(02-08-2014 07:17 PM)Gimlet Wrote: The wall awaits us all. This isn't a case of age discrimination as earlier suggested, it is merely what happens to every one who does not push himself to be bigger and better... men need to frame their game and keep changing it up. This dealer failed. End of story .
You're missing the point, as well as nuances, of this story. Some of the men of the old school persuasion, and by that here I mean those whose formative years happened in tremendously different era, are inherently unwilling by their own volition to follow the latest shit fad the current era is expecting them to. There are eternal artsy souls outthere, there always were throughout history, who march to the beat of their own drum and are happy with just doing what they love, all other markers of success, societal how-to be damned. Didn't you read the bolded part in the first post that this guy was following the twin principles of pleasure and joy?
Here's a larger quote from the
horse's mouth:
"Robert never had any career plan, his only guide being his thirst for music and the twin principles of pleasure and joy, and few people know his name and his place in the history of music. He has always preferred life in the wings and other shady areas to the 'bling bling' of the star system."
Once upon a time I'm sure he made comfortable living just being a session musician. It was a sweet spot for him, cool gigs, easy money doing what you love, no stress. But that was in different New York, different America, different world. With the advent of globalization, computer technologies, talent outsourcing, and destabilization and fragmentation of music industry, those gigs dried up. So he had to expand his reach to commercials, to movie music, and god knows what other few-and-far-in-between else. As late as 2008 he toured with Wyclef Jean, but with his advancing age that dried up too. It was no longer possible to live stress-free and cruise through on talent alone, jamming, smoking weed. Suddenly, life was all hustle, and very little play (where once it used to be all play, and very little hustle) And forgive me if I sound bitter, but I shit on places (and/or historical times) where massively talented and skilled artists of his caliber can't make even a basic living. If he moved to Berlin and Amsterdam I'm sure he would have been fine, but staying put in the New York City post Disneyfied Times Square and the advent of Internet (mid '90s) was the crucial detail in his undoing.
He just didn't know when to fold 'em.
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"On a warm summer's eve
On a train bound for nowhere
I met up with the gambler
We were both too tired to sleep
So we took turns a-starin'
Out the window at the darkness
The boredom overtook us, and he began to speak
He said, "Son, I've made my life
Out of readin' people's faces
Knowin' what the cards were
By the way they held their eyes
So if you don't mind my sayin'
I can see you're out of aces
For a taste of your whiskey
I'll give you some advice"
So I handed him my bottle
And he drank down my last swallow
Then he bummed a cigarette
And asked me for a light
And the night got deathly quiet
And his faced lost all expression
He said, "If you're gonna play the game, boy
You gotta learn to play it right
You've got to know when to hold 'em
Know when to fold 'em
Know when to walk away
Know when to run
You never count your money
When you're sittin' at the table
There'll be time enough for countin'
When the dealin's done
Now every gambler knows the secret to survivin'
Is knowin' what to throw away
And knowin' what to keep
'Cause every hand's a winner
And every hand's a loser
And the best that you can hope for
Is to die in your sleep"