:20 PM)germanico Wrote:  Whenever you have to ask, yes, you are in the friendzone.

Based on this, is the bang still possible?

Post: #5

If you have to ask...

Post: #6

The friend-zone only exists in your mind.

If you keep hanging out on your terms, which presumably include trying to get in her pants, then you're not in the friendzone no matter what she says. If she stops wanting to hang out on your terms then you don't hang out. The friend zone only happens when you stop pursuing a girl sexually but continue to hang out with her only because she asked you to stop pursuing her.

Post: #7

It's a lot easier to STAY out of the friend zone than it is to GET out of the friend zone. That said, watch this video for some insight. He lays it out brilliantly:

Post: #8

You guys are absolutely right, I'm only in the friendzone if I let it. I'm not letting it so far, and whether she's attracted to me or not, I'll push for bang. I don't want her as a friend, she'll be banged or I'l be rejected ,one of the two.

Post: #9

All getting friend-zoned is, is continuing to hang out with and be pleasant to a girl who has denied your sexual advances in no uncertain terms. Unless you're some kind of pussy who never even made a move to begin with.

Otherwise its just sex or rejection.

Post: #10

(02-16-2014 07:58 PM)Ensam Wrote:  The friend-zone only exists in your mind.

If you keep hanging out on your terms, which presumably include trying to get in her pants, then you're not in the friendzone no matter what she says. If she stops wanting to hang out on your terms then you don't hang out. The friend zone only happens when you stop pursuing a girl sexually but continue to hang out with her only because she asked you to stop pursuing her.

Probably the best and most succinct post concerning the friendzone that I've ever read. Bravo!