Post: #26

Hey Wavy, don't get discouraged.

You're slowly starting to open your eyes to the nature of the lizards we crave so badly. I started going through a similar transition at your age (i'm only 24 too).

Sometimes it is best to step away from women and do other things. I had to do that for awhile. It's an excellent way to center yourself.

As for talking to women, i don't really care about what they have to say. In fact, i'm always looking for ways to gently tease them. Remember how you used to treat girls before puberty? I was a RAGING flirt when i was a kid. Puberty screwed it up, but i've been doing my best to get back to the days I used to know how to talk to girls.

That may help you in your quest.

Post: #27

(12-31-2013 11:25 AM)frenchie Wrote:  Hey Wavy, don't get discouraged.

You're slowly starting to open your eyes to the nature of the lizards we crave so badly. I started going through a similar transition at your age (i'm only 24 too).

Sometimes it is best to step away from women and do other things. I had to do that for awhile. It's an excellent way to center yourself.

As for talking to women, i don't really care about what they have to say. In fact, i'm always looking for ways to gently tease them. Remember how you used to treat girls before puberty? I was a RAGING flirt when i was a kid. Puberty screwed it up, but i've been doing my best to get back to the days I used to know how to talk to girls.

That may help you in your quest.

Ditto, I spent most of grad school single and putting women on the back burner. I was able after a lot of work to find my sense of mission, which itself has gotten me way further with gals in the long run than spending those days gaming would have.

Post: #28

(12-29-2013 10:59 AM)Wavy Wrote:  I appreciate all the advice. I am gonna buy bang and really study the hell out of it.

Dont wanna get into the details, but like I said I got caught up over some girl who I didnt get the chance to smash. So last night I brought some rando 4 or 5 chick home and had a one night stand to see if it would make me feel better. It kinda does...but she wasnt of great quality.

Practice makes perfect.

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To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling