Post: #1

Sometimes I'll be talking to a girl at the bar and she'll say she has to go and use the bathroom or she's gonna get a drink at the bar. I always feel stupid waiting around for her especially if I'm in her circle of friends. Is this usually a blowoff, should I stick around and talk to her friends or just leave?

Post: #2

Open more sets

Post: #3

It's odd I know, but girls use the restroom to piss and shit too, just like men!

If you're nervous when she goes to the bathroom or to get a drink, then you have Inner Game issues that you need to resolve.

What you can do:

1. Game other girls while she's away
2. Access RVF on your smartphone
3. Be ok with sitting by yourself for 5 minutes.

A wise man once said, "Most of a man's problems are caused by his inability to sit in a room by himself".

Post: #4

Well my concern was whether her going to the bathroom was her way of blowing me off. But like u said, it's obvious that women have to use the bathroom. The situation happens once in awhile so I was just curious. My approach is in the hundreds, so I think I'm might at the point where I have to start experimenting on my own.

Post: #5

(11-16-2013 06:17 PM)Shadowarrior Wrote:  Well my concern was whether her going to the bathroom was her way of blowing me off. But like u said, it's obvious that women have to use the bathroom. The situation happens once in awhile so I was just curious. My approach is in the hundreds, so I think I'm might at the point where I have to start experimenting on my own.

Well, that would make sense then, because girls have to use the bathroom "once in awhile", right?

Post: #6

I guess this is very real concern for PUAs who would never buy girls drinks. I suppose it's a matter of shame in their circles when girls have to go potty since it implies she has been imbibing in your presence. An outside observer might believe you bought her a drink. The horror.

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On the other hand. Imagine this scenario. You're at a bar were you met a sizzling hot babe. You happen to be on a first name basis with the bartender. He's well tipped and trained so when you ask what she wants and she replies the bartender says "we're out of X today but I can make a Wet Kitty which is nearly the same thing and all the rage in Manhattan/Hollywood/Cannes/Zanesville right now". Y here happens to be 100 proof vodka with some caramel colouring.

So in 30 min and 2 drinks later she's really buzzed and ready to go. All of a sudden she leans over and whispers in your ear "I just have to go to the ladies room, then I'm coming back and screwing your brains out". So you have to sit there.

Is this beta?

Post: #7

I've encountered this many times. If she goes to the bathroom/bar and comes back, you're good. If she goes to the bathroom/bar and you don't see her again, it's bad. This is generally the scenario if you're staying in the same spot while she's gone. If you move to another area and she actively seeks you out, you're REALLY good with her.

Post: #8

I wouldn't worry about it so much in the future. I agree with what others wrote above. If you built enough attraction before she goes to the bathroom, then usually she'll find you. Just chill out and not look like some lost puppy waiting around for her to come back. There's always a chance a girl could flake, so start checking out other prospects. As far as if her friends are right around you, it's a toss up if you should engage them in much conversation. Usually I'd say no, but sometimes you can game their friends to be on your side so they'll be less likely to cock block you.

Post: #9

Depending on how well you've been getting on I usually see this as a good sigh, she's going to make herself look nice/clean her minge etc

Post: #10

Men use the bathroom to piss.

Women use the bathroom to:
1. Piss
2. Gossip
3. Powder their nose

Honestly unless you came there with her you shouldn't give a shit.
You're there to get laid. She's there to get free drinks and male attention.

It coulda been worse. She coulda pulled the watch my purse routine and left
you standing there while she wastes 20 minutes talking to friends along the way.