Post: #1

Hey Hey, it's a new year and a new Russian girl has entered my life.

Backstory.

I was looking for flats. I recently got a nice new job and I decided to upgrade the crib, so I was looking for something in top neighbourhood with a lot of style.

I was looking through several real estate agencies and got to look around 15-20 flats. I was usually meeting some old fat ladys or old men, but one day I was waiting in front of the flat and this beautiful girl just extends her hand and presents herself as the real estate agent.

She showed me the flat but we just wouldn't stopped having a very intense eye contact, I was getting erections on site and wondering if that was a sort of sales technique. Luckily I don't fall into that, specially when I have to sign for a flat that is going to be the future of a lot more pussy.

Anyways, talking I found out she was Russian and that we had a lot of stuff in common, I talked about having my own business and selling it to a bigger fish and get now more financial support to fulfil my projects, as subtle as I could just to leave the hamster working a bit.

After the two flats she showed me I went to see another one with another agency which is now my new flat.

Some time passed after that day, the moving and some health issues (Kidney Stone, and stabbing myself in the foot) now after finishing up the recovery I added her on facebook where we had the following conversation....


Conversation started Thursday

12/12, 11:00am
Me
Good Morning Russian Chick, how are you? I hope you remember from the visit to that flat and talking about my Ukranian grandmother.
The reason I added you on facebook is that I was wondering if you could help me with some advice on asking a Russian girl out for a coffee.
Hope you have a nice day,


Thursday
Russian Chick
hello, i remember you, of course ...just ask her in the way you will ask the girl you like.

Me:
Oh, thanks, so, would you like to go out for coffee with me?
Russian Chick
12/12, 5:00pm
Russian Chick
o..thanks
but
i would like to go out for glühwine (a hot wine that you drink in christmas markets in europe) with you
for exemple

Me:
that might be dangerous, but i accept

Russian Chick
thanks for warning..ok, then coffe
coffee

Me:ok, but then again if it gets boring we go for gluhwein, i can pick you up after work if you like

Russian Chick: i don´t think you are boring. next week may be? my mob. is XXXXXXXXXX

So... I know from experience Russian chicks are a flaky and very sneaky bunch always shit testing and looking for the best male around. I believe I got ahead somehow using my wits, but now I am not entirely sure on how to proceed. Because I texted her my number and she didn't text back, and I feel she want's to be in control of the situation all the time, which of course is very hard to invert online.

How should I proceed?
One direction I'm thinking about is that I should text her something like "Hey I'm sorry but I can't believe I have to wait until next week to see you, life's too short"

Another direction is completely ignore her and text here by the end of the week, sort of.... yeah whatever....

But let's see... Any comments are welcome.
Best,
VUBBS.

Post: #2

Ahhhh, Russian chicks..... so refreshing after a western girl who would have already told you not to contact her again because you implied that you were boring.

Given that she has agreed to go out with you and gave you her number after some... well, mediocre game ("help with asking out a Russian girl?" come on...), I think you're doing well and shouldn't engage in additional flirting or any hot-cold maneuvers. Just call her on Sunday and arrange a date for Tuesday or somesuch. If the contacts you in the meantime, be warm and receptive but don't trip over yourself. Obey the famous 2/3rds rule.

I repeat, you go this far with her despite a few mistakes, don't fuck it up by trying to "improve your chances" while you wait. Just my 2cc.

p.s. can't wait to meet some Russian chicks, being able to relax and actually do some Betaish stuff without getting stung seems alluring.

Post: #3

Thanks, yes, my plan was to call her after we've met, but as I told you before I had other issues that required all my energy to recover (and I am sill recovering). -Having a Kidney Stone is no fun, getting stabbed in the feet either, and walking like dr. house might not be the most uplifting experience for your self esteem.

I think I got lucky and went for that subtle mediocre approach as not to sound too creepy after all that time went through.

Thanks again for the advice.

Post: #4

Just proceed on schedule and your chances are good. Don't ruin it by trying to fish for compliments in the meantime or acting unnaturally cold to "gain hand". Keep everything in moderation and I can see this going well for you. Good luck