Post: #1

How do you guys go about gaming girls with interests? The majority of girls I've met are into their friends, going out, having fun and watching Glee. Though obviously, you have your athletic girls, your artsy girls and others. Does this have any influence on what you think about the girl, or your approach with them? I've always told my friends that guys don't care about what a girls into as long as she's attractive. I don't have some kind of preference between girls who are into horses or old historical murders.

For instance, a girl's like "yeah I'm really into hip-hop dancing" as a white girl. Do you pretend to care or what?

btw, not an advice thread. Just curious to see everyones opinions.

Post: #2

Personally it doesn't affect me much.

If a girl said "I'm into hip-hop dancing" I might talk to her about artists, since I'm into hip-hop, but I wouldn't switch gears and try and be all about hip-hop dancing.

I like reading, if a girl likes it too we can talk books. However, that doesn't mean that I'm going to pretend that I like what she reads.

I also usually tease them a little bit about their hobbies. Nothing rude, but I'll throw out some jokes.

Post: #3

I met a girl online a couple weeks ago. 5'10, brunette, nice body, face, etc. She could've been an 8, but her laziness and age made her a 6 at best. She was 28.

Took her out Sunday night for Mexican. She lives at home, Grad school at state college, Sociology. Can't afford to travel, is living off of student loans, and has a bitchy personality.

I'm a high energy, achiever type of person, with interests in everything, especially how other people live and get through their shitty lives. I come off as a good listener I guess.

It's apparent to me that we have nothing in common really, so I start acting really goofy and become super playful. I told a few off-color jokes, took all of her legroom, and tried to grab her leg under the table. Stuff like that.

I would say, if you are attracted to her physically, make the nice fun. Play around with her and see how she responds. Go straight for the make-out after the date and be aggressive.

The Thursday after the Sunday date, I invited myself over to her parents house to "Drink some wine." After about 30 minutes we were making out. She ended up blowing me because of the dreaded period. If it were a weekend, I would've smashed.

I don't think I'll call her again. She made me wait 25 minutes outside her house before she came out to get me. And, hanging out with her is just a waste of my energy. I need to direct my energy towards more constructive outlets.

Post: #4

I usually prefer somewhat "relating" with the girl.
Hobbies, interests, academia, business...
It doesn't really matter what exactly.

It just helps the flow of conversation.... and if it happens you know a lot about her favorite past time, her eyes will glow, and her pussy will moisten.

Post: #5

If her interests include sucking my cock then I'm good.

Most girls 18-23yo are wrapped up in their shallow worlds.

I don't expect high intellect and I don't expect deep conversation. That's what my buddies are for.

If a girl has her shit together and is above average intelligence, then they start to have concrete interests and the ability for in-depth conversations around 24 or 25+. (In my experience)

I don't hang out at the library though, so maybe there are brilliant girls who are dying for in depth talks regarding international economics hiding nearby.

Post: #6

All the same to me, really. What is important is that she doesn't have an inflated ego and thinks that she is suddenly some kind of intellectual for reading Paulo Coelho instead of Twilight. No, dear girl, you just exchanged one source of hamster fuel for another.

The most educated and smart chick I've ever talked to was humble about it, just like most decent people in that lieu should be.

Post: #7

I dated a girl who was a yoga instructor and had an active interest in astrology and mysticism. First time she told me about her interests I thought I'm dealing with a crazy and unstable girl who was just good for fucking but she turned out to be relatively good in applying her interest into real world. To translate, she was interesting and unique in her worldview. Her only fault and the reason i never got serious with her was that she was really scared of death and she sometimes used to get depressed and call me just to fuck her so she can feel better (she called it "If I have sex with a man I love then I get this evolutionary fix that my genes will be passed on and I'll live forever").

Post: #8

I prefer we have something in common to talk about, but at least require she be smart. Dumb ones forget to take their birth control or put in their NuvaRing.

Post: #9

I enjoy women with common interests. for obvious reasons.

but I really enjoy linking up with a broad that is different than me on a lot of levels. experiencing someone you're not familiar with. all things are new.

Post: #10

(01-14-2014 12:40 AM)dads Wrote:  btw, not an advice thread. Just curious to see everyones opinions.

What's the difference between advice and opinions anyways?

What a girl is interested in is very telling about who they are inside. The most important thing for a long lasting relationship isn't really in sharing common interests so much, but rather in sharing common ideals.

Post: #11

Chicks with hobbies and avocations?

Usually once I find out she does something
- ask her about it
- how she started
- where she does it
- who she does it with

and
- how does it make her feel.

It always helps when I know something, or want to know something, but even when it's something like macrame or Ayurvedic Yoga - how she talks about this thing that she loves to do is a look into her character. So even if it's some bullshit that she's into, I'm interested in *how* she answers my questions, not *what* she actually says.

I know game is all about face, body, and sex skills...but I have a lot less headaches if I delve a few levels deeper into a chicks head.

WIA