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How to turn a stranger into a friend with 5 questions.
12-17-2013 02:59 AM
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RE: How to turn a stranger into a friend with 5 questions.
I would save some of those questions, "when was the last time you cried in front of someone else" or "-If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?" for the 4th or 5th date. But most of that is sound.

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12-17-2013 03:14 AM
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RE: How to turn a stranger into a friend with 5 questions.
12-17-2013 04:59 AM
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RE: How to turn a stranger into a friend with 5 questions.
These questions are going to get girls in their minds thinking about things that make them insecure.

"What is your greatest life accomplishment?" - this is the kind of shit that starts girls thinking about what they are doing with their life and all this mental shit that is the opposite of having a good time.

I think it's better to roleplay with them about positive exciting fun things, like planning a trip together, or where you guys are going to start your farm, or build your castle, take over an island, or go camping, etc.
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12-17-2013 05:42 AM
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RE: How to turn a stranger into a friend with 5 questions.
In terms of Game, I've seen lists in various places about questions to ask on dates, meeting for first time, etc.

What a lot of beginners don't understand is that often times it's not the content of the question itself that results in a blank/uncomfortable response.

It's the abruptness, formality, or irrelevant segue into that question that makes it seem suspect or unnatural.

This can also kill the mood or make the girl feel like she's in a job interview or therapy session.

For example, most Red Pill men would agree that a girl's relationship with her father can have a significant impact on how she deals with men. But you can't just throw out a question like that most of the time.

Establish some commonalities first in terms of discussing each other's families, maybe a funny story involving a relative, then ask about siblings, parents, etc.

While I'm on the topic, a fun way to go about this, is to guess what order she was born in terms of her siblings (i.e. first born, middle, etc.)

With a bit of psychology knowledge (or experience for those with siblings) you can definitely guess correct more than chance.

Then she'll wanna guess too.

Which brings me to another big underlying current of Game.

Always turn the mundane into a game if possible. It'll be more fun for both parties.
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12-17-2013 09:39 AM
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RE: How to turn a stranger into a friend with 5 questions.
You really have to embedd this kind of question in a lot of fluff to make it work or it's going to sound like you start interviewing.
12-17-2013 09:55 AM
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RE: How to turn a stranger into a friend with 5 questions.
I'd never ask someone I don't already know intimate shit like this because:
1. I don't care about the answer unless I know them well.
2. They're gayly-worded questions. Do you work in HR?
12-17-2013 09:56 AM
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RE: How to turn a stranger into a friend with 5 questions.
in my experience... this can work through text.. because it's like a homework assignment for her (an interesting one). she'll have time to think (lie blah blah blah). therefore she'll have a bit more fun with it and she'll like your "creative" questions and will say to you "I've never been asked anything like that before"

Especially if you've gotten this bitch from online. she'll feel like you all have been building a "relationship" by the first date (you can ask her one question a day up until the date)...

Should be easier to fuck come first date... it's worked for me in the past....

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12-17-2013 11:19 AM
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RE: How to turn a stranger into a friend with 5 questions.
100 Ways to Break the Ice is a good one:

http://dangerandplay.com/2013/02/21/100-...k-the-ice/
12-17-2013 12:31 PM
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RE: How to turn a stranger into a friend with 5 questions.
I agree.

I also think this worked because people were stuck in a room and obviously knew they were a part of an experiment. So it was for 'fun'.

But interesting none the less.

I've never asked any of those questions.

Think I'm gonna try one or two here and there after forth or fifth date like mentioned. Would be great to go into a story about the topic after asking one of those a questions. Or into a cold read. Especially after receiving a short lived answer. Which may be the case.

Either way these work better than: how's the weather there? Etc etc.
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