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God fucking damnit. I was in SB this past weekend; Would have been down to meet up.

I just missed out on a huge learning experience.

Glad to know we're all experiencing the same thing though. I still can't believe how easy the girls are and I have almost no game.
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(09-02-2014 08:25 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  Travesty's Triple Bang Labor Day Weekend:

Part I of III

Note: I have continued experiencing large troubles with approaching and getting dates with 24-28yos either on day game pick up downtown or night number crunches. Especially girls living here a year or more. I think in that age range the numbers are skewed in their favor, because the pussy 23-40yo guys here won't go after college chicks often enough. More for me.

381 in.

Thursday I had a date with an OKC girl. She is 20yo 5'4" 105lbs 34C looks like a 7.0-7.1 plump ass, bright blue eyes, fair skin, dark reddish hair.

On OKC her profile was near empty. I looked at her photos and she had an awkward and uncomfortable smile face selfie in a photo. I messaged that she looked like she was sitting on something uncomfortable.

She messaged back "that's a first" then "but you're attractive enough to get away with it"

Then I message "so you work alot, eat tons of sushi, and sit on uncomfortable things, what makes you my kinda girl?"

All messaging lines credit to YoungBlood on the Tinder thread.

She goes off on a paragraph trying to prove her worth. Number crunch. Date set up.

I have set up my own bang recipe after experimenting with many venues here in SB.

This particular venue is decently well-lit, open, somewhat chatty, with pool tables etc... it is a friendly medium energy vibe. Plus it has enough room to hide away and poor vodka into underage cranberry juices.

With underage dates I have began the practice of purchasing 4 tiny airplane bottles of vodka. When a 18-20yo girl texts me she isn't old enough to drink I just push and say "meet me there its fine". I stuff the bottles into my pockets.

I believe a flask is too shady and you can't see it. Little sealed airplane bottles are perfect for concealing and showing the girl it isn't roofied or whatever.

I get to the venue first which is 2 blocks from my place. I see her stroll in. She is a 7.3. Heels, tight pants, a sheer blouse top with ample cleavage. She has a bit of a working class girl vibe which I like. The outfit is a bit gaudy but you can tell she is more down to earth than upper class SoCal bitches that get daddy's credit card.

I don't chase her I sit and watch her in the corner. She soon gets her phone out to text me. I text back "im here". I see her look around and I catch her glance and motion her over with my hand from the bar stool.

I compliment her immediately on her heels for being a sexy woman that puts in the effort. She is very smiley and warm and low key and shy.

We get to talking and have fun. I ask her if she would drink vodka if I could get her one. I order a vodka for myself and a plain cranberry juice for her from the waitress. I show my date the airplane bottle under the table. She loves the idea and says thats her usual style. After getting her vodka cran sorted we play pool and flirt.

I kick her ass royally and have one of the best pool performances of my life. After almost all her balls are left she asks for technique on her shot.

She is prancing around the pool table in heels with cleaving and skin tight pants. I love my life right now.

We go play some arcade shooter game next. Somewhere in between I poor her a second vodka cran. Her family owns guns so she's into it. I still beat her by a bit.

I say we should go grab some smokes and go up on roof to look at the stars. This has become my go to since I found out a few months ago I have easy access to my next door neighbors big flat roof that connects to my roof. It is quite a nice little view of mountains, palm trees, and stars.

She gives no resistance and seems happy to come.

We get up on the roof with a beach blanket, sit, smoke, and drink our drinks.

I usually go for the kiss in the venue, but this was going so smoothly I didn't want to kink the build up. We had that look where sparks are flying and it was completely in my control when to make the move. I love that feeling because it means she is already submitted I know there will be no LMR because I can tell she is already being teased by me. We make out then I break away before her and tell her to climb higher to the peak of the roof. We build more comfort talking about our lives up there.

She asks why is a guy like me online. She says I have a party vibe. I say I am tired of the bar/club girls etc... which I sort of am.

We get down back to my living room. Soon we make out and I drag her on top to straddle me on the couch. I lift/carry her back to the bedroom and end up banging with zero resistance, and pretty much the most fun eye contact etc.. from a bang I've had in awhile.

It felt like having a major crush in high school which is good to know my
soul has not died yet.

She ends up leaving in a cab later because I have work the next day and am about to pass out.

Lessons:
-Push fast for a number and date when you have leverage.
-Airtight logistics.
-Airtight bait to get home.
-Have fun with the girl. Genuinely have a great time.
-One lay with an extremely fun cute girl you have chemistry with is worth 10 bangs with soulless bar/club slut.



where are you getting sealed airplane bottles of vodka? I have not considered this, and it is perfect for all of the reasons you state.

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^ Yes I credit Gio a long time ago for stating how he would take small sealed
liquor out to parks with girls under 21 and pour into the Gatorade or whatever in front of them so there is trust.

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These IV bitches drive me insane, even if they have a car a 9 mile 20min drive is like going to the fucking moon.

Even in a walkable and public transport city like Chicago and NYC it probably takes that long at least to get to someone's place lol. It is such a bubble it's unreal. In LA, OC, and even SD anything under 30min is great.

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(09-04-2014 05:33 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  These IV bitches drive me insane, even if they have a car a 9 mile 20min drive is like going to the fucking moon.

Even in a walkable and public transport city like Chicago and NYC it probably takes that long at least to get to someone's place lol. It is such a bubble it's unreal. In LA, OC, and even SD anything under 30min is great.

Yeah, that's how students view State Street in general. Some of the freshmen are interested in it just because of the novelty, but people under 21 usually don't want to leave UCSB/IV. State Street's seen as a foreign place that you don't go to unless you're taking the Greyhound home or getting your phone fixed. I suggest either doing your utmost to get yourself into their place. You could also drink/smoke with the girl after classes are over, head over to the beach or some appropriate building, and then try and escalate there. I'd actually suggest some spot on campus over the beach, since it's very cold and the tide is unpredictable. One of my friends was fucking a girl on the beach when the tide suddenly surged; him and the girl literally got dragged out to sea and had to swim for their lives lol.
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(09-04-2014 05:33 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  a 9 mile 20min drive is like going to the fucking moon.

9 miles! A 20 minute drive!

Yeah, that's a tough one for many college girls!

They don't want to drive drunk, they don't want to sleep at your house, they don't want to be too far from their friends, they don't want to be too far from their home base.

The whole point of living in a "college bubble" is that you don't have to drive anywhere! Everything should be within walking or biking distance.

School, food, parties, sex, etc. Everything should be right there in the neighborhood!

I can't say that I blame these girls..

I used to drive all over the city chasing girls! It was a waste of time!

Now, I try to only date girls who live within 5 miles of my house!

It just makes everything so much easier.

At a commuter school, traveling is no big deal. But, at a school like UCSB where everyone lives close to campus, driving 20 minutes just seems like a bad logistical plan (for the girls who live near campus).
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Yep it's a choice.

The State St. logisitcs have provided for me repeatedly. There are SBCC (less than 1mi from me) girls living this way and upperclass UCSB girls. I should game at SBCC more often...

If I ever moved away from State St. it would be to IV.

I'd say about 25% of IV girls are cool with going to State for a first meet. Only about 5-10% would be good with a consistent hook up at that distance. Tons of these girls have roommates in their room or living in big houses so getting snuck in as the hookup is tougher than just having her come to my place.

As long as I live on State I think I will switch my plan to always meet the girl first on campus or IV and build comfort (done this before a handful of times but never converted to a bang). Many girls are down to meet but I think once they let my age sink in (even tho I lie I'm 25) the fact I am not an undergrad and am not living in IV makes them cool off quickly. I think I should also wait as long as possible to say I live near State. I've tried to use it as DHV bait before but the odds are stacked against menit is only a DHV to about 10% of the girls.

There is a chance I may move to IV in the next year so I may as well tell them I plan to move to IV to build more comfort along with my "planning to go to grad school at UCSB" story.

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^^^HAH yeah I've dealt with that before..."Oh state street ?" "that's too far" "why would you go there ?"

It seems like the older crowd/alumni hang around state street unless its a holiday weekend, then more venture out.

SBCC isn't bad either man.

It's been awhile since I've been to IV.

I'm thinking a Freedbirds run up to SB should be in the works, get some lessons from you Trav hah !

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5 miles?

Damn, I thought my 50 mile range was okay. Then again, I live in suburbia sprawl.

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^ 9mi to be exact but, yes the rest of SoCal is fine with a 20 min drive to date, it is practically standard.

To alleviate this I went to scope SBCC right next to my house after work at 5:30. Fall semester is 2 weeks in the girls are back there.

Campus was a ghost town by that time. 1 40+ landwhale and one girl with a great body amd hair but a slight man face.

I may try tomorrow during the day.

UCSB if you stick by the library you could get a good handful of approaches in every hour til 9pm or so during the year. I don't do that but it is possible. 5pm could still easily yield 4 solid approaches in a half hour.

I don't like gaming IV because girls are often out with or run into friends etc.. they seem easier to get solo on campus. If I lived in IV I would probably day game IV much more.

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390 in.

Proud of myself today. Forced myself to go back to SBCC today after work. Last Friday I went and it was a ghost town at 5:30. Today the opportunities were plentiful up until about 6pm.

I think the key for SBCC is to stay on the grassy gnoll on the west side of the bridge that cuts the campus in half or post up on the east side of the bridge. If you want to go indirect ask girls for directions that are looking like they are going to cross bridge. Ask for directions to a building on the other side. Say you are bad with maps etc... half always want to bring it up on their phone and point. I say I am dyslexic with maps.

1. 7.0 19yo brunette, bright blue eyes 5'4" in tight workout pants and a tank top. I went indirect and asked where the Language Building is because I want to study Spanish. She wanted to help really bad but had no clue where it was. She planted her feet toward me and I asked more follow up questions about the professors and students etc... I was shocked the first approach was going so well I froze up. It takes me a little bit to warm up to new environments, but I am getting faster the more approaches I do. I let her walk. I am pretty sure if she didn't have a BF I could have gotten her out. This is why I need more experience and have not leveled off I still make newbie mistakes.

2. 7.5 5'8" 18yo long hair blonde with warm brown eyes and a tan. Very very good looking. I rate hard too these girls don't have make up on or dresses much of the time you may add a 0.5-1.0 to most of my ratings if these girls were dressed up in Vegas. Went indirect again with the Language building directions, but she was in a hurry to get to class. This is why I like going direct on some girls that are in "busy" mode it seems like one of the few things to shock them out of it.

3. 19yo 8+ body 6.3 face blonde in extremely tight work out close, could see thigh gap and camel toe walking toward me big turn on. Big problem though she looked like she knew she was hot. She had that hot bitch look.

I am starting to take the wisdom of the forum and add to my own that girls with that "I'm hot and I know it look" are terrible targets for direct game. They are overconfident. Even being super indirect with directions doesn't work well because they are not used to helping people and hate it. The best bet I believe is to go Gio style and compliment their style or something they wear. Maybe throw in a Heartiste after you compliment something then say "yeah I see plenty of girls wearing that exact same thing!" to make her feel less unique as a hidden neg.

Bottom line I borderline blew out. She was not at all flattered and kept slowly walking away as we were exchanging a couple words.

I pussed out on a few other easy approaches that were hot as well and from my wisdom would have been more receptive. I said fuck it my goal is to go direct with hot young girls until one turns into a bang. I want to do this at least once in my life in day game.

At UCSB I went direct on 2 girls.

1. 7.1 5'3" 20yo cutest little brunette you've ever seen in a short little flower dress and boots. That type of cute that is almost hotter than a hot chick's hotness. Went direct and complimented her dress. Her reaction made my day. Extremely flattered and I could tell she was attracted to me. Too bad she had a boyfriend when I asked her to hangout. Her feminity and reactions were honestly a better feeling than if I got offered a handjob from the same girl. This is what makes approaching worthwhile in the middle of a grind.

2. 8 body, face covered by big sun glasses redhead 5'9" skinny with epic tits pressing again an open vest she wore. Weed button on her backpack. Went direct, up close though she had big gaps in her front teeth. I could surmise if she took the glasses off may not be as attractive as I thought. She was late for class, and blew me off very politely.

I am going to go back to SBCC after work one of these days but change my clothes a bit from my casual work clothes, throw on a backwards hat, sneakers, and a small back pack etc...

The feeling at CC is a little more lower class with dudes with tatts and a little thug vibe. The local "high school 2" kids go here as well of many out of towners that want to transfer to UCSB. The students honestly just look dumber. Most of the the girls don't look quite as pleasant. I am sure they party as hard if not harder than many UCSB kids. I get a bit of a drug scene feeling just walking around especially from the guys there.[/align]

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cc is hit or miss. people there live everywhere. move to it in the simmer, it's cheap then

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^ SBCC talent is strong no doubt it's not hit or miss it is just being on campus at the right time. It felt like a good 1/3 or so were 7+ which is great. The vast majority being 18-19 of course.

I saw a couple legit 8s and I was there for a short period late in the day.

My quite as pleasant comment about the chicks referred to being smiley and happy.

On UCSB campus they are all gleeful and happy riding their beach cruisers theough campus with sun dresses and long flowing sun streaked hair. SBCC girls don't look quite as happy to be there even though the view on campus is incredible, a cliff over looking a beach and the ocean and mountains surrounding it with a harbor in the distance lol.

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(09-08-2014 09:09 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  390 in.

Proud of myself today. Forced myself to go back to SBCC today after work. Last Friday I went and it was a ghost town at 5:30. Today the opportunities were plentiful up until about 6pm.

I didn't go to SBCC but I did went to a community college before I transferred to UCSB. On Fridays, the campus on my school was dead. The majority of the students that were there on a Friday had a science lab or an art class. The bulk of the classes at my CC didn't meet on Friday. So, I assume it is the same at SBCC.

(09-08-2014 09:09 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  I am going to go back to SBCC after work one of these days but change my clothes a bit from my casual work clothes, throw on a backwards hat, sneakers, and a small back pack etc...

The feeling at CC is a little more lower class with dudes with tatts and a little thug vibe. The local "high school 2" kids go here as well of many out of towners that want to transfer to UCSB. The students honestly just look dumber. Most of the the girls don't look quite as pleasant. I am sure they party as hard if not harder than many UCSB kids. I get a bit of a drug scene feeling just walking around especially from the guys there.[/align]

I haven't been to SBCC but the vibe at my CC was similar to what you described. There were definitely more fuck ups (to put it bluntly) at my CC and there were more students from a lower economic class. There were also a lot of students in their mid 20's (23-26) at my school who were also working either full time or part time. Overall, you are going to have more economically diverse student body at community college than a four year college based from my experience.

I haven't met many SBCC kids but the ones I have do a lot of drugs. To put in perspective, I was at a party where a few SBCC students decided to do lines of coke on the kitchen counter in front of everybody. The host of the party saw what they were doing, got really pissed, and kicked them out haha.
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(09-09-2014 02:36 AM)Travesty444 Wrote:  On UCSB campus they are all gleeful and happy riding their beach cruisers theough campus with sun dresses and long flowing sun streaked hair. SBCC girls don't look quite as happy to be there even though the view on campus is incredible, a cliff over looking a beach and the ocean and mountains surrounding it with a harbor in the distance lol.

Based on my experience, a lot of people see a community college as a transitory phase. In other words, everyone is trying to get the fuck out of there as quickly possible. This is one of the big reasons why it is a lot harder to make 'real' friends or develop a strong social circle in a community college than a four year college. The other big reason is that you have more people that commute to a community college than four year college.

Having said that, a lot of these girls that you game might have one of these characteristics/perspectives:

-sees a community college as a transitory phase; trying to get the fuck out of there as quickly as possible
-disappointed with their social life, has a shitty social life
-live at their a parents house (at my community college this was almost a guarantee, not sure about SBCC though)
-has shitty job and trying to get by
-party girl, does a shit a load of drugs, aka fucked up
-reformed party girl but still fucked up
-commutes (in my community college this was also common, not sure about SBCC though)
-a combination of the above points.

Again I am not sure how applicable this is at SBCC since SBCC sort of has 'college experience' due to the fact that a lot of students live in IV. There are also 'freshman dorms' for students that are going to SBCC. This might effect points two and three. However, a lot of girls from out of town come to SBCC.

Additionally, I have met a good amount girls from SBCC that live in or near downtown, which benefits you since you live near downtown.

Having said that, I think that logistically speaking you will probably have easier time to find a girl that is DTF. Furthermore, it is a lot easier to blend in community college and spam approach since, in your case, there are more older people that attend a CC and it is harder to run into the same person again than in a four year college.

I kinda wish I spammed approached in my community college since I would rarely run into anyone I knew.

Another point I would like to add is that at my community college a lot of girls dropped out or went MIA at the middle of the semester since they either fucked up in the classes and dropped, or couldn't crash into their classes and gave up. This might be common at SBCC.
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You shouldn't be surprised that you are not seeing a lot of these girls again. You think you are fucking them but they are ones fucking you Smile As women become more like men they are also acting like them sexually. They want sex when they want it and they want to sample the goods. You and most guys are giving girls exactly what they want and when they want it. Guys are still running around thinking oh, I fucked this girl, now I've got her. No, the girls are fucking you and you don't have shit. For a girl to want to see you again, she has to be "emotionally" invested in you or you have to really good sexually to her. A girl cannot be emotionally invested in you after just a night of drunk sex. She probably can't even remember clearly what actually happened.

Girls today are using men for sex and we are still run around thinking that we are seducing them. This is all part of the "hookup culture." Wink
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(09-10-2014 12:32 AM)Nomad77 Wrote:  You shouldn't be surprised that you are not seeing a lot of these girls again. You think you are fucking them but they are ones fucking you Smile As women become more like men they are also acting like them sexually. They want sex when they want it and they want to sample the goods. You and most guys are giving girls exactly what they want and when they want it. Guys are still running around thinking oh, I fucked this girl, now I've got her. No, the girls are fucking you and you don't have shit. For a girl to want to see you again, she has to be "emotionally" invested in you or you have to really good sexually to her. A girl cannot be emotionally invested in you after just a night of drunk sex. She probably can't even remember clearly what actually happened.

Girls today are using men for sex and we are still run around thinking that we are seducing them. This is all part of the "hookup culture." Wink

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^ Lol just read those replies yeah it is true especially with college chicks.

396 in.

Saw a perfect stereotype of an SB girl. 21yo 5'9 blonde sun kissed hair thin tan beach shape bright blue eyes showing a lot of skin in a tank and short shorts. 7.2 for me because I am harsh a high 7 for others.

A 10 for IRT.

Saw her 200 yards away walking perpendicular and away from me. Shoulda been a sniper or jet fighter.

I had to cover 300 yards+ at a double pace walk to catch up around corners and buildings.

I just knew from her walk without seeing her face she'd be a friendly carefree chick. I am glad I have the ability to spot these almost immediately.

Luckily she was walking her bike. Caught her 10sec before disappearing into a bathroom.

Went direct tried to banter and form a connection as the time constraint was tight.

Asked her out for coffee she agrees number crunch. We are going outta town at different times soon so couldn't see her for 2 weeks which sucks my chances are low.

I may send her some rapport texts sporadically over 2 weeks to keep her attention.

Behind logisitics I think timing is the 2nd most critical component that affects forming a quick connection.

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(05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!

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Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems
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420 in.

Labor day weekend 2nd bang was a closing time dunken makeout 29yo little 6 looked 24ish good body blah face.

3rd was a 22yo 7.0 half black half mexican bar waitress with some tatts at same venue as 2nd bang number close. I flirted with her for months always had a bf...

She invited me over the Sunday morning of that weekend to have sex and smoke weed, not bad...

Anyways, this Halloween went out all 3 nights.

Got a 25yo 7.2 half Korean half white slutty sailor outfit
smiled at me coming out of a bar I approach immediately she is drunk and invites me to the next bar.
Immediately get fireball shots and make out with her. Get her grinding me and making out on the dancefloor. She gets too drunk I number close to meet her later. She ends up getting too drunk to be let into bars lol. I see her the next day for a day date, couldn't get back with her same night. On the date we makeout but she is not down to come back to my place as she is on vacation here with friends. She wants me to come visit her 90min away to bang probably. It's on the way to my family's house so I may drop by.

Later in the night I get the number of 7.5 24yo tall blonde, her roommate loves me and begs me to ask the girl out. Number close and with best friend approval I think it's a strong lead. She was attached to her friend group so couldn't isolate easily. Plus it was Halloween so unless a chick is immediately DTF I move on....

This blonde chick couldn't meet this Wednesday for a date 1 due to her new project for her job she is leading. Damn women's careerism is a double edge sword of cockblocking then easy sex...

I am working slowly on an 18yo doctor in training cute little freshman Filipina. Date 2 I got the cheek when going for the kiss. She wants to surf with me and has not gotten drunk in her first 3 months at college. I belirve her, she is obsessed with school. I think she's a virgin. Willing to out in the work because of the challenge she is aloof with me. Sometimes I think young girls have the best game out there as they have no thought desperation as many older chicks do.

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(05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!

WestIndianArchie Wrote:Am I reacting to her? No pussy, all problems
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Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems
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430 in.

Need advice guys. Got an 18yo filipina bookworm doctor in training. 1 instadate and 2 more dates.

Got the cheek on date 2 for a kiss. She's been flaky abd delayed with me so I've returned the favor two-fold.

I'm getting her to go surfing for the first time. We were texting today to set it up for Sunday. I just randomly ran into her in person. Her last text was warm asking what I had in mind for Sunday...

In person she was a bit distant acted like she was in a hurry even though she was just headed home for the day. Also stood a good 8 feet away. I talked about the upcoming weekend. She was seeming warm to hanging out. Went for the goodbye hug and got a side shoulder hug...

She doesn't drink much if at all and has a high likelihood of virgin or N of 2 or less for background info.

Question: Should I drop the chick being this physically distant after 2 dates and a cheek kiss? Or is this what you get with a school obsessed good girl that doesn't drink?

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(05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!

WestIndianArchie Wrote:Am I reacting to her? No pussy, all problems
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Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems
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3 dates for a cheek kiss!? You are investing too much time in this 18 year old. I recommend 21 and up so you can at least have dates with alcohol and way better chances for success. Actually, this is one of the reasons why I hate gaming on college's, you never know whose underage. By the way, how old are you?
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You obviously don't know my rap if you are advocating ignoring 18-20yos Laugh

I just got a number from 19yo campus daygame today, I asked her for coffee she balked, then I said or a drink. She came back with well I can't legally drink, but I can get a drink heh.

The good girl virgin thing is a good challenge if she was a random 23yo I'd have dropped her.

I am pretty well versed at getting 18-20 to drink public places. That's not a problem this one is just more difficult. If she won't heavy makeout next date I am dropping her. Just wanted to know from guys with experience with 18yo's what they think the odds are.

She is a girl that is in a bunch of academic clubs and even went to a student Christian meeting directly after our last date... if she is a virgin like I suspect the juice could be worth the squeeze.

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(05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!

WestIndianArchie Wrote:Am I reacting to her? No pussy, all problems
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Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems
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(11-12-2014 11:56 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  29.

You obviously don't know my rap if you are advocating ignoring 18-20yos Laugh

I just got a number from 19yo campus daygame today, I asked her for coffee she balked, then I said or a drink. She came back with well I can't legally drink, but I can get a drink heh.

The good girl virgin thing is a good challenge if she was a random 23yo I'd have dropped her.

I am pretty well versed at getting 18-20 to drink public places. That's not a problem this one is just more difficult. If she won't heavy makeout next date I am dropping her. Just wanted to know from guys with experience with 18yo's what they think the odds are.

She is a girl that is in a bunch of academic clubs and even went to a student Christian meeting directly after our last date... if she is a virgin like I suspect the juice could be worth the squeeze.

Sounds like she's very conservative and/or very shy (pecking on the cheek).

It might be worth the squeeze I'd give it 2 more hangouts max and see what happens.

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#441

Ok guys I just approached a chick direct on campus.

I say hi you're tall and cute, she says you're tall and cute too. We chat I go for the number she asks my age I lie 25 (youngest I can get away with) she buys I say I am a grad student (lie) she buys.

I'm only 20!!! She responds. Lol.

Girls and age here it's a bitch I am glad she buys I am 25 so easily maybe I should try 23.

What I really need to try is guess and she what age they say... I haven't done that in a long time because I doubt they will guess lower than 25, just might have to see.

Wouldn't let me take her number, got mine...

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(05-19-2016 12:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  If I talk to 100 19 year old girls, at least one of them is getting fucked!

WestIndianArchie Wrote:Am I reacting to her? No pussy, all problems
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Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems
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442:

Had an 8 blonde nordic chick eye fuck me several times as she left the coffee shop I was on campus.

Was standing in line. Proud of myself I gotta outta line set my shit down went after her and went direct with her.

She was extremely sweet and seemed very attracted compared to most of my approaches. Even though she was going to take a test she was relaxed, sexy, and patient with me. She is of course an exchange student leaving in 2 weeks and has a BF.

I need to leave this country I never get IOI's and pleasant conversation from American chicks near that caliber. Conversation with her was more memorable than 75% of my bangs!

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Is she reacting to me? All pussy, no problems
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