Post: #1

I hope this is not the wrong forum for the thread. Please c ut the newbie some slack if you need.

I’m thirty-something, an upper-middle class Brazilian, and a serial monogamist, who only rarely cheated. (Guilt about that seemed to fade away with the years). My current girlfriend is 26. Let me say, I don't think I ever dated any girl below a 7, which I credit to a natural assholery associated with a nice boy face, and not to any game skills (it was only after discovering 'game' that I began to scheme a little bit - with great results).

When I started having sex, somewhere in the middle of the 1990s, with girls about my age, I thought they were feminine, and they took long to demonstrate they were at ease, that they just enjoyed having sex. They seemed to be play for a long time the part of the poor girl who couldn't resist and only after a few weeks or months they would abandon their restraints. I’m not going to brag that I was a great lover, but only rarely I got direct requests for doing this or that.

Lesbianism was taboo. Now all girls have 1. at least kissed another girl, 2. if not that, they will openly admit lesbian crushes, and 3. apparently feel no repulsion for the idea of female homosexuality. While they may have gay male friends, they think a single homosexual relation would be grounds enough for dismissing any man as boyfriend material. Not that I ever had one; I just want to point out the double standard on homosexuality. It’s ok if girls do it, but disgusting if men who are trying to bang them had any contact with it.

Nowadays girls are becoming less feminine. They know exactly what they want in bed and have no problem asking for it directly, even on the first time. They seem to never be shocked by anything - or at least they never show it. They will admit to wanting threesomes and shun the idea of being a wife who takes proper care of the house. One of these girls (actually, now she’s 31) admitted to me her sexuality was ‘like a man’s’ (yes, her words). They *will not wait* for you to initiate sex.

What’s this? The Americanization of Brazil? The Americanization of every middle class in every part of the world?

Or is it just me getting old?

Post: #2

Girls then: Repressed their sexual openness because of societal pressure
Girls today: Expose their sexual openness because of societal pressure

Either way, girls are easily swayed by societal pressure, which is why extreme Feminism had such a damning effect on society (because the Feminist thinkers knew how to influence the female mind).

And I don't think it's an American influence, because I'm pretty sure Europeans were at the forefront of women's sexual liberation in the modern age.

This bashing the US for anything wrong with the world is getting really damn old!

Post: #3

Hey, man, no bashing of the US, really.

I could however be accused of joining the trend in game blogs of bashing of American girls. This is what I meant: that maybe the Americanization of girls everywhere has begun. After all, 'Sex and the City' is seen in most countries.

Post: #4

(11-17-2010 06:05 PM)coleridge Wrote:  I’m thirty-something, an upper-middle class Brazilian, and a serial monogamist, who only rarely cheated.

Fausto? Is that you man? You sound just like a Brazilian kid who I work with!! Funny, I actually see a lof of that from my Brazilian buddies. I know about 3 just off the top pf my head that refuse to cheat on their girl, yet they always want fron-row seats to hear my sleazy sex stories and one-night stands.

Go figure..

Mixx

Post: #5

Weird. Should girls not talk about her preferences in bed and pretend orgasms...? Just lay there and wait? I shouldn't complain about this.
Now, the idea of less feminine women is something to be discussed.

Post: #6

You're right about the double standards, but men nowadays have no balls to stand up to women and tell them an ultimatum like if you kiss a girl that s cheating and you can hit the road......