Post: #1

Saw a hot chick from Indonesia on DIA, messaged her and chatted for a couple hours over a couple days.

"There's something you don't know about me."

"Which is?"

"I'm Muslim and can only marry a Muslim"

Shit two hours wasted. I should have screened earlier.

"Why are you talking to a white guy from Northern California?
there's about a .01% I'm Muslim"

"I'm not asking anyone to convert. You're too judgmental"

So she's conflicted about her backwards, restrictive religion, doesn't list the religion on her profile on the dating site, and you're supposed to read her mind.

If yo want a LTR, Watch out for any chick from a Muslim country, they may know they don't want to live in the 9th Century, but don't have the nerve to go secular and thus waste time thrill seeking talking to modern men.

Post: #2

Dude, you just blew yourself out. Tell her "that's alright, we can meet up and still get to know each other".

Post: #3

(01-18-2014 01:01 PM)Fisto Wrote:  Dude, you just blew yourself out. Tell her "that's alright, we can meet up and still get to know each other".

Good point for people not looking for LTR.

I know you're right, but I'm not looking for bangs, looking for LTR and
I'm not going to fight with that kind of deep seated backwards shit.

Christianity is bad enough.

Post: #4

One of the girls I met in Indonesia would be my number one candidate by a huge margin if I were looking to marry. She is a Muslim, but we never talked about marriage.

Many of of those girls will only marry a Muslim, but they will happily take non-Muslim dick which is fine with me.

Post: #5

Pump'n dump. Yell Allah Akbar at the top of your lungs as you're banging her doggy style.

Post: #6

(01-18-2014 02:05 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  Yell Allah Akbar at the top of your lungs as you're banging her doggy style.

best statement I have read on this forum in a while.

Post: #7

(01-18-2014 01:03 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

(01-18-2014 01:01 PM)Fisto Wrote:  Dude, you just blew yourself out. Tell her "that's alright, we can meet up and still get to know each other".

Good point for people not looking for LTR.

I know you're right, but I'm not looking for bangs, looking for LTR and
I'm not going to fight with that kind of deep seated backwards shit.

Christianity is bad enough.

Don't screen for LTR fitness online.

Do that in person. Preferably after you have mounted them several times.

Post: #8

(01-18-2014 02:05 PM)Parlay44 Wrote:  Pump'n dump. Yell Allah Akbar at the top of your lungs as you're banging her doggy style.

I was banging this liberal girl in her condo and she said "Tell me you love fucking me!" (or something along those lines)

and I said "fucking you is like invading Iraq!"

This was right around the invasion.

Her reaction was priceless.

Post: #9

A Muslim girl would be more likely to be a virgin in a lot of places, or at least have a lower number, just because of the culture and the scrutiny of the family and the ummah. That keeps women in check, even though they are mostly like other women. My lifetime M count is 8.

It would be tough to live in that community with a wife from it, but if you moved her elsewhere, you'd be able to live as you want.

If you don't care about religion, you can be any religion.

Post: #10

There are quite a few Indonesian Muslim women who aren't against marrying a non-Muslim, so don't write them off completely.

If marriage is what you're looking for, you could do worse than a Muslim woman from one of these more liberal Muslim places.

One thing I like about a lot of Muslims is that, for the most part, they walk their talk. Unlike a lot of self-proclaimed Buddhists and Christians who are only religious in principle but not practice.

There are some interesting things about the religion and the cultures that follow it - I have respect for a lot of them.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #11

I've been there and done that. Stay away. Trust me.

Post: #12

"Who said anything about marriage doll?"

"Good cuz I already have 3 wives, can't hane another."

"All good. Doesn't your religion believe in multiple wives?"

"Perfect. I am too. Bring your mat and suck me off 5 times a day on your knees."

Post: #13

"Excellent. You're used to being on your knees at all times of the day. I think this could work."

Post: #14

(01-18-2014 03:05 PM)Sp5 Wrote:  If you don't care about religion, you can be any religion.

Exactly. I'm of this camp. I have a chick I met in Morocco that I skype with and this is an issue that comes up. She's Muslim, I'm not. But I just ignore the topic and she wants to see me again badly. If I choose to come back, I'll just take it as far as I can go and do a false convert if necessary. Whatever it takes to get the bang. That's a great story waiting to happen.

Post: #15

Alot of religion hate on here.So cool

Post: #16

(01-18-2014 01:27 PM)Brodiaga Wrote:  One of the girls I met in Indonesia would be my number one candidate by a huge margin if I were looking to marry. She is a Muslim, but we never talked about marriage.

Many of of those girls will only marry a Muslim, but they will happily take non-Muslim dick which is fine with me.

Exactly.

This sounds like the classic Prophecy Twist, e.g. Macbeth's "No man of woman born" or LoTR's "not by the hand of man will he fall."

She will only marry a muslim, but nothing has been said about her fucking non-muslims.

And even if she did say she didn't fuck non-muslims, we all know better than to take a girl's word at face value.

Post: #17

There are those who only marry from the same tribe, culture and religion what have you. But when they say can only marry, well many don't use the want to marry so and so. There are many debates on ths topic on youtube and Jews, Christians, Greeks, Italians etc etc etc etc take your pick all have men and women who want to be with one of their own. But Muslims take the cake when it comes to this sentence from a woman.

Islam has the distinction of the 3 religions mentioned as having its ok for a male to marry outside of the faith but its women can only marry a Muslim. Somehow I don't think GOD dictated that to Prophet Mohammed. The tradition stems from the fact that it wants to grow the religion and reign supreme from what I have concluded. It goes even further, certain Muslims don't marry others even if they are from the same branch. A Sunni Muslim from Saudi Arabia probably won't marry a Muslim from egyot who also is Sunni. It's more strict for the women from certain countries........I have lived in the Middle East for 2 years and have seen this played out.

Post: #18

(01-18-2014 05:41 PM)Kabal Wrote:  

(01-18-2014 01:27 PM)Brodiaga Wrote:  One of the girls I met in Indonesia would be my number one candidate by a huge margin if I were looking to marry. She is a Muslim, but we never talked about marriage.

Many of of those girls will only marry a Muslim, but they will happily take non-Muslim dick which is fine with me.

Exactly.

This sounds like the classic Prophecy Twist, e.g. Macbeth's "No man of woman born" or LoTR's "not by the hand of man will he fall."

She will only marry a muslim, but nothing has been said about her fucking non-muslims.

And even if she did say she didn't fuck non-muslims, we all know better than to take a girl's word at face value.

^^^^^^^^^
This mirrors my experience with Jewish women. Some will only marry Jewish men. Of course, before that they'll engage in the filthiest, most obscene, degrading sex acts known to mankind with Catholic boys (i.e. me).

But marriage to a non-Jew? NEVER. Marriage is just too pure and sacred!

Post: #19

(01-18-2014 03:49 PM)MidniteSpecial Wrote:  I've been there and done that. Stay away. Trust me.

Could you elaborate?

Married them, LTR'd them, or banged them?

Post: #20

(01-18-2014 02:49 PM)Hotwheels Wrote:  

(01-18-2014 01:03 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:  

(01-18-2014 01:01 PM)Fisto Wrote:  Dude, you just blew yourself out. Tell her "that's alright, we can meet up and still get to know each other".

Good point for people not looking for LTR.

I know you're right, but I'm not looking for bangs, looking for LTR and
I'm not going to fight with that kind of deep seated backwards shit.

Christianity is bad enough.

Don't screen for LTR fitness online.

Do that in person. Preferably after you have mounted them several times.

Certainly she needs to prove she can reliably keep you sexually satisfied, but there's some earlier, more basic screening we take for granted in more organized cultures that you can do first. Like can she remember you from one day to the next.

Can she sustain you in her mind long enough to agree to meet you, then follow through and SHOW UP after a reminder several weeks later. It's rarer then one might think.
I agree what can be screened for in advance is limited, but then I figure there's no downside, I couldn't write all the ripe 18 year olds in Philippines in 20 years, so there's no risk of alienating a significant number.

I believe there's actually been an upside:

I've realized how poor the philippines is, so many of the chicks actually ask for money, and even the sincere ones that don't ask for money, when they talk about their lives they can't avoid mentioning stuff that makes you realize the situation there. An iPhone sporting, arrogant chick is really hooking or is connected to money there totally unlike the US.

It seems less than 10% have good broadband int heir homes, I think the trunk out of the Philippines is actually pretty sucky, they're amazingly bad long-term planners.

A lot of them thank you after you call them, it's considered a pretty expensive thing to them , or they have better manners than Slavic chicks.

Also, a lot of them have bizarrely short time horizons or are basically liars, they are telling you how great you are one day and then completely stop contacting you/

As in any culture, however, there are exceptions, and some chicks just keep on writing and being sweet, they know you are their ticket to at least the lower middle class if you bring them to the USA.

I'm sure of what I think I know will be upset, but do think I have learned something by writing a lot of chicks.

Post: #21

(01-18-2014 03:05 PM)Sp5 Wrote:  A Muslim girl would be more likely to be a virgin in a lot of places, or at least have a lower number, just because of the culture and the scrutiny of the family and the ummah.

Doesn't apply so much to Indonesia. Girls are free to move about and associate with boys. I wouldn't be surprised if half of all high school girls aren't virgins.
I once heard about a college girl who would use her headscarf to lie on when getting fucked in the forest around Mt Merapi.

Anyway, my standard response to the "I'm Muslim" shit test is to start talking about the Arabic names I would consider taking if I converted, how their meanings apply or don't apply to me, etc. Always works to defuse the situation and take it in a fun direction.

Post: #22

(01-18-2014 10:38 PM)Rutting Elephant Wrote:  

(01-18-2014 03:05 PM)Sp5 Wrote:  A Muslim girl would be more likely to be a virgin in a lot of places, or at least have a lower number, just because of the culture and the scrutiny of the family and the ummah.

Doesn't apply so much to Indonesia. Girls are free to move about and associate with boys. I wouldn't be surprised if half of all high school girls aren't virgins.
I once heard about a college girl who would use her headscarf to lie on when getting fucked in the forest around Mt Merapi.

Anyway, my standard response to the "I'm Muslim" shit test is to start talking about the Arabic names I would consider taking if I converted, how their meanings apply or don't apply to me, etc. Always works to defuse the situation and take it in a fun direction.

Didn't know there was ambiguity on this front on this board, but Indonesian girls being free-wheeling confirmed.

Post: #23

I'd marry a religious freak over the average American slut.

Post: #24

(01-18-2014 12:59 PM)iknowexactly Wrote:  Saw a hot chick from Indonesia on DIA, messaged her and chatted for a couple hours over a couple days.


"I'm Muslim and can only marry a Muslim"

"I don't plan on getting married to you"

Post: #25

She blew up your chances at a hookup.
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Couldn't resist, sorry.

Seriously: I've heard a lot of shit from Muslim girls about staying virgin, etc.- comes more from Shia muslims in my experience. Those who are deeply religious probably won't take kindly to the "player" lifestyle.