Post: #1

I'm 21 and I've been seeing college girls mostly. Met an 18-year-old who's still in HS. She seems really interested and we already talked for a while.

I normally just take girls to the bar. She doesn't have school this week and wants to hang out during the day and asked me where we should meet. She seems to want to go to the mall, but that seems like a dead end to me. This is in Chicago.

Thoughts?

Post: #2

Theres a great thread on this here: /thread-14667.html

Post: #3

(11-25-2013 06:23 PM)Nascimento Wrote:  Theres a great thread on this here: /thread-14667.html

Good shit, thanks man. Very relevant to me.

So we're going to the mall. We'll grab some food and walk around, make fun of people, whatever. I'm staying in the burbs for a few more months though and she's in the city, so getting her back may be a bit harder than I'd like. But I think it'll be fine. I'm pretty good at filling time with bullshit, inhibition-lowering banter.

Post: #4

^ That's a great thread.

I like taking girls to the park by my house, walk around for a little, find a nice spot to lay down and talk.

then take her to grab some frozen yogurt or a smoothie (something like that) - as long as you keep it moving, change activities, and flirt and joke along the way, you'll be alright.

I've tried just going to chill in the park or just grab coffee, but when you only do 1 activity, it gets kinda boring/plain and it lessens your chance of building comfort with her.

If you know she's a slut or DTF then just invite her over for a movie or to chill and listen to music, but otherwise you'll need to take her on a few activities first to warm her up.

Of course at the end you should make your way back to your place and make it seem that chilling at your place would be the most casual/normal thing in the world

…your mall scenario should be ok - just try to throw in something else you can do before and/or after, so that chilling at the mall isn't the only thing you guys do.

Post: #5

(11-25-2013 07:21 PM)Spider Wrote:  ^ That's a great thread.

I like taking girls to the park by my house, walk around for a little, find a nice spot to lay down and talk.

then take her to grab some frozen yogurt or a smoothie (something like that) - as long as you keep it moving, change activities, and flirt and joke along the way, you'll be alright.

I've tried just going to chill in the park or just grab coffee, but when you only do 1 activity, it gets kinda boring/plain and it lessens your chance of building comfort with her.

If you know she's a slut or DTF then just invite her over for a movie or to chill and listen to music, but otherwise you'll need to take her on a few activities first to warm her up.

Of course at the end you should make your way back to your place and make it seem that chilling at your place would be the most casual/normal thing in the world

…your mall scenario should be ok - just try to throw in something else you can do before and/or after, so that chilling at the mall isn't the only thing you guys do.

Good call. I'll try to think of a midway point. Is the midway point being geographically between your place and hers that important, or just that you do a supplemental activity?

Because in my case, it's:
(ME)____20_min_of_Highway____(City filled with girls and shit to do)

Post: #6

(11-25-2013 07:21 PM)Spider Wrote:  I like taking girls to the park by my house, walk around for a little, find a nice spot to lay down and talk.

then take her to grab some frozen yogurt or a smoothie (something like that) - as long as you keep it moving, change activities, and flirt and joke along the way, you'll be alright.

i prefer these kind of dates to going to the bar and getting a drink anyway

Post: #7

(11-25-2013 07:38 PM)Pyre Wrote:  

(11-25-2013 07:21 PM)Spider Wrote:  I like taking girls to the park by my house, walk around for a little, find a nice spot to lay down and talk.

then take her to grab some frozen yogurt or a smoothie (something like that) - as long as you keep it moving, change activities, and flirt and joke along the way, you'll be alright.

i prefer these kind of dates to going to the bar and getting a drink anyway

I do too, but it's 30 degrees outside!

Post: #8

In my country you can drink at 18 so if you ever come here take them to some bar and get them shitfaced, they just love to prove that they are mature and can handle it. Don't make them blackout drunk though, just tipsy enough to get relaxed.

Post: #9

Bro, Second City at North & Wells has free improv each night after the last paid performance. No minimum age there, it'll (probably) get her laughing, and there's no doorman at Corcoran's across the street. This was my go-to when I lived in Chicago.

Have fun!

Post: #10

(11-26-2013 04:31 PM)deuce Wrote:  Bro, Second City at North & Wells has free improv each night after the last paid performance. No minimum age there, it'll (probably) get her laughing, and there's no doorman at Corcoran's across the street. This was my go-to when I lived in Chicago.

Have fun!

Good shit, thanks man. I'll check it out. The schedule is confusing:

http://www.secondcity.com/performances/c...ndtickets/

What time are shows? All I can see is 8pm.

Know of any other good spots in Chicago?

Post: #11

If I recall correctly the free ones are usually 15 min or so after the last performance ends. I think the Second City FAQ page addresses it but I'm too lazy to look it up.

Improv Olympic in Wrigleyville was fun and easy to get drinks as well.

My intel on Chicago is admittedly dated, I moved away in 2008. To be honest, I don't have any ideas on non-drinking stuff to do there; I'm a strict adherent of the "juice 'em up and go" philosophy.

If anything pops to mind I'll let you know. Let us know how it goes.

Post: #12

Invite her to your house to smoke up.

Weed isn't bad; weed is good.

Post: #13

(11-26-2013 11:12 PM)ChocolateCockOfZeus Wrote:  Invite her to your house to smoke up.

Weed isn't bad; weed is good.

I quit smoking pot after many years. Gives me anxiety.

Post: #14

(11-27-2013 12:14 AM)Floss Wrote:  I quit smoking pot after many years. Gives me anxiety.

Happens to me often when I smoke a j. Have you tried cooking up some ganja butter then eating it instead, or smoking a sativa strain? The first gives a calm introspective high while the sativas give a high reminiscent of a good psychedelic trip.

Post: #15

(11-27-2013 12:49 AM)PoosyWrecker Wrote:  

(11-27-2013 12:14 AM)Floss Wrote:  I quit smoking pot after many years. Gives me anxiety.

Happens to me often when I smoke a j. Have you tried cooking up some ganja butter then eating it instead, or smoking a sativa strain? The first gives a calm introspective high while the sativas give a high reminiscent of a good psychedelic trip.

Tried it all. I sold pot for a few years and always had different strains. Cooked, vaped, whatever. I see pretty much no reason to be smoking pot anymore anyway. Drinking is way cheaper and way more fun. But I'm trying to live a healthier life overall anyway. Eating healthy, working out, and doing yoga. I also stopped jerking off and looking at porn. Feels pretty great.

Post: #16

Man that's good to hear! If you want to go healthier and cut down on the drinking try ghb and coke for no morning hangovers. GHB before taking your first drink of the night don't drink until after the comedown.

edit:
She covers most of the important stuff though I don't like that she mindlessly repeats the gov't propaganda about it being a 'date rape drug' but what do you expect from a broad.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tJnX99_L5ho

03:22 '...couple of other people' (probably dudes mostly)

04:15 most powerful aphrodisiac

05:10 similar to alcohol

Post: #17

(11-27-2013 01:53 AM)PoosyWrecker Wrote:  Man that's good to hear! If you want to go healthier and cut down on the drinking try ghb and coke for no morning hangovers. GHB before taking your first drink of the night don't drink until after the comedown.

edit:
She covers most of the important stuff though I don't like that she mindlessly repeats the gov't propaganda about it being a 'date rape drug' but what do you expect from a broad.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tJnX99_L5ho

03:22 '...couple of other people' (probably dudes mostly)

04:15 most powerful aphrodisiac

05:10 similar to alcohol

Thanks, dude. But I'm Ukrainian. I don't get hangovers. My ancestors were alcoholic potato farmers.
Meeting up with this girl in like 5 hours. I'll let you know how it goes.

Post: #18

Reporting live from the battlefront:
She's in the bathroom right now. Really cool girl. Getting along well. Down for anything. I took off her belt and started choking her and all she did was ask for a safe word. Good shit.

Post: #19

(11-25-2013 07:25 PM)Floss Wrote:  Because in my case, it's:
(ME)____20_min_of_Highway____(City filled with girls and shit to do)

You're concerned about 20 minutes of highway?...

Dude that's not far at all. When I hit the prime area of KC, it's 30 mins out. Now, logistically speaking, driving 20 minutes is a bit much, but it's for sure doable. Just have some good reason. If it's day two or w/e to watch a movie, or finding a good reason on the first day out. Just plan it ahead of time.

However, at that - +props for the good work there.