Post: #1

My GF of two years has this friend she's been hanging out with more lately. She is the epitome of the Hypergamous, EatPrayLove, Solipsist that people like Roosh and CH talk about all the time. It's almost comical to see actual people embody the stereotype so closely in real life. I want to vomit when I'm around her. She's a few years younger than my GF and soon to hit the wall. She's already divorced once, cheated on her husband/high school sweetheart. I needn't go on....

My problem is, how do I get my GF to stop hanging out with her? I really don't want her trolling for Dickwad McHappyhour while I'm hard at work.
I need a strategy to get her away from the infection that is her "friend". How can I make I see the light?

Post: #2

(11-12-2013 10:28 PM)jackaroe Wrote:  My GF of two years has this friend she's been hanging out with more lately. She is the epitome of the Hypergamous, EatPrayLove, Solipsist that people like Roosh and CH talk about all the time. It's almost comical to see actual people embody the stereotype so closely in real life. I want to vomit when I'm around her. She's a few years younger than my GF and soon to hit the wall. She's already divorced once, cheated on her husband/high school sweetheart. I needn't go on....

My problem is, how do I get my GF to stop hanging out with her? I really don't want her trolling for Dickwad McHappyhour while I'm hard at work.
I need a strategy to get her away from the infection that is her "friend". How can I make I see the light?

Be open and honest with her and bring up the negative points that you've
observed about her friend. Being open will get you pretty far. If she doesn't listen to you, it's her problem.

Post: #3

(11-12-2013 10:28 PM)jackaroe Wrote:  My GF of two years has this friend she's been hanging out with more lately. She is the epitome of the Hypergamous, EatPrayLove, Solipsist that people like Roosh and CH talk about all the time. It's almost comical to see actual people embody the stereotype so closely in real life. I want to vomit when I'm around her. She's a few years younger than my GF and soon to hit the wall. She's already divorced once, cheated on her husband/high school sweetheart. I needn't go on....

My problem is, how do I get my GF to stop hanging out with her? I really don't want her trolling for Dickwad McHappyhour while I'm hard at work.
I need a strategy to get her away from the infection that is her "friend". How can I make I see the light?

How can we make you see the light?

Birds of a feather, my friend.

Before I took the red pill I was in relationships with similar dynamics. The slutty best friend.

It's evidence that your girl is also the type to cheat. It's also a certainty that her gf will constantly goad her to hook up with other guys, which is presumably why you're looking to get her out of the picture.

The thing is - if your gf was really, wholly into you after two long years, she should be cutting this kind of girl from her life *herself*. That's what girls do when they are genuinely committing to a guy - they separate from their old party friends. If she isn't pulling away, ask yourself why. You know the answer.

Post: #4

1. Instill dread
2. Get gf to think that hot to trot is moving in on you
3. Fuck the friend
4. Get one of your boys to fuck her

Post: #5

Ask your girlfriend to explain or defend every negative aspect of her friends personality. Don't make it seem like an interrogation, but more of you trying to understand her friend and their relationship. It should seem like you're subtly leading to question why she's so chummy with a contemptible whore.

Post: #6

I think instilling dread is the best option here. I had a g/f in college whose best friend had a similar influence. I wasn't prepared at that time to know what to do.

Her friend would get into seriously relationships with guys for about two months, instantly drop them, then start another "serious relationship." Then one day she decided they had to all move to California. Which they did. Never physically saw any of that crowd of female friends again.

The only way I think I could have countered this influence is by saying "fuck you" to the lot of them first by insisting we date other people before she did. And that might not have even worked.

My ex g/f, by the way, still lives in California, where she and this friend went to do their "eat pray love" thing. The friend came back and settled into a Nice Jewish Girl marriage with a Beta provider who probably has no idea of her past.

These girls, by the way, don't pick anyone they really love or care about when it comes time for marriage. They simply pick whoever is around when the bell rings in their heads telling them it's time to start a family. It's all a game of musical chairs and the "winner" in the marriage contest is the guy who happens to be the closest chair when the music (i.e. carousel) stops.

Post: #7

Break your gf and her up indirectly, get them to fight over something or try to get the friend to like you so your gf will be jealous and hate her. It's easy to break up girl friends, they practically already hate each other.

Telling her to stop talking to her won't work, she'll get defensive.

Post: #8

I just ignore the friend as she tries to conspire against me, and eventually the girlfriend reduces contact with the said friend naturally. Don't attract attention to it or you'll be making a mountain out of a molehill.

Post: #9

Let your gf do whatever she wants, but make it clear that any funny business and you are out. No talking about it. No fighting and drama. You're just ghost and she'll never see you again.

In fact, you should dare her to cheat. You should make it fairly obvious that you love her, but also love chasing strange. The thing keeping you in the relationship is her good behavior. If she strays, you're out and back one the market. It helps if you actually feel that way.

Post: #10

(11-12-2013 10:48 PM)Therapsid Wrote:  Birds of a feather, my friend.

Yup. We are the average of the 5 closest friends we keep. Who we choose to keep around us let's us know who we are.

If you want to know what your girl is thinking or feeling ...you can read it on her best friend's face.

Post: #11

(11-12-2013 10:59 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  4. Get one of your boys to fuck her

This times 10, especially if it's a friend your gf doesn't like.

Post: #12

Unless your seeing a change in your girls behavior i wouldnt worry to much about it. Chick friendships are so fair weather that i wouldnt be surprised if it ended on its own.

Post: #13

(11-13-2013 12:49 AM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  I think instilling dread is the best option here. I had a g/f in college whose best friend had a similar influence. I wasn't prepared at that time to know what to do.

Her friend would get into seriously relationships with guys for about two months, instantly drop them, then start another "serious relationship." Then one day she decided they had to all move to California. Which they did. Never physically saw any of that crowd of female friends again.

The only way I think I could have countered this influence is by saying "fuck you" to the lot of them first by insisting we date other people before she did. And that might not have even worked.

My ex g/f, by the way, still lives in California, where she and this friend went to do their "eat pray love" thing. The friend came back and settled into a Nice Jewish Girl marriage with a Beta provider who probably has no idea of her past.

These girls, by the way, don't pick anyone they really love or care about when it comes time for marriage. They simply pick whoever is around when the bell rings in their heads telling them it's time to start a family. It's all a game of musical chairs and the "winner" in the marriage contest is the guy who happens to be the closest chair when the music (i.e. carousel) stops.

"These girls, by the way, don't pick anyone they really love or care about when it comes time for marriage. They simply pick whoever is around when the bell rings in their heads telling them it's time to start a family. It's all a game of musical chairs and the "winner" in the marriage contest is the guy who happens to be the closest chair when the music (i.e. carousel) stops."

Post: #14

If this chick is a few years younger and soon to hit the wall, doesn't that mean your GF has already hit the wall?

I'd use this chick to get rid of your GF. Birds of a feather and all that, plus she's old.