Post: #1

How often do you do this? I suppose this is more prominent through online meets (OKC, Tinder, etc...)

You talk about fucking via text. You decide to meet at a bar at first to ensure you're still attracted to each other... Then what?

Do you only have one drink and then bolt back to your/her place? Or do you treat it as a "normal" meet, but you know sex is guaranteed so you dont rush anything?

One time I did this.. I met the girl at the bar. We had one drink and I kept pressuring her to just leave. She did eventually, but she said "wow, you sure are in a hurry..." We did end up having sex, but Im afraid if I try it again I wont be so successfull...

Problem is , why not just meet directly at my/her place? But some INSIST on public meet first (bar for a drink, whatnot)

Post: #2

A lot of this was already discussed here /thread-28403....=zero+date

The general consensus was that if she did want to come over to your place for a drink/meal,etc she was not DTF and you should move on to another girl who would.

Post: #3

Whatever works to make each other comfortable.
Bar is ok, but why not just meet at a cafe, park, ice skating rink, or anywhere really. Meet up so you know she is boner worthy, and so she sees you as a confident person she can be comfortable with.

I'll schedule a meet at a fuckin mcdonalds, I just need to see that persons face and body, then I can eat some food, bounce her to a different venue/ my place, or if I don't like her, then I can easily make up some shit that I need to do after eating.

Or, I'll tell them to meet at a park nearby, because I want to test out some modifications to an RC car in the parking lot. I can see what she looks like, and she can see me at a hobby, and after I'm done "testing", then it's time to head back to my place so I can tweak the car some more.

It's all about just making shit up to do before you fuck, just to get comfortable with eachother.

Post: #4

(01-29-2014 09:59 PM)commiejoe Wrote:  Or, I'll tell them to meet at a park nearby, because I want to test out some modifications to an RC car in the parking lot. I can see what she looks like, and she can see me at a hobby, and after I'm done "testing", then it's time to head back to my place so I can tweak the car some more.

Haha, that's like straight out of The Tao of Steve. Great method. I've seen variations like gun ranges or piloting before, but this is really simple yet effective. I for one am often scribbling some poetry when meeting girls (if I arrive early rather than late as Game prescribes). It leads to a lot of intrigue and can be done anywhere, anytime, and the only tool needed is a piece of paper and a pen.