(05-14-2017 05:06 PM)Vaun Wrote:  Since early April I have lost three inches off my belly; 38" - 35", gotten half way through my workout plan(link NSFW), dropped around 10-15lbs depending on the day. Progress is good in all areas. My next goal is 34". At a 34" waist, I should be near 14% BF. If I can get to 34" by Memorial Day, I will go for 32" by the end of June. That will be the leanest I have ever been since 2005. I will likely be around 12% BF or less.

Nice work! Let's go, motherfucker! At 12% they game you...

14.4% @ 205; 35 1/4"

(05-11-2017 10:24 AM)Truth Tiger Wrote:  When you travel you want to make sure you get some earthing once you're in a new city. I bring a grounding cord and wrist strap with me when I travel for pleasure or business. There is actual science behind this and I've verified it works (I have a physics background). You can go to earthing.com to buy the grounding strap and cord, easy to use and especially if you are not sleeping at ground level, it's essential. It might not be the handiest item to haul around but the Lizard of Oz has an awesome thread on light box therapy which really helps promote proper circadian rhythms. It works amazingly well and yes proper sleep is crucial.

You can look up body weight exercises, Pilates, core stabilization work and get a good sweat going without needing equipment.

Thought i was the only one talking about the earthing cords. Really missing mine here in EE. How are you dealing with the different outlets when traveling?

(05-15-2017 10:22 AM)Jack_Smith Wrote:  

(05-14-2017 04:05 PM)Feldeinsamkeit Wrote:  Although I've managed a couple of dates with young hotties here in Leipzig since the beginning of April, I'm still struggling to get dates with women in the 18-27 age range. Aside from the problem of girls with boyfriends/husbands, I've had a total of 5 girls now tell me that the age difference would be too great, even though the subcommunication after I've opened them had been very good and they'd really responded well to being opened directly by me. At least one of them said she would have dated me had I been younger, but the age difference (I'm 42) was just too big for her.

In fact, one of the features of German society that struck me when I first came here was how unusual it is to spot couples with a big age difference. And if you do spot a couple who differ significantly in age, it's nearly always because the guy has gone foreign and got himself a younger, normally Asian, girlfriend/wife.

Are there any guys on here who manage to bang German women who are 15 or more years younger than they are from running daygame?

I don't know about German girls in particular, but I am 50+, my #1 is 26, 100% of my pipeline is 18 - 32, and my lifetime oldest is 37 and not rising (yet). Here's my advice, all of which I learned first hand in the last year and on this board.

1) Forget about "dating." Extremely rare (and not desirable) for a 20 yo girl to handle the social trauma inherent in publicly dating a man twice her age.

2) Be the quality dick. Give her the sexual adventure girls crave at this age. Help her explore sexually, develop her sexuality, and have mo better orgasms. Sexually escalate every time you fuck.

3) Demand that she fucks you like you're her last every single time. Set that standard.

4) Let her have her bitch ass beta Beard Boi for show and emotional support. Don't be jealous. Encourage this. You don't want that role anyway, it gives her cover and a wedding date, and provides a point of comparison for your bedroom prowess.

In the last week I've been approaching younger sets, i.e. girls from 18 to 25, and it's clear from the body language that many of them are happy about me opening them. My biggest problem, though, aside from the likelihood that they've already got a boyfriend, is that they regard me as obviously too old.

Do you have any advice as to how I could persuade a girl, who is sexually attracted to me, to completely ignore the age difference?

I opened a girl yesterday on campus here and she was clearly into me judging from the way she was investing early on in the interaction, coupled with her body language, but when I asked her out, she said that the age difference was just too big a deal for her. Is there any way in which I can sidestep this issue? I tried making light of what she said, but she just wasn't having any of it.

(05-15-2017 04:06 PM)Feldeinsamkeit Wrote:  Do you have any advice as to how I could persuade a girl, who is sexually attracted to me, to completely ignore the age difference?

If you can get away with it, then lying about your age helps. Can you pass for younger?

(05-15-2017 04:39 PM)BrewDog Wrote:  

(05-15-2017 04:06 PM)Feldeinsamkeit Wrote:  Do you have any advice as to how I could persuade a girl, who is sexually attracted to me, to completely ignore the age difference?

If you can get away with it, then lying about your age helps. Can you pass for younger?

Not really, they seem to clock that I'm quite a bit older than them from the get-go, perhaps because of my grey hairs. And the girl I spoke about yesterday was 23, so a 19 year age difference isn't exactly insignificant, either.

(05-15-2017 04:43 PM)Feldeinsamkeit Wrote:  

(05-15-2017 04:39 PM)BrewDog Wrote:  

(05-15-2017 04:06 PM)Feldeinsamkeit Wrote:  Do you have any advice as to how I could persuade a girl, who is sexually attracted to me, to completely ignore the age difference?

If you can get away with it, then lying about your age helps. Can you pass for younger?

Not really, they seem to clock that I'm quite a bit older than them from the get-go, perhaps because of my grey hairs. And the girl I spoke about yesterday was 23, so a 19 year age difference isn't exactly insignificant, either.

Dont want to harp on this, but age is just a number when you have the right look and vibe. Its all in what you wear and how you act. Tell us about your personal style. I've always found western European women to be very savvy about men, and into vibe.

(05-15-2017 04:43 PM)Feldeinsamkeit Wrote:  

(05-15-2017 04:39 PM)BrewDog Wrote:  

(05-15-2017 04:06 PM)Feldeinsamkeit Wrote:  Do you have any advice as to how I could persuade a girl, who is sexually attracted to me, to completely ignore the age difference?

If you can get away with it, then lying about your age helps. Can you pass for younger?

Not really, they seem to clock that I'm quite a bit older than them from the get-go, perhaps because of my grey hairs. And the girl I spoke about yesterday was 23, so a 19 year age difference isn't exactly insignificant, either.

Well, that's surely an issue then. I don't have any gray unless I let my beard grow out, so I keep it shaved. I think having gray hair or being bald is likely a death knell for younger women. If you dye your hair, will you look young then? It sounds like a pain, but a salon will do it for you.

It seems like the girls like the interaction, but the age is all that's killing their interest?

And what country is this? Germany? Western women think that an age gap is a bad thing. Go to some place where the women don't care. I don't even lie about my age in Colombia unless I'm at a hostel with Westerners. Many Colombian girls don't care. It's a complete non-issue.

(05-15-2017 04:51 PM)BrewDog Wrote:  And what country is this? Germany? Western women think that an age gap is a bad thing. Go to some place where the women don't care.

I dont know BD, I have met and been with many much younger women(10-20 yrs younger) from the UK, France, Germany and Italy. I actually think you're way more likely to find younger women into older men in western Europe.

(05-15-2017 04:06 PM)Feldeinsamkeit Wrote:  Do you have any advice as to how I could persuade a girl, who is sexually attracted to me, to completely ignore the age difference?

If a girl is sexually attracted to you, she's already ignoring the age difference.

(05-15-2017 04:06 PM)Feldeinsamkeit Wrote:  My biggest problem, though, aside from the likelihood that they've already got a boyfriend, is that they regard me as obviously too old.

Do you have any advice as to how I could persuade a girl, who is sexually attracted to me, to completely ignore the age difference?

These are just excuses because the attraction isn't strong enough. Keep at it. Bagging that first one is key. Once you make that pussy sing and get the call back, you will be unstoppable. Cause you will KNOW that you are a gift to that young pussy.

(05-15-2017 04:06 PM)Feldeinsamkeit Wrote:  I opened a girl yesterday on campus here and she was clearly into me judging from the way she was investing early on in the interaction, coupled with her body language, but when I asked her out, she said that the age difference was just too big a deal for her. Is there any way in which I can sidestep this issue? I tried making light of what she said, but she just wasn't having any of it.

Instead of accepting her frame that you are too old, how about asserting your frame that she, like most young girls, likely lacks the substance necessary to merit the attentions of a grown ass man? Work on having her qualify herself to you.

Feld: You're very cute, but I'm not sure about you....
Bitch: why's that??
Feld: Most girls your age aren't together enough to be with a grown man.

Another approach might be to give her your number (with plausible deniability). e.g., "Hit me up if you want to catch that gallery opening." Or whatever shit you talked about, without explicitly asking her for a date.

Last but not least, fuck it. You asked, she answered. Mission accomplished. Move the fuck on and find a little hottie with Daddy issues that will properly worship at the altar of your cock.

(05-15-2017 04:49 PM)Vaun Wrote:  Dont want to harp on this, but age is just a number when you have the right look and vibe. Its all in what you wear and how you act. Tell us about your personal style. I've always found western European women to be very savvy about men, and into vibe.

Spot on. Do you lift, Feld? At 19% Body Fat, was invisible to any fuckable woman, getting play only from fatties and women my age and up. At 13%, I got pulled by my son's teacher, 26 years my junior. No approach required.

I remember I was 42, sojourning in a Spanish city on the Mediterranean. I met an Italian street musician, playing classical guitar.
One night we were in the barrio antiguo (old quarter) on the side of a cathedral.

I've been playing for decades, so I had some pretty fancy stuff to perform, too.
Tourists would stop and listen. One of them was a 19 year old blonde, tall Dutch girl. New in town, essentially alone. She liked what she heard and began talking to my street musician aquaintance and me. I suppose she wanted to get into the real cultural "scene".
We ended up all going, with a few other people, to a classic Spanish bar with live music.
Thought the vibe was good and I asked for her phone number when she was about to leave. She was a bit surprised. I told her we could meet at the beach some time.
I called and texted and....she was vague. Actually ran into her on a street walking to the beach. She said she was busy, going somewhere else......

I actually think I'd have better overall game now than during this situation 10 years ago. I am older, but smoother and more WTF....

(05-16-2017 12:00 AM)Half Century Wrote:  I remember I was 42, sojourning in a Spanish city on the Mediterranean. I met an Italian street musician, playing classical guitar.
One night we were in the barrio antiguo (old quarter) on the side of a cathedral.

Barcelona

If the ground is too exotic then I may not be able to use the cord but in the US that's generally not an issue. For EU, there are adapters or EU-specific sets you can buy from earthing.com.

Age 41 is the perfect age to game girls and women in general.

If you are getting resistant on your age, it is a sign that you need to change something about your appearance.

Gio has some great posts about how to dress, how to stay looking good and how to game young college girls.

(05-16-2017 09:13 AM)rudebwoy Wrote:  Age 41 is the perfect age to game girls and women in general.

If you are getting resistant on your age, it is a sign that you need to change something about your appearance.

Gio has some great posts about how to dress, how to stay looking good and how to game young college girls.

I'd take 41 in a heartbeat...

(05-16-2017 09:49 AM)Jack_Smith Wrote:  

(05-16-2017 09:13 AM)rudebwoy Wrote:  Age 41 is the perfect age to game girls and women in general.

If you are getting resistant on your age, it is a sign that you need to change something about your appearance.

Gio has some great posts about how to dress, how to stay looking good and how to game young college girls.

I'd take 41 in a heartbeat...

I just turned 41. I feel like I can bounce back n forth between younger and more matured styles. Hell I just bought a pair of skinny (well slim fit) jeans, new diamond earring and chain. I'm not really interested in really young girls though, I still prefer 26 and up.
I had a charlie-horse while trying to fuck the other day and that shit completely killed the mood, lol. Been taking Potassium pills since then.
Getting my body in shape is my #1 concern right now.

(05-16-2017 12:16 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  I just turned 41. I feel like I can bounce back n forth between younger and more matured styles. Hell I just bought a pair of skinny (well slim fit) jeans, new diamond earring and chain. I'm not really interested in really young girls though, I still prefer 26 and up.
I had a charlie-horse while trying to fuck the other day and that shit completely killed the mood, lol. Been taking Potassium pills since then.
Getting my body in shape is my #1 concern right now.

Heard; all counts. I am targeting 24-28. Once I get under 12%, I am going to rework my workout to be sexual performance specific - yoga, cardio, etc. Hate to be a bitch about it, but age demands it.

I already prep for a fuck session like pre-game. Carb load the night before. Fast/Shakes only on game day. Lots of water. Supps pregame, including SaltStick for cramping.

I had an ab cramp the other day that looked like that dude in Alien giving birth. Definite mood killer.

(05-15-2017 04:49 PM)Vaun Wrote:  Dont want to harp on this, but age is just a number when you have the right look and vibe. Its all in what you wear and how you act.

I agree with this, and would admit that my style is a little boring.

Any suggestions for improving it?

The biggest mistake I see older guys make are short sleeve button ups or polos. Next are baggy khakis or dad jeans with boring colors. Last thing are logo t-shirts. You can't wear an O'Neill or Nike t-shirt past 12 years old unless you are wearing it as a sweaty gym t-shirt. For t-shirts white, black, grey, navy v-necks only maybe a few other select colors if it matches your skin tone well. Light or heavy sweaters or tailored long sleeve button ups are a much better option. Hell a tank top you make out of a cool graphic design, art, or vintage t-shirt for summer wear beats the shit out of a boxy plaid short sleeve button up you got on sale from JC Penny.

The only older guys that look good in a polo or short sleeve are buff and tan, even then there are better options as mentioned when targeting younger hot chicks. No hot chicks in their 20s love the baggy khaki or dad jeans looks. Need a slim fit slacks or jeans with interesting color/wash.

No casual dress shoes that look like your grandma bought you them from Ross when you were 18 for graduation.

The last sin is wearing business casual ware around as date or pickup chick wear. Have to be careful what blazers etc you pick.

As gmanifesto would say there is your 9-5 suit (boring accountant gear) then there is your 9-5 suit (player, nightlife gear) ....

^I co sign with what you wrote here.

Personally, I think older dudes should stay away from suits unless it is for work. It screams provider and that is a look no one on this thread wants.

Being over 40, you should have a few bucks to spend on decent garments.

Again clothing is just an accessory to cover up your nice body.

Lose the belly boys.

...
^^ Over 50, unless you are a rock star or playing provider, super tight appearance is the price of entry to the pussy marketplace.

Over 50 Appearance Checklist

1) FITNESS of body
...* Is your Body Fat <14%?
...* Can you Squat 1.6X, Deadlift 2X, and Bench 1.2X your body weight or better?
...* Do you, objectively, look better naked than 99% of the men your age?
...* Do you, objectively, look better naked than 90% of the men your target bitch's age?

2) MATCH of personal style with value prop & target bitch
...* Can you define your target bitch (beyond appearance)? Age range, occupation, hobbies, education level, socio-economic class, profession, ethnicity, habitat (bar/restaurant, school, church, hobbies, nightlife, etc.)?
...* Can you explain why your target bitch wants to fuck you? Lifestyle, daddy issues, sexual exploration, money?
...* Do you have a fashion "look" that is consistent with your value prop?
...* Is your look attractive to your target bitch, adaptable to her habitat, and comfortable for you?
...* Do you present little details that will catch your target bitch's eye?
...* Is your grooming on point? Nose/back/ear hair, pubs, nails, skin, hair, teeth?

3) FIT of clothing
...* Do you understand what proper tailoring is?
...* Does your shit fit?

^I feel that list can apply to almost any age group.

(05-17-2017 10:25 AM)rudebwoy Wrote:  ^I feel that list can apply to almost any age group.

Heard. I think the margin of error diminishes as we age, and therefore the bar goes up.

...

AARP Player's Guide to Market-Based Body Fat Assessment

Stage 1 - No woman under 70 looks at you. This means you're over 18% body fat, rockin Dad Bod, and have the fashion sense of a wrestling coach. Unfuckable. Confine your diet to boiled chicken breast and establish residence in the squat rack.

Stage 2 - Fat chicks and women over 60 give you the eye. This means you're 15-16% Body Fat and look like you may not be a complete schmuck. Potentially fuckable. Now put down that fuckin donut and get your ass back in the squat rack before you squander your gains on fat chicks.

Stage 3 - You catch attractive women (HB5-7) of all ages giving you the eye and smiles. 14%. Fuckable. Barely. Bang that 26 yo HB6 and get back under the bar.

Stage 4 - You get approached by girls in their 20s. 12-13%. Totally fuckable. Have fun! You earned it. Don't forget your chicken breasts and squats.

Stage 5 - TBD...


Nothing motivates me to run my donut down the disposal and get back under the bar like a fat bitch with the audacity to give me the sex eye.