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How open are you with your player lifestyle?
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How open are you with your player lifestyle?
Do you talk about your exploits with close friends, that one girl you fucked, all the crazy shit you did with her, etc.

How about when it comes to the girls you're dating, do you talk to your friends about your relationships, your harem, shit you guys do, how you feel about them etc.

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12-17-2013 12:23 AM
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RE: How open are you with your player lifestyle?
If you're fucking girls in your social circle you should never run your mouth about it. You could poison the well and cost yourself both friends and future pussy.

Having said that, I'll talk to anyone who'll listen. I make it my mission to keep pussy and friends separate. So I can tell my people all about what I do because the closest they're ever going to get to her is fuck pics.

As for girls, you never tell them what you're about until AFTER you get the pussy. Then it becomes great psychological leverage because they don't want to feel "used". They want to feel like they're special and not "just another one". It makes the door that much more powerful a weapon.
(This post was last modified: 12-17-2013 01:12 AM by Shotgun Styles.)
12-17-2013 01:10 AM
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RE: How open are you with your player lifestyle?
I actually hold back a lot. The only people that know are really other guys that are into game to the same degree, even with my close friends ill rather play it off by acting like its common sense or it's in me, especially when they see me talking to girls.
I never mention game or the study of it, although my my friends are either blue pill or naturals.
12-17-2013 01:24 AM
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RE: How open are you with your player lifestyle?
I don't advertise it, but I don't hide it.
12-17-2013 04:27 AM
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RE: How open are you with your player lifestyle?
I go with the "loose lips sink ships" approach. I've been burned before and don't plan on having it happen again.

My goal is not really to be Don Juan or some other completely flamboyant pussy slayer. I aim to be one of the guys that women KNOW is getting laid, but not because he has to outright say it or admit to it freely.

I have some friends that are red pill (without probably ever studying game) and I'll share with them, but only the ones I really trust and it's always swapping stories for entertainment. Sometimes I do ask for advice and give some advice back at times.

There are only maybe 2 or 3 women that I would ever discuss this type of stuff openly with because they by and large have no understanding or they would hamster freak out. I've found that I'd rather a woman have doubts or think I'm mysterious than open my mouth and remove all doubt.

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12-17-2013 04:11 PM
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RE: How open are you with your player lifestyle?
How would you be open about trying to fuck a lot? Every guy wants to fuck a lot. You can go around looking for excuses to talk about the last time you got laid. But the type of person who does that probably doesn't get laid because nobody fucking cares about your sex life. People might assume you fuck a lot, but not many people will ask you about it.

Even with friends, am I gonna be like, "I fucked the hottest chick last night?" No, because nobody fucking cares. He'd rather hear about how my 6'2'' 300lb ginger boss tried to rape me in a doctor's office when I was 17 and I escaped her clutches. Because that's an amusing story and me fucking some 8 is not.

Perception is weird. In high school, everyone thought I got laid a lot. I sold drugs and never went to class and shit like that. I wore trendy hip hop shit, acted like an asshole, etc. I had sex with like 3 girls total over those 3.5 years.

For the past 4 years or so, after graduating, I've never really been without a girl to fuck. I'm no player, but I can get laid pretty easily. I have a really minimalist style and don't act like a dick anymore. I'm a lot more laid-back. But I don't think anybody sees me as someone who gets laid a lot now.
12-17-2013 04:27 PM
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RE: How open are you with your player lifestyle?
The only person that I tell my exploits to is my red pill friend, who managed to arrange a gangbang on a MILF back when we were in high school lol. If he managed to pull that off I'm sure he's a red pill guy without jumping into the manosphere.
12-17-2013 04:47 PM
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RE: How open are you with your player lifestyle?
I try to show, not tell.

If they find out, they do so by circumstance or coincidence.

If I have a really red pill friend, we will lament together of our exploits and failures, but guys like that are very rare. Ive had friends act all red pill and then let the circle/girls I was talking to know about my "mindset". Fuck them.
12-17-2013 04:53 PM
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RE: How open are you with your player lifestyle?
I don't advertise but don't deny.

Those who see me enough get the drill. Of course, my girl friends are more comfortable with it than my guy friends.

Here's a truth on the true nature of women: I banged the sister of one of my good girl friends. We ended up dating briefly and I dumped her. The whole process was amicable nonetheless. However, when I go out with my good friend now, she makes it a point to throw her friends in my direction. After I pumped and dumped her sister. Go figure.
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12-17-2013 05:02 PM
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