Post: #1

I'm a little bit bigger than I want to be, but I'm working hard on this issue. Should I wait until I'm the size I want to be, or start dating now?

Post: #2

Start now bro; worse case is at least you'll get some practice In and improve your game while improving other aspects of your life, like your physical appearance and confidence. If we all waited until we were done with our personal development to start approaching then we would never approach because it's a life journey (in my opinion). One is never done improving themselves. Try working out and approaching while your muscles are sore because you'll know subconsciously that you are improving and the endorphins will help. Also, if you do pull chicks now it will negate the thoughts in your head that you have to be fit to have game further increasing your confidence. Have fun with it man. Afterall it's called game

Post: #3

I really liked that response SDG. If you can pull right now when you are not at your goal weight, then you will have so much more self-confidence when you achieve your weight goal.

Right now, when you workout, you need to do high rep sets. This will get you more cut and shred body fat. Also, focus on your diet...a six pack is earned in the kitchen.

Post: #4

A fat guy with solid game can fuck circles around a fit guy with no game, start learning now.

Post: #5

(02-02-2014 06:58 PM)SDGuerro Wrote:  If we all waited until we were done with our personal development to start approaching then we would never approach because it's a life journey (in my opinion).

Thank you for your reply.

I've highlighted the sentence above as it's really powerful. You should make it your signature.

Further to my previous question, would the same mantra apply for online dating? Do women rate the text over the pictures, or the other way round? Alternatively, is it a case that clothes makes the man?

Post: #6

Quote:Further to my previous question, would the same mantra apply for online dating? Do women rate the text over the pictures, or the other way round? Alternatively, is it a case that clothes makes the man?

In online dating, women are more shallow than they are in real life. Having a good profile provides cover for them because they have a pretense for contacting you that isn't purely about looks. I put some new pictures on my OKC profile recently that reflect my improved style, fitness, and finding a couple of people who can take good pictures of me. It's substantially increased both profile visits and messages from women. They always start with some version of "I don't normally send the first message, but your profile was so cool, I had to say hello." It's bullshit, of course, and I've been thinking about deleting almost everything in the profile other than the pictures just to see what kind of response I get then.

TL;DR:

But the bottom line in all this is *get the best pictures you possibly can of yourself, because women are shallow*

Post: #7

No problem bro, I'm speaking from experience and hindsight truly is 20/20...I've been in your shoes; id still like to lose more weight but I feel better than I did.
As for gaming, I just decided I don't wNt to regret anything else. I approached a group of three cuties and got politely rejected the other night and guess what- it felt great! I at least left knowing there was no regrets and no missed opportunities with them. I would've had more fun and more notches if I knew that earlier but fuck it... Move forward and don't look back.

As for online, I agree it's funny how superficial bitches are. Worse than us but at least we are up front about it! Don't focus on it just use it as a supplemental way to game and get a few numbers. It's almost harder because if you approach in real life you are separating yourself from the thousands of other guys who are too pussy to approach. Get the best pics possible and be witty, actually reading their post a little and have fun.

Post: #8

(02-02-2014 06:16 PM)eeneymeeney Wrote:  I'm a little bit bigger than I want to be, but I'm working hard on this issue. Should I wait until I'm the size I want to be, or start dating now?

I don't normally plug my blog directly too much here but I just addressed this exact topic.

http://badgerhut.wordpress.com/2014/01/1...-on-stage/
http://badgerhut.wordpress.com/2014/01/1...our-grasp/

Unless it's something like skydiving or boxing where you really don't want to go in under-skilled, never" wait until I get to X point" before you start going for what you really want. Especially with girls. I guarantee there are guys fatter than you dating chicks who love them, so get out there and see what you can find.