Post: #1

So I went to the planetarium for the lunar eclipse a few days ago and ran into this cute girl I had class with a couple of years ago. When we were in class together years ago, I asked her out but she flaked and then ignored me. That was before I started learning game and I was quite a bit heavier. When I saw her we both gave the "I know you from somewhere" look. An hour later I remembered who she was and approached. We made a bit of small talk, I remembered she was on the biking team and then I made a couple of mildly flirtations comments and DHV'd with a quick adventure travel story. During this 6-min convo, there was a guy standing next to her. He didn't say a DAMN thing other then "Hey my name is Beta-man" and just stood there and stared at me while I ran game on this girl.

A few days later I tracked her down on FB and friended her. Guess what? Thirty minutes later she accepted my friend request. She's "officially" in a relationship with this guy, but he's VERY beta and she is definitely out of his league looks-wise. I mean this dude looks like the offspring of a gazelle and heroine junkie. I was thinking about something funny and provocative I could send her as a message over FB that would get her out with me so I can bang her. Not really interested in LTR, mainly because I'm leaving the country for world travel in three weeks. What do you real playas think?

Post: #2

Interesting situation, I say go for it. Although im not really sure what you're going after... Do you just want to bang her or do you actually want to steal her from the beta dude?

Either way, just build rapport and attraction with her, same game basically. Gaming her over fb is nice and easy, after a while arrange meeting up to do something and escalate, if you've done well then go for the kiss. Good luck.

Post: #3

(12-24-2010 11:15 PM)FretDancer Wrote:  Interesting situation, I say go for it. Although im not really sure what you're going after... Do you just want to bang her or do you actually want to steal her from the beta dude?

Either way, just build rapport and attraction with her, same game basically. Gaming her over fb is nice and easy, after a while arrange meeting up to do something and escalate, if you've done well then go for the kiss. Good luck.

I want to bang her. Good and hard.

Post: #4

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I want to bang her. Good and hard.
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not to be disrespectful, but if he's got her and you're chasing--I'm not sure he's the beta...

Post: #5

I want to bang her. Good and hard.
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not to be disrespectful, but if he's got her and you're chasing--I'm not sure he's the beta...
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Perhaps, but the evidence seems to suggest otherwise. He stood there staring at his shoes while I gamed his girl for a good 5 min. Didn't say a word!

Post: #6

Say something to get her to come over, so you can bang her?

How old are you? 6?

What you CAN do is go off, have a good time on your own, doing your OWN thing. Ask her if she wants to tag along.

Post: #7

(12-25-2010 08:35 AM)Invictus Wrote:  Say something to get her to come over, so you can bang her?

How old are you? 6?

What you CAN do is go off, have a good time on your own, doing your OWN thing. Ask her if she wants to tag along.

Invictus, you've stated my standard routine but I thought some of the guys on this forum would have some tips above and beyond standard. That's why the forum exists.

Post: #8

Facebook is scary because when you added a girl as a friend in their she will think that your stalking her and that your not following your routine just because of her. I cant judge your life but im just telling you that IM's put you in the masses and it lowers your status when you want to flirt. It is easier to flirt with her without her boyfriend taking a notice when he is there since you said he is beta.You can touch her to places that her boyfriend would never have imagined. Sadly though my fingers are too tired to make me continue writing because trying to explain how to be discreed will take a life to write down

Post: #9

That's a classic hater move to talk shit on the way a dude looks that is with a girl you think is attractive.

Post: #10

Let's see. This guy did enough things right to get a relationship with this chick.

You're on a game website complaining about it.

Who's the real beta here?

Post: #11

Years ago my ex was out at the bar with a friend of hers, probably bitching about me, when a guy interjected himself into their conversation. The guy added my ex's friend to myspace and used her to add my ex. He then sent her messages, which she showed to me. They seemed pretty thinly veiled and a pathetic to pick her up. I then sent the guy my own message, informing him that I'd beat the fuck out of him if I ever saw him, and if he didn't knock this shit off I would go out of my way to find him. The messages stopped.

I'm not sure how that will help you, but hopefully the guy you're dealing with is as beta as you say!

Post: #12

(12-25-2010 03:20 AM)GrumpStar Wrote:  Perhaps, but the evidence seems to suggest otherwise. He stood there staring at his shoes while I gamed his girl for a good 5 min. Didn't say a word!

This proves nothing. When I see a poor dude trying to game my wife, this is exactly what I do - I keep it quiet, and enjoy the free show. I don't have insecurities, and I know he will fail, why not amuse myself? Sometime it gets really funny. The only thing which is hard is to control your laugh, but staring at my shoes really helps. Are you sure this is not a similar case?

Post: #13

(12-30-2010 03:52 AM)oldnemesis Wrote:  This proves nothing. When I see a poor dude trying to game my wife, this is exactly what I do - I keep it quiet, and enjoy the free show. I don't have insecurities, and I know he will fail, why not amuse myself? Sometime it gets really funny. The only thing which is hard is to control your laugh, but staring at my shoes really helps. Are you sure this is not a similar case?

True dat. Once a man shows his emotions, the battle is half lost. Women struggle to extract emotions from men because emotions are what women understand. Logic and dispassionate actions are generally, as complicated and confusing to a woman as Japanese literature is to an 18 year old farmer from Tennessee.

Post: #14

In grumpstar's defense, he was giving a succinct analysis according to his perceptions of the events. He probably would not call him beta unless he really thought so, and would not ask for advice unless he wanted to pursue her.

Let's not bash the guy for his analysis of events we didn't witness. Instead, let's do what this forum should be doing, giving good advice to accomplish the goals of said forum member.

That said, grumpstar, that is totally beta and you should work on girls that you think have potential to be banged in the short term, not "maybe" within a 3 week window if you overcome her bf.

If you have to just send her a short message and tell her you'd like to catch up before you take off abroad.

Post: #15

Some good insights here. I especially like oldnemesis' "I keep it quiet, and enjoy the free show". Perhaps that's what was happening, but he seemed especially nervous and my impression was that he wanted to be part of the conversation but didn't feel comfortable with the fire of my loin. Anyway, she's very good looking and I wanted to increase my chances of getting some face-time with this girl at some point in the near future.

On another note: Banged two girls today so far (one 6, one very solid 7.5). Now heading out to a house party to try for the hat-trick! Mixx's "So it must feel sad to be alone for the holidays" game is spectacular!

Post: #16

(12-30-2010 09:43 PM)GrumpStar Wrote:  Some good insights here. I especially like oldnemesis' "I keep it quiet, and enjoy the free show". Perhaps that's what was happening, but he seemed especially nervous and my impression was that he wanted to be part of the conversation but didn't feel comfortable with the fire of my loin. Anyway, she's very good looking and I wanted to increase my chances of getting some face-time with this girl at some point in the near future.

On another note: Banged two girls today so far (one 6, one very solid 7.5). Now heading out to a house party to try for the hat-trick! Mixx's "So it must feel sad to be alone for the holidays" game is spectacular!

Hat-trick fail. Now home alone. About to watch Skyline. Heard it was really bad, we'll see.

Post: #17

(12-30-2010 03:52 AM)oldnemesis Wrote:  

(12-25-2010 03:20 AM)GrumpStar Wrote:  Perhaps, but the evidence seems to suggest otherwise. He stood there staring at his shoes while I gamed his girl for a good 5 min. Didn't say a word!

This proves nothing. When I see a poor dude trying to game my wife, this is exactly what I do - I keep it quiet, and enjoy the free show. I don't have insecurities, and I know he will fail, why not amuse myself? Sometime it gets really funny. The only thing which is hard is to control your laugh, but staring at my shoes really helps. Are you sure this is not a similar case?

I'm with oldnemesis on this one. It truly is hard to hold in your laugh. You know as soon as this guy walks away your girl is going to turn to you and say, "did you hear that guy?" or mak some comment about his game. On a side note, listen to yourself grump. You said I tracked her down on FB. I, being the key word here. If you really wowed her with your "fire of a lion" or whatever you said, she would be tracking YOU down and setting up dates with YOU. To be honest man this girl is a lost cause and you should give up. Don't let her adding you in 30 minutes get to your ego thinking she likes you. She doesn't. I add people I've seen once in my life on FB in 5 minutes sometimes. It has no relevance. Make her pursue you all I gotta say.