Post: #1

Whenever im running game on girls on or offline they keep saying im too young for them. I turn 21 pretty soon and I tell them I am 23 or 24.

I tell them: "I know, you're afraid I have too much energy for you " but it never works.

Any ideas?

Post: #2

(01-15-2014 04:31 AM)Every10GivesMeA10 Wrote:  Whenever im running game on girls on or offline they keep saying im too young for them. I turn 21 pretty soon and I tell them I am 23 or 24.

I tell them: "I know, you're afraid I have too much energy for you " but it never works.

Any ideas?

Ignore it if you're not sure what to say. That's the type of shit tests that get you hard into her frame. But sometimes there are cocky solutions.

Responses that kinda worked for me (in my language, adjust them for your if necessary to achieve better impact):

"Don't worry, I won't make fun of your retirement"
"I keep hearing that line from my friend's grandma. Maybe you play chess on Thursdays with her?"
"Don't be so harsh on yourself, 35 is considered young today for a woman"
"Last time I heard that was from my MILF stalker. You're not like that, right?"

Last one can be tricky, but also good if delivered with faked mix of amused surprise and worry, you risk going further into topic but you can tell a story about an older woman stalking you. Compare the stalker to Samantha from SatC, she'll immediately express her opinion on her, all girls immediately do it, no exceptions. If it's good, she's there to find ONS.

Post: #3

"We're both adults, so what's the problem?"

Post: #4

Sorry to tell you but being too young for a woman who is 25 is a real thing.

its like a 45 year old woman being too old for me at 38.

my advice to you is to just forget about it and plow but realize that your day will come later. work hard now on life, get in and stay in shape, get your finances together, get everything on the right trajectory so that when you do get some more experience under your belt you will be on your A+ game.

Post: #5

Maybe you should be fucking 18-20 year olds instead? (The horror!)

Post: #6

Maybe you're right. You probably couldn't keep up anyways.

Post: #7

(01-15-2014 07:38 PM)scorpion Wrote:  Maybe you should be fucking 18-20 year olds instead? (The horror!)

for some reason these girls are extremely childish when i talk to them. they do not respond well to the things i say. i'll practice more on these age groups though.

Post: #8

I think it's also about the image you project as well. I can go from extremely light and silly humor(usually random stoner humor or plain random stupidity) to dark humor(of the crueler variety). I think coming off as a bit more mature or if they act a bit childish looking at them with a disgruntled face. Just act as if you are older and are more mature than them(which you most likely you are. I mean lets be real) One of the things I've noticed as a "baby" 18 year old.

Post: #9

I'm not sure I've ever given a girl my exact age. I'd usually say something like "in my 20's" or nowadays, "thirty-something" and just let them fill in the blanks however they want.

The thing about this, is that they'll probably assume you're in the higher-end of these age brackets, since when women give vague answers like this, it's to avoid seeming too old.

Post: #10

I go a step further and ask them to guess my age. Then just say +/- 1 or 2 from what their guess was. Builds some rapport and they feel that I'm fun guy to talk to.

Post: #11

Yeah, lately I've been trying to chase older women 21-25. Always get the your too young for me, but I'm 17. I usually say I'm 19, any other ideas? What did you guys do when you were in this situation.

Post: #12

Clearly didn't read much of the above responses,
. Nevermind.

Post: #13

One thing I wish I could've said to this one chick past summer....."but I'm old enough to know your hair is too short and that you shouldn't be wearing flats." Ironically..I kept the convo going as she was interested, but I never mentioned my real # of years when we were the same age...

Post: #14

Have you read bang? Roosh covers this exact situation in the book I believe. It's better to preemptively joke about disqualifying them, 'sorry you're much too old for me', or 'oh good God, you're that young!'. If you have a good vibe going with the Girl she'll stick around and try and prove herself to you.

Post: #15

Yeah you could preemptively disqualify the girl in any number of ways, which will work to varying degrees of success. I used to like saying, "awww, poor you."

However, the problem with cocky/funny lines like that is that they persist with the central theme of the girl's objection to fucking you; that is, she's saying to herself "I can't fuck him, he's way too young for me," and regardless of how nonchalantly you play it off, you validate that frame by playing along with it.

It's better to just assume that any sort of objection like that is obviously crazy and ask yourself what's wrong with her whenever a girl has some weird idea that concerns your age and her age.

But mainly, I would just lie about my age if I were 20 and people were mistaking me for 23-24. Just go for it, trust me nobody calls you on it.

Post: #16

If she's established the frame then it's not preemptive. There's no harm in saying to a girl first that she's too old, or too young. It is just another natural conversation thread you can work a bit of funny breezy chat into.

If she says you're too young or too old first time you need to deal with it, at that point saying she's too old/too young is just accepting her frame like you said. I'd be tempted to agree and amplify, ignore the comment, or check it immediately. The worst thing you can do is tell her what age you are directly, or try and validate yourself by disagreeing with her directly. I rarely get asked what age I am, if I do then Roosh's 'guess' is a fine response, or I go all out and pay 'I'm crazy old, probably the oldest person here'. Asking her how old she is and then saying 'damn, I hope you like older men' is a nice piece of flirtatious chat. Especially since all girls like older men. Comforting her as if you're convincing her that you don't have an issue with her age is also good, 'don't worry, I'm sure your experience will more that make up for my youthful exuberance' is good and light too. Most of these are variations of things Roosh has written before.

Post: #17

The next time i run into this, I will say: "It's okay, age is all in your mind. I discovered that recently when i drank mojito mix 5 years past expiration date"